[Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?

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MarriedLifter · 2016-09-01T11:32:10+00:00

05:30 Roll out of bed and start STEM-lording for money at home.

06:30 Grab a protein bar and check my macros. Enter about half my planned food for the day into my smart phone.

07:30 Break to take the kids to school.

11:30 Start to slow down, maybe look at client emails, eat lunch.

14:30 Go to the gym and lift.

16:00 Eat another lunch. (Fuck my protein macros. No man should ever have to eat that much chicken breast in one meal, so I eat a lot of meals.)

16:30 One of: Clean up, slack off, go shopping, screw around online, or maybe meet with a client. On deadlift days, I slowly wander about in a state of shock instead.

18:30 Eat dinner with my family, hang out with the kids, then get them ready for bed.

20:30 Watch a really good TV series with my wife.

22:30 Eat again. (No, really, fuck my protein macros.)

Optional extras: Friends over for dinner. Meetups. Hiking for a couple of miles. Mutually enthusiastic sex with my wife.

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T08:39:57+00:00

I'm a 30 year old man and still single. I'm about 5'4", white and have red hair. I seem to appear 100% irish, even though it only makes up a quarter of my ethnicity. I have an athletic build and cocky demeanor developed from years of wresting as a kid, but I still carry a very youthful and friendly smile. People always say I look like Michael j. Fox, Seth Green, Ed Sheeran, or whatever celebrity of the day fits that description.

My usual day consists of going to work and coming home. I have a pseudo gf who is only 20 years old. She is pseudo-gf because we're more fuck buddies than anything else. Sometimes, I go lift but I've really been slacking lately.

I used to be heavy into TRP. Now, I consider it mostly a joke. The real world is far different than the ridiculous stories and theory's told on TRP.

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T07:12:35+00:00

Alright so here is my average day. Pic of myself at the bottom.

730am-ish : wakeup, cuddles and more with the SO usually.

8am: get out of bed, hop into shower after doing some push ups/situps / other morning workout stretches and stuff

830am: have breakfast, drink some tea, read a book or read reddit. Just slowly wake up.

9am-ish: intersperse doing my hair, makeup, getting dressed, etc with reading some more. SO usually wakes up around now so he will join me for morning chit chat. He usually assembles my lunch.

940am: leave for work. Jam to music as I drive. Feel pretty cool and get pumped up for the day ahead.

10am: start work. I work at a bank and do lots of different things that take up a bunch of time. Lots of paperwork and I have no time in the day to relax or surf the Internet, I'm kept busy with all the different tasks. I really enjoy this. Lunch is usually around 1pm where I will eat my lunch and read, maybe chat with coworkers, always text with SO. There's a lot of time sensitive stuff but between those I can organize my day however I like. Sometimes meetings, usually only twice a week. LOTS of calls.

6pm: get off work. Jam to music as I drive. Wind down. Eat a snack, drink pre-workout powder. Chat about work.

6wheneverPM: assemble gym gear, go with SO to gym. Work on cardio mostly for an hour with some upper body and we bit of strength stuff but honestly not too much. Listen to an audiobook while working out. Currently listening to Neuromancer. After that hour, go swimming for an hour or two, just fun stuff where we play around in the pool and be all flirty and whatnot with each other. He likes my "pool laugh" and tries hard to get me to giggle.

9pm-ish: head home. Make dinner for us and then we watch YouTube or Netflix while we eat.

930pm-ish: go to our computer room. Play games, write, draw, read, whatever floats my boat. Maybe check Facebook to see if anything interesting is going on. Almost never is, and 99% of the time whenever I have a (real) notification or message, it's from my best friend sending me some sort of link or invite. Sometimes drink some sleepy time tea to relax.

12pm: bedtime. Which reminds me, I should probably head to bed now.

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stone_opera · 2016-09-01T09:00:12+00:00

I'm a fairly attractive woman in my late 20's, I work as an architect (I have an MArch), though I am actually in the process of finishing my ARB qualifying exams so that I can use the title of architect professionally.

I usually get up at 7:30, have a cup of tea with my husband. He gets up and has a shower while I check my emails. Then, once I'm finished my tea I'll get up and shower and get dressed and do some makeup. I walk to work, through a park, which is nice.

I get to work usually at around 9:30 and have another cup of tea and for breakfast I'll have a mango. I'll chat to my boss a bit about what is on the day's schedule (everything is on a very tight schedule in construction, so we have to know exactly what is happening on a project everyday)

I'll start my actual work at around 10:00, depending on where my project is at this involves a lot of different things. At the moment I've been assigned lead for a new project, so I get to spend a lot of my time designing, which I really enjoy.

I take my lunch at 1:00pm, I get an hour, so if it's the summer, like it is now, I'll go sit in the park. If it's the winter then I'll stay in and hang out with my work friends and bitch about the weather.

From 2:00 until 6:00 I'll be working, if I have to go out and visit a construction site to do a survey, then I'll do this now.

I get home at around 6:15/6:30 usually, my husband and I will share a joint or beer to relax and we'll talk about our days, then we'll start cooking supper. I usually cook, and my husband usually cleans the dishes.

After supper we'll go out and play pokemon go, or do a bike ride, or sit at home and smoke a few more joints and do stuff on the internet; it all really just depends on how much energy we still have. We usually go to sleep at around 12.

midnightvulpine · 2016-09-01T10:39:18+00:00

Get up at 6 AM.

Dress, eat breakfast, poke about online and leave for work at 7. Work til around 4:30 unless there is overtime.

Go home, eat, relax, sleep. Sometimes go out and do stuff amid the rest.

At least, when it comes to workdays. I like to keep it simple.

jonascf · 2016-09-01T12:16:34+00:00

Weekdays:

05:30 Get up and send girlfriend of to work. Coffee and some internet while waking up a little more.

Around 07:30 Start working, I work at home.

Around 10:00 Workout; strength training.

Continue working until lunch.

12 - 13: lunch

After lunch: Finish work (I work 4 - 5 hours a day). Fix things that need to be fixed, cook if it's needed.

Around 16: cuddle with girlfriend, then getting ready for jujutsu or judo in the evening.

Evening: finish work if somethings left, reading or lazing in front of the computer.

Looks? I'd say I'm a five.

play_time_is_over · 2016-09-01T13:02:33+00:00

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Im RP or trying to be more so.

Wake up 8am - 11am.

Make bed, protein shake, pack bag, brush teeth, go to uni. Coffee, meet up with friends.

Combination of work, socialising and eating food throughout the day. Uni work is coding, 3d modelling - people from my class have told me Im hard working/have lots of discipline which I take as a compliment.

Head home around 7pm.

Meet my gym buddy at 8pm.

Get hom at 10, shower, waste too much time on reddit. Repeat. This is 7 days a week.

On Sunday I go to my dojo in the morning and hang with family friends in the arvo. I try go on at least 1 tinder date a week.

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HigHog · 2016-09-01T07:57:05+00:00

More detail:

7/7.30: Get up, maybe have a cup of tea, brush my teeth, and get dressed (capri yoga pants, sports bra, and vest top). Don't use makeup or brush my hair.

7.30: Usually head straight to the gym and lift weights for an hour, but right now just do physio for an injury

8.30: Change into a dress with a fitted waist and ballet pumps or boots, then bike to my office

9: Eat a banana at my desk then read papers/work on my research, maybe have a tea break at some point

12: Have a packed lunch with friends

12.30: Do more research (try to resist dicking about on the internet), maybe have a tea break at some point

5: Bike home (or to a dance class)

5.20 (if no dance class) possibly get changed, and start preparing dinner

6.30/7: Serve dinner when my husband gets home and chat about our days (put leftovers in fridge for lunch tomorrow)

7.30: After dinner watch some TV, or read a book/dick around on the internet while he plays video games

8.30: Have a shower and put on some moisturiser

9: Go to bed, possible have sex, then read or listen to an audiobook for a couple of hours

11: Go to sleep

Not going to put a photo up, but I'm an attractive woman in her 20's with polarising features. In terms of facial features, think Audrey Tatou or Carey Mulligan.

[deleted] · 2016-09-01T13:30:50+00:00

Let's see:

7:30-8am Get up. Breakfast, news and schedule revision. Latelly, send good morning text to SO. 8:30am Turn work related devices on. Moan a little about the amount of things people think are important enough to send higher in the chain. I find myself writing strange things all the time. 10:30am If nothing went insanely off the rails, go running for an hour. 11:30 Shower and lunch. 13:00 More work, physically go anywhere I am required to go. 17:00 Scheduled meetings. That's it, the ones that actually follow my plea to be scheduled and are not like OMG, if we don't meet right now, the coffe machine will break down or something.

20:00 Dinner with friends, family, SO or, if I am unlucky enough, with some exec that failed to recognize decision making and dinner aren't related.

22:00 Set too complex a schedule, plan~~global domination~~ future actions.

Sometimes SO comes after work (she's an engineer).

Of course, everything changes if I am travelling, helping someone with their start up (or cleaning and counselling after the usual failure) and... well, my employees can be somewhat eccentric at times. Like calling at 3am, with a crazy, they just have to tell meright now, idea level eccentric. Oh, I also have the perk of many minibreaks when things go smoothly.

I am white, 31 yo,1.83 m, 82 kg, steel coloured eyes.

dopesk1 · 2016-09-01T15:21:18+00:00

I look like this actually

http://www.placebocity.com/images/photos/brian-molko/1996/brian-molko-1996-0031.jpg

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T15:19:22+00:00

0700 Get ready for work

0730 Drive to work listening to podcasts

0800 Work, deal with the database(s), schedule testing, email, deal with queries, mail drugs

1230 Lunch, usually something I grabbed from the freezer this morning (Fuck yeah mealprep) Today is rustic style greek chicken and veggies with brown rice and broccoli

1330 Clinic, meet with patients, explain research studies and eligibility, obtain consent

1730 Drive home bumping the new Chance the Rapper album

1800 Weights, yoga, sometimes a walk/jog

1900 Cook dinner

2000 Apply for graduate programs/interesting jobs else faff about on the internet

2130 Guitar, Ukulele or vocal practice

2300 Bed

24, Male. 5'10, 185lbs and dropping. (225 at my peak) Light brown hair, blue eyes, good complexion. I've been rated as high as 8-9, and low as 3-4, so it's hard to speculate on what my actual SMV is.

philomexa · 2016-09-01T15:25:32+00:00

6:15 am-wake up

6:30 am-work out; alternate day weights or cardio, Friday for stretching/recovery

7:15 am-wake up baby, turn on his cartoons

7:30 am-shower, get dressed, etc

8:00 am-wake up husband

8:10 am-say bye to baby and husband, head out the door, catch the train, jam out to NIN.

9:00 am-get in to work, eat breakfast, chat with the receptionist, do work things.

12:30 pm-lunch in my office (usually miso soup), pump breastmilk

1:30 pm-resume work/fucking around on reddit.

5:15 pm- leave work, walk 1 mile to the train station, jam out to NIN, get a fair amount of cat calls.

6 pm-catch the train home, update my fitness logs, relax, jam out to more NIN

6:20 pm- get off train, lately the conductor has been blaring the horn to catch my attention and wave at me. A few weeks ago I ignored it, but now I'm smiling and waving back. I've never spoken to this guy, I'm pretty sure he's doing this because he thinks I'm attractive.

6:30 pm-get home, greet baby and husband, change clothes, breastfeed lil man, eat dinner.

7:30 pm till 9 pm-play with baby/hang out with husband/do hobby/have sex-not in this order, but this is a typical evening or weekend.

9:30 pm-bed time for baby and me, husband turns in around midnight.

I'm not posting my picture, hell no. I'm biracial (Italian, Afro-Caribbean), shoulder length curly black hair, caramel skin tone (like Rihanna perhaps?) 5'3", 115 lbs, 18% bodyfat, 33 inch bust, 25 inch waist, 34 inch hips. Fairly attractive, rated a '9' back in college, but now I'm a 32 year old mom of a toddler. I still get hit on, cat called, etc. since I don't present myself as a 32 year old mom of a toddler. My fashion sense is more H&M/forever21-ish and pregnancy left me unscathed. No stretch marks, no pouch belly, no widen hips, no big feet, no linea nigra, no cellulite, no saggy tits, no varicose veins. Its like I wasn't even pregnant. Actually, I do have slightly bigger tits but I imagine they'll shrink back to A cup once I'm done breastfeeding.

All in all my day is pretty average I guess. I'm not fending off dicks every time I step outside, but I still do receive plenty of attention from men. Sometimes it borders on harassment, but that's only when I venture into sketchy low income areas. I don't generally mind the attention, as I am vain and I've known since I was 13 that it grants me certain privileges.

I like keeping up my appearance, as I believe my husband deserves a hot wife to show off. It boggles my mind that some? most? women give up their 'power' once they lock down a man and shit out a kid. A good man will always have options, our job as wives is to make sure we're always his best option.

sublimemongrel · 2016-09-01T15:37:17+00:00

My daily schedule:

6am -- Wake Up, Cardio or Bodyweight Exercise, Morning Hygiene, Breakfast
9am - 5pm -- Earn my paycheck haaaay and PPD IRC
6pm -- Dinner and Errands
10pm - 11pm -- Evening Hygiene
11pm -- Sleep

How Do I Look Like?

Cis-Female
West African face, specifically East Nigerian
Height: 5'4
Weight: 118-120 lbs
Measurements: 32 bust - 24 waist - 35 hip
Body Type: Banana
Skin Color: Dark Brown
Eye Color: Black
Hair: Black, Neck Length, Straightened

minerva79 · 2016-09-01T16:15:54+00:00

7 am get up and get ready for work

7:30 leave to walk to work

8:00 start work

12:30 lunch break either running errands, catch up with work friends or reading

13:30 start working again

16:30 leave work and walk home

17:00 admin or house work and redditing

18:00 start university work

20:00 cooking /eating while watching the news

21:00 relax time (watch tv/ Netflix, catch up on messages / call friends or family / reading / games

23:30 ish shower and sleep

Single female about a 3/4

Weekend is 1x day in coffee shop and library studying one day with friends and catching up with anything I didn't get done during the week.

TW_CountryMusic · 2016-09-01T16:23:22+00:00

My life is weird right now because I'm in between jobs (quit one last week, start a new one next week) and also just started a second job teaching a class one night a week. I'm actually going a little loony because I'm very much a creature of habit and having so much free time and flexibility makes me crazy. I actually find that I get less done the more free time I have; it's weird. My brain requires structure.

Anyway! When I am working a day job, my day looks like this:

Wake up at 6ish, walk the dog

Take a shower, dry my hair, put on makeup (minimal - usually just tinted moisturizer and mascara, maybe blush and eyeliner if I look tired that day)

Prepare lunch and snacks for the day

Out the door by 8 for work at 8:30 (this will probably have to be adjusted for my new job because my commute is longer...ugh)

Work 8:30 - 5; usually have lunch at my desk or in the little courtyard of my office building (again, may change with new job)

After work, change clothes and go running on a nearby trail while waiting out afternoon traffic (there's an even better trail near my new office; yay)

Get home around 6:45, talk to boyfriend, walk the dog together, quick shower to wash off workout sweatiness

He goes to work/gets off earlier than me so he usually has dinner cooked by the time I get home. We eat dinner around 8, usually while watching Netflix.

Clean up the kitchen and do whatever other chores need to be done (laundry, clean the bathroom, vacuum etc.)

Spend the rest of the evening working on side projects, reading, internet-ing, watching TV or whatever other miscellaneous activities until I go to bed around 11.

What I look like: Average or a little below. I'm 28, 5'7, on the thin side but have wide hips and big boobs. I'm pretty much your classic "butterface." I'm not hideous or anything, but my face is really asymmetrical and I have bad skin. Chin-length, straight, light brown (or dark blonde depending who you ask - idk) hair with bangs, blue eyes, and glasses. I'm pretty much always wearing a dress and a cardigan.

Edit: I just asked my boyfriend what celebrity he thinks I look like and he said "Velma from Scooby Doo." So make of that what you will, lol.

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MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T17:39:11+00:00

I'm 33 y/o latina. 5'4" (a giant in my family lol). Average weight. Brown hair and eyes. This is me

Typical day is me getting up. Making my SO his lunch. Working out. Working. Running errands. Heading home. Cooking dinner. Playing piano. Shower. Sleep.

Those are the things I do 5-7 days a week. Pretty routine stuff.

darksoldierk · 2016-09-01T23:45:31+00:00

I wake up around 8am, shower, and go to work. I'm at work between 9 and 9:30. I work 8-9 hours. I don't usually take lunch unless it's a stressful week. I get away from my desk half a dozen times or so to socialise with co-workers, get coffee, etc. Between 5pm-6pm my boss and I stop working, he drives me to my car which is parked at a nearby church. Women and management get priority on close parking spaces (take a guess how I feel about that when it's -30* C and I have to walk my ass to the office which is 15 minutes away, and then hearing women complain about how cold the 0.5 second walk was from their car to the front door of the office). I drive home. 3 out of 5 days I stop by the grocery store and pick up whatever I need for dinner. I get home at around 7 pm. I change my clothes and start cooking. While the food is cooking on the stove, I clean the mess I made while cooking as well as the previous nights dishes. If there isn't much, I clean my condo. I just don't like sitting down while the food is on the stove. Anyway, I finish cooking by about 8:30 pm, and I eat. Usually I'm done dinner by about 9 pm. I relax a bit on the computer or on the tv, then by 9:30 or so, I'm usually studying, I'm trying to earn my professional designation. I stop studying at around 11 or so, I practice guitar till 11:30 or 12 am, then I watch some netflix till 12:30 or 1 am. I go to bed, and wake up and do it all over again.

I'm trying to fit in gym time, but I'm finding it hard. I get home very mentally drained and whatever energy I have I try to keep for studying. My days change with the seasons obviously, but those things are things I do all year around. For example, in the summer, I may not have to study since the course I need may not be offered, so I substitute that time for gym time. The fall is our fiscal year end, meaning that I have to work a lot of extra hours and weekends. Winter time is tax time, meaning that I'm busy helping friends and family out with their tax returns, and volunteering at tax clinics.

As far as my looks, most women I've met have given me a range of answers. I seem to be between "average" and "good looking", which means that I'm around a 5/6. I think I'm more of a 5 though. I'm a guy in my mid 20's. Thick brown hair, brown eyes, middle eastern, lighter skin, 165cm tall and I weigh 170lbs. I have a goatee, but at any given week, it's thickness varies. Depends on how I feel that week. Middle eastern people (notice how I said 'people' not 'men') grow body and facial hair like crazy, and the only nice thing about that is the beard for men.

jackandjill22 · 2016-09-01T13:19:23+00:00

My actual day:

--530 wake up, go to gym

--700 leave for work

--730 to 600 pm work

--630 eat dinner

--700 - 800 socialize with wife, help kids with homework, look at personal emails,

--800 - 900 help son get ready for bed, put to bed

--900 - 1000 socialize with daughter/wife, help daughter with homework/talk about things going on in her life

--1000 bed, maybe have sex with wife

What I look like: 5'11", average looks.

THE SECRET LIFE THAT PPD/BLUES BELIEVE ABOUT REDS:

--600 wake up hung over

--630 beat wife

--700 go to work

--800 sexually harass secretary

-1000 sexually harass receptionist

--1100 attempt to have sex with secretary, get shot down

--400pm rape receptionist, leave work

--530 attempt to sexually assault female bartender

--700 go home half drunk, beat kids, rape wife

--800 pass out drunk

cats_or_get_out · 2016-09-01T15:03:10+00:00

My actual day yesterday:

0630: Alarm goes off. I hit the snooze button until 0700.

0700: Get up, shower, get ready for work while Mr. Arthur rides herd on the kids to get them ready for school. Say goodbye to kids and Mr. Arthur.

0800: Head out to work. Get breakfast at Starbucks. Listen to Robert Massie's Castles of Steel for the hour and fifteen minutes it takes me to drive in.

0915: Arrive at the office. Work on revising draft of a history I'm writing. Make some phone calls.

1400: Realize I'm starving; go and get lunch. No free iced tea. :-(

1430: Back to work. Get completely wrapped up in history and end up staying way past when I meant to leave.

1945: Fuck, it's way late. Leave the office. Listen to more Massie on my way home.

2100: Arrive home. Hang out with the kids for half an hour before they go to bed.

2130: Mr. Arthur grills ribeyes and I cook some broccoli. We eat dinner and discuss my evolving perspective on postwar Army force structure. Usually we don't talk about my work, though.

2230: Clean up dinner. Mr. Arthur takes the dogs out one last time and we go to bed.

Normally I'm not at work anywhere near that long. But I'm on deadline this week, so the hours do tend to stack up. Usually I head out at around 1800 or so and we all eat dinner together.

At the moment I am not particularly attractive, since I am juuuuuust about to have a baby. I mean, I'm clean and groomed and well-dressed and so forth, but once you reach that point where you look like a Weeble, there's only so much you can do.

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T09:19:31+00:00

What is this, Facebook or some shit?

Fuck it, I'll bite, but I'm boring.

I look basically average. 5'8", 11 stone, goofy smile.

This is an average weekday:

9am wake up, check phone and shit

10am have a shower

10:30am dick about on the computer, either on Reddit or learning Python on Codecademy that's my thing these days

12:00pm watch something on Netflix, take my meds, get ready for work

1:00pm do some exercise as the dex kicks in

2:00pm go to work (evening shifts yay?)

12:00am get home, check my laptop and phone for a bit, maybe eat a little, then sleep

Rinse and repeat. Told you I was boring.

lollygagyo · 2016-09-01T11:14:32+00:00

I'm probably an 8-8.5. I'm 'exotic' looking, so not generically appealing, tho.

Average day at the moment (incl working days, since I work 3 days a week): - Get up (if I've slept, sometimes I get insomnia and I don't), have sex (always!), get ready for work, kiss my partner goodbye/shake fist because he's doing a PhD and gets to stay in bed longer than me - Lots of coffee on the way to work. Like, 2-3 espressos. My commute is like an hour long. - Get into work bt/wen 8:30 and 9am, check in with everyone there, esp manager. See if anything pressing has come up in terms of case management overnight (I work in human rights law and it's mostly policy, but sometimes I gotta represent people/do paperwork for them and that's always prioritised as #1, esp if people could get deported or whatever because we didn't respond fast enough). - Research, research, research. Advocacy, advocacy, advocacy. Client management, client management, client management. x1 lunch break and a few coffees throughout the day, esp if I haven't slept the night before. - Work day ends. I usually have post-work coffee or chips or shisha with friends who work in the same area or colleagues. - Go home, either chill out with partner and read/have sex (probably yes to this), write, paint etc. I go to barre classes 2x a week during this time as well. - Cook dinner (sometimes I do this in the morning if I want something slow-cooked, and on very rare occasions I will trust my partner to do this. I'm not big on frozen meals or packaged meals, so I do this every day). Eat dinner with partner and probably a friend or two. Glass or two of wine. -- Bed, sex, netflix.

Rinse & repeat. Sometimes, on days when I'm not working, I do 'bookings' after 5pm for my job as an escort. So, I'll work the whole night -- I usually do overnights -- or I'll do a dinner. Sometimes bookings are really wild (for ex, once I got to go on a crazy party yacht and there were all of the drugs imaginable and everyone had this insane orgy) but most of them are just...normal. Chilling out in hotel rooms, eating, getting to know someone, having sex.

I also study in my downtime. I just started a Masters of Public Health, because I'm considering becoming a doctor, but I don't want to leap straight into med school. I'm prob going to wind up with like 7 degrees, b/c I know I'm starting a 2nd masters in a totally different field over in the US next Sept. But hey, that's okay!

Occasionally I do pro bono work for mental health orgs + volunteer policy reports for legal commissions etc and I volunteer for Legal Aid one day a week.

How my appearance impacts my daily life: - people are very kind to me in public, generally speaking - I get lots of comments about how 'omg I was not expecting my lawyer to look like this, wow u are amazing' -- which, I don't think other solicitors get as often - I do get 'harassed' several times daily, but this is just background noise to me for the most part b/c it happens so often. I'm usually polite about it unless someone is stalking me or whatever and then I'll flip tables. - if there's anyone new at work, they assume I am a secretary or that I'm kind of stupid prior to hearing me speak. After a meeting or two, they're usually like, 'zomg' (which is unfair, because I'm p. normal for someone in my line of work and a lot of the 'wow' factor is that it's unexpected for someone who looks like me to also give fucks about human rights. Pretty insulting). - I have more awkward flirtatious interactions with colleagues than most women I know - the escort thing

That's really it.

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2016-09-01T13:07:22+00:00

Looks wise, I'm average at best, whenever I'm rated. Some tastes find me cute. Most, invisible.

Except when I wear make-up, but right now, invisible works for me. Because of my PTSD/panic disorders/lifetime of abuse issues, I can't manage crowds, and parties are a special kind of Hell.

Rushing back and forth between too many people just feels like you're failing them all.

But I can deal with a small focus. I can deal with getting to know people over time. And if I take breaks, it's all manageable.

I'm also slowly learning how to manage my phobia - I have a crippling sex phobia on top of everything else...

But I lost my virginity, learned how to give orgasms - things I never would have thought possible, when I was younger.

The rape was a setback, and I probably rushed back into sex too fast, at first - I got burned, more than once ...but...you can't be a victim your entire life? When you fall, you learn, you dust yourself off and get back on your feet.

I know now, that there are no fast and easy solutions.

Still, responsible immersion therapy is...

Well, embarrassing.

My current average day, aside from the usual things that everyone does, like eating, exercise, hanging out with friends, breathing, etc is spent either studying for debates about sex with one set of strangers on the internet, or talking about sex with another set of strangers on the internet, who too quickly want to stop being strangers, so I rush back to the first set.

Seriously, fuck panic disorders.

But I always find my way back.

I have a long distance girlfriend. We've explored all of Skype's audio-video options as regards immersion therapy too. Face to face? Probably not anytime soon, but that's more because of her own panic disorder.

I know. I'm avoiding. But -

We at least help each other deal with day to day shit. Sometimes, it's hard not to find judgement, you know? And when you're living in a bad neighborhood, sometimes the internet seems like the least worst option.

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T13:28:16+00:00

this is probably the best one of these threads, honestly... okay, here we go:

6:31 AM: wake up to my alarm. stay in bed for 10 minutes to really wake up, then go to the bathroom and see if my hair is too wild to leave curly for the day. if it is, straighten it. if it's not, go right to makeup (typically just foundation, mascara if i feel like it). drink a small protein shake if i'm feeling hungry. make sure the cat is fed.
7:15 AM: leave the house with husband on the way to work. he drives, we listen to a morning talk show. once i arrive at work, a kiss goodbye and on with our day.
8:00 AM - 2:00 PM: work! mostly sending emails, sometimes to game studios (i work for a video game company), sometimes to company executives. try not to get too nervous or stressed, work on solving as many problems as possible while i'm here. listening to music the whole time to help me stay focused; the people around me love to talk nonstop (sigh).
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM: go on my lunch break in the cafe area in the office building. eat the meal part of my lunch (as opposed to the snacks i grab throughout the day). study foreign language, either by doing textbook exercises, chatting with native speakers, or playing imported videogames.
3:00 - 5:00 PM: finish any tasks i didn't do before, and make sure everything is wrapped up for the day and ready to make tomorrow easier.
5:00 - 6:00 PM: go to the gym at the office building to work out while i wait for my husband to arrive with the car. typically, a cardio warm-up and then some weights. listening to my own music, or watching an anime episode or two if i can.
6:00 - 11:00 PM: time to settle in at home. we recently moved, so this time has involved some unpacking, more than usual. WoW Legion also released recently... so we're both playing again. aside from that, it's a mix of cooking dinner, eating dinner, watching TV, reading, playing games, writing/translating foreign language things (for me) or bass/programming practice (for him) and then sleep/fun times.

i'd say i'm probably a 5 or a 6? i'm not great at this rating thing. i'm a little chubby (sigh) but generally, i don't have any other 'problems' (hair and skin are good, etc). tattoos and (subtly) dyed hair: check. glasses too. i won't post a picture of myself, but if i had to pick other pictures to give an idea...

hair and makeup is about like this, though i have shorter hair. my glasses aren't as big either. i have large/light eyes and a smaller face, so not unlike her, i look more 'cute'.

here's another example. minimal makeup, glasses as a main accessory, dark hair, pale. my clothing style is probably closer to this (though i pick tees/tanks, hoodies, jeans, sneakers as often as i can).

DaphneDK · 2016-09-01T07:59:03+00:00

Woke up. Worked for a few hours. Had sex. Got on my scooter to buy some tickets for next weeks travel. Shitty scooter won't start unless I use the manual starter, and it's already 35 degrees and sunny. Had something to eat. Went to the office, worked for a few hours. Internet sucked, so hanged out by the pool for a while and talked with a tall American/Vietnamese girl who had purple hair and a tattoo in German on her back which was spelled incorrectly, I didn't tell her because her name was Tiffany. Drove home. Tomorrow is Independence Day and the locals are already out in force. Hammer and sickle everywhere. Bought some food at the market. Gf maked food, and I fucked her because she wants babies. Some more work. Will go to the opera later. Perhaps hang out with some expats. Watch some Netflix before sleep. Netflix sucks though, so will probably download a zombie movie from torrent. I'm white, a blue eyed blonde arian supermench, 185m, 80kg.

xRedStaRx · 2016-09-01T14:28:30+00:00

Wake up from lying in the bathroom hungover, walk through sleeping guys and gals on the floor half naked, wake up two people I dont know from my bed to get changed for work, go to work, check firms portfolios and funds perofrmance and get ready for market open, take my adderall, cocaine if long day, flirt with secretary, get a blowjob if she isnt on her period, make some money intraday, text buddies an hour before leaving to arrange night party, leave work, eat, get shitfaced drunk, have sex with one or two random women at said party, go home/blackout, repeat.

ppdthrowawai · 2016-09-01T18:13:05+00:00

I am slightly below average height, dark hair and complexion, in shape, above average looks.

I have two jobs, one of which is my own business. Between the two of them I probably work about 60 hours a week. In a typical day, I wake up, browse reddit or the news, work all day, then come home around 7. I will typically have a little time for dinner, a workout, and a little bit of house maintenance. Trade one of those three for an event, a short visit with a friend, or some video games and you'd have my average week day. The SO works a lot too and I typically only see her on weekends.

Being attractive helps business. Middle aged women love me and are also my target primary demographic for business.

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-02T00:04:44+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/IYJOl

Work, video games, gym, walks, and now trying to go to any relaxed groups on meetup

Red-Frostraven · 2016-09-03T14:14:14+00:00

Male 33:

0600 Morning routine

0700 Work out if I'm working late / Go to work if I work early

1500 Go to work if I'm working late / Go to work out if I worked early

1800 Run uphill for an hour tuesday and thursday

1900 Kickboxing monday, wednesday, friday

2100 Long distance running monday and friday/saturday: 15 km/1 hour

...

I hope to the gods I'm at the very least considered "average"... http://oi67.tinypic.com/s28703.jpg ...please, just please don't crush my soul...

MyronBlayze · 2016-09-01T07:12:21+00:00

I wake up, eat breakfast, use the internet, maybe watch a movie or something, cook lunch, do some household chores, use the internet, maybe watch anime with my little brother or something, argue with my parents on the phone,help out my grandparents.

I don't work right now and I am supposed to study at the university, but I have quit. I don't have interests outside of movies and games and I don't have friends anymore (on purpose).

I have brown, long, straight hair and brown eyes. I am 1.67cm and 60 kg.

Title	[Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?
Author	MyronBlayze
Upvotes	10
Comments	148
Date	September 1, 2016 6:59 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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