I don't think I'm really red pill or blue pill, but probably lean more towards the red side. I don't really use this website too much either, nor this sub.
Humans are a hybrid sexual species. We have members who are able to pair bond and form monogamous relationships, you can perform brain scans on certain people and analyze the way dopamine binds in the D1 and D2 nucleus accumbens and how pair bonding behavior emerges from this.

Most people, however, are tournament style sexuality, and humans have been a tournament style species for most of our evolutionary history. This is no longer needed in the modern era, is violence against men, and as we develop more sophisticated gene-modding techniques for humans, we should, and have a moral imperative to, eliminate tournament style selection from the species and implement monogamous pair-bonding for everyone. A form of technocratic soft-eugenics.