Both Pills: How would you summarize TheRedPill ?

livingthedreamnow · 2015-06-11T21:48:45+00:00

TheRedPill- Masculine life tactics that at one time were shared and passed down through the men in your family, but now must be discussed anonymously on the internet to avoid personal retribution from an over feminized society.

[deleted] · 2015-06-11T21:22:04+00:00

Women's preferences in men are more shallow and atavistic than you were led to believe.

Ridelith · 2015-06-11T21:54:54+00:00

Best definition IMO, by the side-bar:

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-06-12T00:51:46+00:00

I'll give it a try : Get in shape , put your needs first , women are attracted to looks/status/money, women will leave you if you provide no value , make your own decisions, women are not trustworthy.

Oh my God, i get it now. I get why you don't get the red pill! it also makes sense of your description of the pink pill here where you thought that was thematically similar to the red pill.

You think these pill ideologies go only about as deep as some repeated observations and some thinks that you think you should do or that seem cool. It's one of the most extreme cases of missing the forest for the trees that I've ever seen. In fact, I've never understood that phrase before right now, because suddenly an example so obvious has come up in front of me.

ThirdEyeSqueegeed · 2015-06-11T21:27:06+00:00

Chicks Dig Jerks

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2015-06-11T22:33:17+00:00

TRP is a belief that being okay isn't good enough. People that just do good enough want the same type of results us hard workers receive. I am a red piller and some of the users there are in the angry phase and take it to an extreme.

But the truth I have been shown is true. I use the core beliefs and let me tell you, my life has improved, my health has and my relationship with my SO has been amazing since. We don't have as many arguments because I now understand why women do the things they do

teeay · 2015-06-11T22:51:37+00:00

Acknowledge reality and adapt accordingly.

probably_quite_drunk · 2015-06-11T21:20:57+00:00

Cynicism applied to general human mating rituals, with a focus on ways these rituals can be used to individual male benefit.

EDIT: Using this definition of cynicism

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cynicism_(contemporary)

capt-next-a-hoe · 2015-06-12T00:11:32+00:00

This isn't brief but I think it covers the ideal RP core.

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Man on a mission

The most attractive thing to women is a man on a mission.

How does a man act when he's on a mission?

A man on a mission cares not for any girl's reaction to him. He cares for his mission. Sure, he may want sexual release, but he feels no approach anxiety. To a man focused on a higher mission, approaching girls is like playing with little kids in a sandbox: cute, but ultimately meaningless.

A man on a mission naturally treats women with the aloof alpha attitude and dominant frame that PUAs try to imitate. Picture a guy spending all day striving, sweating and bleeding for a mission, going home with his struggle still on his mind. A girl takes or gives him some drama, does he even care?

A man on a mission pursues sex and escalates boldly because he doesn't have time to waste. He does not have months to spend, he does not have time to buy seven dinners before a chance at sex. He has shit to do. Its fuck or walk, your choice.

A man on a mission worships no girl. He puts his mission on a pedestal, not his girl.

A man on a mission is impossible to friendzone. He simply doesn't have time to listen to a girl's emotional outpourings.

A man on a mission treats girls with abundance. There are many girls, but only one mission.

A man on a mission has ambition, passion and drive. Anybody who spends time with him can sense this.

A man on a mission is never at a loss for words. He has stories. I was (working on my mission) when...., My friend ____(who I know from my mission) and I......,

A man on a mission has boundaries. He will not let a girl take up too much of his time or do any- thing that will jeopardize his mission.

A man on a mission chooses a wife or long term girlfriend carefully. She must complement him and make his home life easier, as he is out living his mission.

A man on a mission does not check his phone every minute to see if that girl from the weekend texted him back. He works on his mission, noticing only when he takes a break that she texted him hours ago.

A man on a mission cannot be rejected by a girl because he derives his self-esteem from how well he is pursuing his mission, not from the actions of anybody else.

A man on a mission has status, wealth, and fame awaiting for him when he succeeds. This was not his primary motivator but it attracts women nonetheless.

To a guy who can't get laid, shitty game is a symptom, not the disease. The root cause of all neediness, pedestalization, social anxiety, unworthiness, and lack of confidence is not having a mission.

Next time you have a girl problem, ask yourself:

Don't I have something better to do?

Smilingbluekitties · 2015-06-11T21:19:36+00:00

They are all out to get you. Kill or be killed.

ToshiroOzuwara · 2015-06-11T21:56:08+00:00

Hard Working, Alpha Male, Jackhammer.

Merciless.

Insatiable.

[deleted] · 2015-06-11T22:13:54+00:00

Insert Picture of Bitch getting Cockslapped on Both Cheeks

thereddespair · 2015-06-11T22:58:37+00:00

how to get pussy when you want to, through self improvement

LOL.

exit_sandman · 2015-06-12T09:33:04+00:00

Can you describe it as briefly as possible ?

"It's your mission in life to improve the quality of your own existence, not that of women*"

*that may happen, but it's collateral.

Roku2021 · 2015-06-12T13:52:53+00:00

TheRedpill- common knowledge on how to improve your life (health, career, personality) with an absurd amount of psuedoscience to get their dicks wet.

neubs · 2015-06-11T22:41:12+00:00

betas in disguise

trying to fuck 9's and 10's

lift and buy new clothes

terminator3456 · 2015-06-11T22:57:55+00:00

I'm hurt, I'm angry, & this philosophy is appealing because its simultaneously vague enough so that all successes can be attributed to being RedPill & all failures can be attributed to not being RedPill enough.

Smilingbluekitties · 2015-06-11T23:55:03+00:00

High speed internet Stunted my development Now I talk to girls.

C0UNTdrama · 2015-06-11T22:22:28+00:00

Temper tantrums, conspiracy theories, and self inflicted paranoia.

gavinok · 2015-06-11T22:06:56+00:00

An overly emotional reaction to not getting what they want.

Or men throwing tantrums like 2 year olds.

Pick one, both are accurate.

CursedLemon · 2015-06-11T21:42:15+00:00

Are we talking what I think of it, or what TRP thinks of itself?

GuitarsAreGettingOld · 2015-06-11T22:23:59+00:00

"You can't make up for important qualities by having other qualities if you want to find a partner and maintain a happy relationship. Same applies to casual sex. If you are confused about said important qualities, don't ask women, because you will get the wrong picture. Consult red pill instead."

40Watts · 2015-06-12T02:50:33+00:00

The red pill is simply a set of observations, beliefs and strategies that help men get the upper-hand in sexual relationships with women. It puts men on the path to getting and maintaining a sex life.

VerticalSmileyCyrus · 2015-06-12T03:19:42+00:00

One rung higher on the social skills ladder than BluePill.

But with still a long, long climb to go.

vincentninja68 · 2015-06-12T04:23:53+00:00

One's reclaiming of self respect, dignity and masculinity.

What you decide to do with those traits can vary depending on the person and their perspective of the world.

Solomonceed · 2015-06-12T06:45:26+00:00

You have been lied to regarding just about anything, but especially when it comes to sex and relationships. Have a couple of minutes to cry about it, then come back to learn how you can thrive in the world as it is.

TheGreasyPole · 2015-06-12T14:16:34+00:00

OK,

When asked to provide a summary I usually provide several. First the one paragraph summary...

Go read our sidebar dumbass. We've done a lot of stuff and have quite a sophisticated, model, strategy and knowledge base. There are no shortcuts to learning it. You want to know what we're about ? Go read that. Don't listen to any dumbass one paragraph summaries other than this one. Now fuck off and don't come back until you are sidebar complete

... Hope you like it...

I also do shorter ones.

My three word summary is...

Be the Prize

and my two word summary is

Be Manly

My one word summary is

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Is that enough summaries for everyone ? Good.

Back to our usual programming then...

smokingmonkey420 · 2015-06-12T15:20:07+00:00

These are just some notes I've taken on the TRP. Not really a summary of TRP, just different concepts that continually come up.

AF/BB, Prize mentality, AWALT, branch swinging, hypergamy, briffault's law, schedules of mating, Rationalizing, Solopsism, Feelings. One-Itis. Sex vs. Commitment. Frame. Your mission. Self-control. 16 commandments of poon. Selfishness. Stoicism. SMV. LMS. Never apologize, never explain. Dominance. Open posture. Pure, irrational self-confidence. Never have any doubt. Abundance mentality. Ignoring her beauty. Being a leader. Making decisions. Dread game. Saying/doing less than necessary. Keeping her guessing. Playing to her imagination. Telling them what they want to hear. Machiavelli. 48 Laws. Eye-contact is 90% of the game. Kino. Escalate. Be bold rather than timid. Misandry. Manipulation. Evo-Psych. War brides. Stockholm syndrome. Divorce rape. Pussy pass. Shit tests. Amorality. Plates. Pre-selection. Control. Actions speak louder than words. Setting boundaries. Having principles. Having standards. Ladder theory. Friend-zone. Desire cannot be negotiated. LMR. ASD. Love is only legitimate when it is uncoerced and unobligated. Women love opportunistically, men love superficially. Respect. Have a dark side. Security, Status, Escape. Romance is creative and unexpected. Love is need to women, commitment to men. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Men remember events, women remember emotions. Don't get excited talking to women, treat them all the same. In group bias "everyone prefers women". Seduction is letting a woman know she is free to fuck or not fuck other dudes, but if she's not fucking you she's missing out. The relationship talk must always start with her. Equal opportunity not equal outcome. Affection is not the same thing as attraction. Never show weakness. Look at her mother to see how she will be. Light Triad: Confidence, Leadership, Purposeful action.

Frame: who's reality are you living in. Investing more in your own perceptions than others.

BillClam · 2015-06-12T22:38:19+00:00

I've seen two sides of it.

The Red Pill - People who think they're owed something for holding the door open that one time, in an echo chamber.

The Red Pill - Some people giving some practical life advice about how to be confident in social situations.

[deleted] · 2015-06-15T10:17:46+00:00

RP: PUA methods were discovered by those guys who really dislike and disrespect those women the PUA methods tend to work on. They Game them into bed, but on the other hand they feel no gratefulness nor respect for them, they secretly despise the "sluts" they can Game into bed, but of course they cannot say that to their faces so they express this disdain online.

BP (my kind): Game is fine, just respect your partner and don't consider that ability to be Gamed makes a woman a "slut".

Title	Both Pills: How would you summarize TheRedPill ?
Author	HappilySingleWoman
Upvotes	3
Comments	60
Date	June 11, 2015 9:06 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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