Is intense dislike for women common at TRP (judging by most top posts and comments)?

Bamantha · 2015-02-07T10:45:17+00:00

I've realized after poking around on these subs for a bit that when it comes to sexuality and relationships, my beliefs and life experiences line up largely with the RP mentality. I honestly think that they're pretty spot on. But MAN, that sub...a lot of the dudes on there are just too obnoxious to be taken seriously. Or, hey, maybe I'm just sensitive.

Anyway, yeah, at a first glance ( and a second, and a third) it would appear as though they might have some sort of beef with the average broad...lol

We_Are_Legion · 2015-02-07T15:40:11+00:00

I remember an ex of mine asked me once why I even talked to a good male friend of mine if I hated him so much. I asked her what made her think I hated him. She said I sweared or complained about him a lot. And when I was around him, I seemed to always be slightly pissed off, and even afterward. I came back more distant and troubled.

The truth was, I loved this friend more than I did her. What was happening is I didn't monitor myself around him. I didn't need to. I had an aversion to talking about my problems with a woman, including my gf at the time, and I had a lot of problems to talk about. He was my outlet for that. And when I came back to her, I became slightly closed off again.

I just talked that way around him because he was my good friend. He was the only person I didn't need to control myself around. With him, I was crude, and childish. I was insecure, and scared. And angry. And I often sought advice. With her, I was... a lot more perfect than I was.

Maybe you're just seeing a male space and you're scared by what you see... because you've never seen it before. You encounter the complete absence of a filter and it scares you. You see crazy ideas and dangerous hate-speech where I see a really awesome joke. On TRP I could say: "Women, on average, are pretty shit". Over here, I'd add maybe that "men are too". I might say "People are shit", or I would just keep it inside altogether. The only difference is, the lack of filter and focus on women problems.

[deleted] · 2015-02-07T11:36:50+00:00

Who are you debating this against? This is pretty much accepted around here.

FRSFxHkkXX · 2015-02-07T23:57:35+00:00

Take anything people on TRP say about women, switch out the references to women with references to African Americans, Latina/os, or Jews, and suddenly you've got something that sounds like it's from the minutes of the most recent National Socialist Movement meeting.

fizolof · 2015-02-07T11:49:07+00:00

TRP is pretty hateful, it's obvious.

MissPearl · 2015-02-07T14:01:26+00:00

I always wondered what it is like to hate and fear that many people but still be trying to have relationships with them. Like heterosexuality must suck. Particularly if you experience sex as your main mode of affection (and still crave it) and you need to run an elaborate isolating head games. :(

relationshipdownvote · 2015-02-07T22:38:53+00:00

casually used insults

This is just how a lot of guys like to talk. Male dominated spaces tend to use harsher language, pick on each other, and other things like that, why do you feel the need to invade that space and police their language?

lxnarratorxl · 2015-02-07T18:30:08+00:00

There are plenty of people who go there that hate women, there are also plenty of people who dont. Like anyhting the most extreme people get the most attention.

deepfriedcocaine · 2015-02-07T13:42:03+00:00

Why are you asking people? You read it , you think it is. So what if it is?

gleipnirshold · 2015-02-07T15:36:43+00:00

They hate women but they hate themselves too.

cxj · 2015-02-07T20:22:40+00:00

Yeah TRP is hateful, its a bummer, I can't handle most of it which is why I come here instead.

NorSeaTownBoy · 2015-02-07T13:35:06+00:00

Is feminism a hate movement since so many feminists display an intense dislike for men?

Oh, wait, the definition changes suddenly.

Archwinger · 2015-02-07T18:00:20+00:00

The Red Pill pretends it's a woman-hating, misogynist site, but you can find non-unique woman-hating and misogyny anywhere. That generic misogyny is just a cover for the fact that they're really a male betterment site. They can't hide that shit from me. Countless posts are filled with stupid male improvement no matter how much they insist they just hate women.

Villaintine · 2015-02-07T12:44:18+00:00

Can you point out the hateful threads? I only ask because from scanning the front page and checking the topics that are even about women in the first place the OPs and top comments all have to do with the attitudes and behaviors of women - not simply because they are women. If you're unable to differentiate between disliking a person and disliking the actions a person takes then you're not equipped to have these discussions with other adults.

[deleted] · 2015-02-07T14:04:51+00:00

[permanently deleted]

[deleted] · 2015-02-08T00:30:49+00:00

If only someone hated me enough to pay a lot of attention to what I do and behave in ways that turn me on.

polyhooly · 2015-02-07T17:16:24+00:00

No no no. They don't hate women, you see, they just accept them for the horrible degenerates they are, who make existence on this planet a living hell for the good, red blooded male. That's all. But they don't hate women.

This is always the answer I see from many RPers when asked about the hate in that sub. Of course they (usually) don't use such language, but it always boils down to their concept of amused mastery: TRP teaches men to stop getting mad at women, accept what they are, and learn to work with that. Yet when you ask TRP to elaborate on what they mean by "what women are," the female modus operandi, it usually is just typical dehumanizing language you see with any hate group: the moral and intellectual inferiority of said group, i.g. women are children incapable of higher levels of thinking, driven purely by emotion, women are incapable of basic human emotions such as empathy and love, etc...

sh1v · 2015-02-07T15:12:58+00:00

intense hostility and aversion

I dont avoid women, i fuck them, and hostility = inflicting death and dismemberment.

So imo, not quite the definition of hate.

some_pill · 2015-02-07T12:37:14+00:00

Anger is a secondary emotion.

RP doesn't teach emotional stability at all. It's all smokescreen for basic childish behavior. So it's no wonder that their anger translates to hate quickly. George Lucas is shitty at dialog but even he could figure that out. If people want to hamster their fear, anger, hate all the way to suffering: go ahead. I have no desire to help those people. My problem is when they drag others into their self-harm.

Seriously RP, get qualified help.

MagicEnclaveEyebot · 2015-02-12T22:13:07+00:00

From my impression they just see women in general as inferior and hate those who dare to behave against their standards, and as most of modern women are not submissive enough for them and thereby don't let them feel "the real alpha, captain, head of the family, king of the castle", which leads to spite and anger among redpillers.

[deleted] · 2015-02-07T17:46:10+00:00

No they do not hate women...they hate women who do not act like women. The traditional 1950's woman that is.

Title	Is intense dislike for women common at TRP (judging by most top posts and comments)?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	99
Date	February 7, 2015 10:26 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2v2x8n/is_intense_dislike_for_women_common_at_trp/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/is-intense-dislike-for-women-common-at-trp-judging.283581 https://theredarchive.com/post/283581

Comments