Chad isn't real

alreadyredschool · 2017-08-20T13:16:30+00:00

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Fdreal · 2017-08-20T06:23:12+00:00

Chad just represents any guy that has very high SMV. They get things from women much easier than lower SMV men ever would. Not that hard of a concept.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2017-08-20T09:59:12+00:00

If Chad isn't real then women aren't people.

Because that would mean women are virtuous, deep and omniscient to the point of being able to see right through your looks and game. If you aren't getting laid, that's because wooooomen can see that you're insecuuuuure deep inside!

BP pedestalization and objectification 101

squidracer · 2017-08-20T07:05:29+00:00

Of course Chad is real. He's what's considered a high smv guy.

It's just silly to think all men are in the same playing field. Some have very obvious advantages.

Carkudo · 2017-08-20T11:16:19+00:00

we may just be boring and undesirable people

Yeah, you know, when the same woman is uninterested in talking about her own interests in a conversation with me, but is absolutely entranced by "shit I danced sooooo much at the party last night" coming from some jacked dudebro, I think the Chad stereotype holds enough water to be useful and accurate.

Bottom0ftheBarrel · 2017-08-20T07:58:54+00:00

Chad is the dude your crush has a crush on. It's the guy who can do the things you can't do. It's the guy who beats you at everything you try. Chad's the guy who is just better.

Most times, Chad is simply the popular and desirable guy that has no trouble getting laid whenever he wants.

GuitarsAreGettingOld · 2017-08-20T06:44:57+00:00

People who have never seen a Chad moment in real-life, (preferably with a woman they know and then see how she acts completely out of character around him) should stop talking about Chad. And stop thinking about Chad.

notworthmuch20xx · 2017-08-20T06:13:34+00:00

Yet the fact that we might be undesirable suggests that there are men who are desirable. And what makes them so?

Dominic_Badguy · 2017-08-20T06:26:24+00:00

If you think that the guys the women who rejected you are going for are like these mythical perfect beings then it makes the rejection a little easier to take.

nazis_are_socialists · 2017-08-20T12:44:24+00:00

True, Chad isn't real. He's the archetype alpha male, who has the best genetics and exhibits alpha behavior 100% of the time no matter what. No human is capable of that. The concept of Chad helps TRPers differentiate between what's alpha and what's beta so they know what to strive for if they want to increase any alpha qualities in themselves. What's wrong with that?

So no, he is not a "coping mechanism". Nor is he the only man that girls will spread their legs for...if you understood the AF/BB dichotomy, you'd realize that women spread their legs for beta men as well.

It's not shaming women to say that they're attracted to Chad. Why wouldn't they be? It's how they're biologically wired. Shaming them for how they're wired is like shaming the sky for being blue. It would be completely pointless. You only see it as shaming because you are blue pill.

nontrollingaccount · 2017-08-20T12:59:45+00:00

There are definitely men that have disportionate amount of sex and relationships than average men.

TheBlackQuill · 2017-08-20T06:32:27+00:00

Chad represents guy's insecurity when it comes to getting girls... More specifically, chad will represent what the guy is lacking... If a guy feels insecure that his height is the reason he doesn't get any girls, then chad will be a tall guy. if it is wealth, then chad is going to be a very rich guy, etc... This is why there is no consensus what chad is exactly look like because a guy feel insecure about different things they are lacking.

Willow-girl · 2017-08-20T11:48:00+00:00

No, Chad actually exists! I've known a couple of them. One was my neighbor back home who was kinda legendary for his exploits with women. Even had a mangled leg from getting shot by a jealous husband as he was trying to escape out a bedroom window, lol.

(BTW the guy wasn't unusually good-looking or jacked or anything; he just had tons of game.)

Temperfuelmma · 2017-08-20T06:47:01+00:00

Chad as a physical specimen definitely makes a woman go "Wow that guy look good" but it wouldn't be followed by "Wow my boyfriend doesn't compare to him" that thought will be overridden by "but I still love my boyfriend not him".

Most people don't realize this but two things matter: Chemistry and emotional attachment.

The ultimate power you can have over a woman is to be able to affect her state of emotion.

Other than that, your personality and hers should balance out. Kind of like, if she's a 8 in terms of submissiveness you should be a 8 in terms of dominance. It's kind of hard to explain but the more soft she is the more hard you have to be and then the chemistry clicks.

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DashneDK2 · 2017-08-20T12:13:03+00:00

Every guy has his own definition of Chad. My definition is the guy who’s a real fucking goofbag in some way or another – yet still have more success with the girlies than yourself. Like it’s blindingly obvious to you that he’s an idiot, yet the girls still fall for him. I used to kinda hate Chad, and hate the girls for going with Chad rather than me. Now I just mostly see it as nature trying to select for the best genes.

Title	Chad isn't real
Author	55togo
Upvotes	16
Comments	50
Date	August 20, 2017 6:09 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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