If women can't accurately tell you what they find attractive, what is TRP's position men telling women what they like?

MissPearl · 2015-07-25T12:49:13+00:00

If a woman were to come up to me and ask me, "How do I get sex from a man?" I'd be able to answer it quickly, without a problem. If a woman were to ask me, "How do I get a relationship from a man?" I'd have no idea what to say. The best advice I could give her would be terrible advice because it'd probably get her "slutzoned".

Men know what we want, but most men have no idea how a woman should go about giving it to us.

OlBastard · 2015-07-25T16:02:55+00:00

Believe it or not , I posted a thread at /r/Askmen some months ago and they liretally told me to "be myself".

[deleted] · 2015-07-25T16:18:00+00:00

TRP uses the actions of women to divine what they like.

If the woman is fucking you, you're doing things right. If she's acting bitchy, probably need to change up what you're doing (or she's bitchy and should be nexted).

It's really not that hard and you get almost instant feedback in lots of cases. This is how the thinking man approaches women and dating.

Take what women say with a grain of salt, pay close attention to what they do.

MissPearl · 2015-07-25T13:58:33+00:00

RPW limits male advice.

Aerobus · 2015-07-25T14:33:17+00:00

Women can accurately tell you what they find attractive only if they come to terms with the fact that what they say they find attractive is not what they react to. Actions always speak louder than words. The reason why men are much better at giving advice to women is because whether a man is a stereotypical alpha, or a weak beta, or a clueless and hopeless omega, they all generally want sex, love, comfort. Men don't say they want one thing when they actually respond to something else. They all respond to a woman who's willing to love them, have sex with them often, and genuinely care for them.

With women, it doesn't work this way. They say they want a guy that is sweet and caring, but they'll only respond to a guy that's sweet and caring if he's already sexually attractive to them, which often means that he acts confident and sometimes cocky and arrogant to precipitate that attraction.

Finally, with regards to RPW: yes, they do think male perspective is okay as long as what that individual is saying falls in line with RP school of thought. If someone, a man or a woman, goes on about how it is in a RPW's best interest to be a slut, he or she will be banned. They have had plenty of problems with these weirdos going in their sub saying "male here, ... " and as far as I know most of those people are banned. But if you post in the sub often and are not a neckbeard about it, you'll find that people actually like what you have to say, and they'll take what you have to say with some importance. I post and comment on RPW. I've had only one issue to date, and that "issue" was even debated by the mods, so it wasn't an issue with everyone. I've submitted multiple posts and comments that have been highly upvoted. I've gotten PMs from a number of their members multiple times. Why? Because I don't act like an idiot and give them fake advice. I actually help them.

If a woman were to go on TRP and actually help men without giving fake advice, I'm sure the TRP mods would allow such a person to stay. I am of the position that no such woman exists, and no such woman is capable of existing for at least a decade into the future. They are too solipsistic to put themselves in a man's shoes. There are some RPW that have done a good job at being brutally honest with men and telling them what they need to do, but I have seen a lot of them still struggling to say something more than "be yourself," or something to that effect.

Villaintine · 2015-07-25T13:15:36+00:00

To what degree does TRP think men can know what they want VS women knowing what they want, and why?

TRP seems to advise men to feel it out for what they want, but with field reports and posts from men in all forms of relationships- spinning plates all the way to marriage you can at least get an idea of what each lifestyle offers and it's up to you to find what resonates with you.

As far as women knowing what they want, at least in the age range TRP focuses on I don't think they really explore it all that fully. Less thought and planning with more reliance on tingles/feels.

OfSpock · 2015-07-25T22:10:23+00:00

A lot of women can accurately tell you what they want. IME, it's men who won't listen. Ask any woman how many times she's told a guy she's not interested and he's responded with something like "Just give me a chance' or 'You'll like me when you get to know me'.

Yeah, some people of both genders are complete idiots, but most people end up with someone like themselves for a start.

Aspiring_Hobo · 2015-07-25T14:27:27+00:00

Women don't know what they want. They know what they want subconsciously, of course, but what they tell you doesn't always add up. They just know it when they see it.

Guys usually know what they want because we're simple creatures. Our list of things that a girl can do to not piss us off is very short, whereas your girl can love you on Monday and hate you on Tuesday despite you doing the exact same shit.

Title	If women can't accurately tell you what they find attractive, what is TRP's position men telling women what they like?
Author	MissPearl
Upvotes	5
Comments	76
Date	July 25, 2015 12:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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