Anyone else deleting and redownloading dating apps?

runawayfast999 · 2020-10-03T00:54:33+00:00

Noooo don’t do this. Everything you hard delete the same dum dums show up. Just delete app from phone but don’t delete your account. I learned this and saw the same 🤡 show up. Don’t be like me. Don’t hard delete.

The_kilt_lifta · 2020-10-03T03:34:01+00:00

Sounds like you’re closing an empty fridge only to reopen it expecting food to appear

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-10-03T01:50:12+00:00

I met some great men on dating apps I will be the first to say. So for a while after a break up I always came back. But lately it has been really bad. LVM are so heavily populated on OLD, I cannot find and HVM. And frankly speaking I am tired of looking. At this point i have too much on my plate mentally, emotionally, and physically to keep going back and forth with these men. My husband will be there when I come back if he is, if not he is somewhere else. I miss no blessings meant for me

quaintrell · 2020-10-03T01:55:57+00:00

Yes! I swear I see worse and more disrespectful guys every time I redownload an app. I realized that it just disturbs my peace.

jayohday · 2020-10-03T04:46:26+00:00

It is truly the same guys every time. Sometimes literally. If not, they certainly all seem to fit into a type or certain types.

curlygirl507 · 2020-10-03T05:59:14+00:00

There are some guys whose profiles I've seen so many times over so many years that I always have to think about whether I actually know them in person. My brain on dating apps 😵

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-03T07:53:16+00:00

I'm currently using a dating app for practicing my FDS skills. I'm perfectly happy not to go out on any dates during Covid, but I don't want to simply sit and read FDS while not applying any of the principles in my real life. I use the app for 5 minutes a day (no more) and am practicing spotting red flags. So far I've blocked and deleted:

"My ex was never any good with money"

A guy who didn't ask any follow up questions and so I let the conversation die

Any man who matched and didn't initiate conversation within 48 hours

A man who told me he wanted to eventually move to a different country to settle down

I've never had any of the horrendous experiences on apps that some of the ladies here have, but it's been great for spotting the guys who aren't genuinely interested or exhibit subtle LV behaviors.

petrichorant · 2020-10-03T05:29:44+00:00

I recently downloaded some dating apps for the first time about 5 months ago when I was 23! I always thought I wasn't very good at picking guys, or the places I was finding guys wasn't great but it turns out all men are just like that! And by 'like that' I mean boring, ugly, abusive, and stupid.

sadlibrarian · 2020-10-03T11:11:51+00:00

Lol yes, always the same guys slightly altering their profiles each time...cringe

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-10-03T01:12:02+00:00

Yes! I was without those damn apps for months, now I have like 5 of them in my phone again! Not happy about it, obvi 🤮

slythergin23 · 2020-10-03T00:56:06+00:00

tbh, yes. but mainly because i met some friends on there, so i know it's possible to find decent people. my intention isn't necessarily dating them.

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