Why do you think women disdain low status men?

nomdplume · 2015-01-06T16:18:13+00:00

You're implying that men don't despise low-status women? In TRP, it seems negligent to ignore the fact that you guys promote despising low-status people of all genders. In fact, you don't even like high-status women very much.

So why the double-standard?

Archwinger · 2015-01-06T11:32:23+00:00

I've said this before, but it's relevant here.

When, you walk up to a woman and start talking, you are making an assertion that you are in her league. If she disagrees, then the fact that you thought so offends her.

If people see her talking to you, it affects how she's perceived. If she's entertaining a conversation with you, then she's admitting in front of everyone present that you are in her league.

If you're not hot, well dressed, well groomed, and very highly socially apt, talking to you costs a woman social points.

She has to blow you off to save her social currency.

give_me_shinies · 2015-01-06T13:19:19+00:00

Low status men?

Or low status (any status really) men who hate women, blame their problems on women, and then remove themselves from the dating market in the hope that those same women will care?

Phokus1982 · 2015-01-06T19:16:17+00:00

Because if a low status/ugly man had the audacity to flirt with a woman, it lowers the woman's social value, which scares the fuck out of woman. That's why it doesn't really matter what you say to a woman when you hit on her that matters, it's who is doing the saying.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4

A high status man saying otherwise inappropriate things to a woman is ok. A low status (actually doesn't even have to be that low) saying the exact same thing is a 'creep'. Women like to use the word 'creep' because it implies that there's something wrong with the man for hitting on her, to deflect away from the possibility that they might have the same SMV.

nemesis_kid · 2015-01-06T14:55:20+00:00

This is a thing I see often on TRP, sniffing out a piece of actual truth about society at large and then shortcutting to a comfortable answer before rounding home base. This is bigger than gender, dude.

Our society creates lots of shitty human beings who see themselves as the protagonist of the story and everyone else as supporting characters, at best. People like this have a very hard time being decent to anyone who they don't want something from or who they perceive as having nothing for them. They often get downright hostile when the person without (perceived) value actually wants something from them. Think about how some people act like total shitheads when a bum asks them for money.

Roughly half of these shitheads are women.

As far as the sexodus, it's silly. The challenge has been set, you buy a couple of nice shirts, you work out a little, learn how to be decent at conversation and if your shit is fucked up psychologically, you go see a therapist. This is exactly all it takes to be romantically successful. Yes, even if you're 5'1". Yes, even if you have bad skin.

So when these guys pretend that taking their ball and going home is some sort of moral high-ground they come across as quitters. People who have strong empathy and are able to read between the lines might find a way to feel sorry for them, but we're typically taught that being a quitter is a bad thing and quitters deserve what they get.

17b29a · 2015-01-06T12:57:47+00:00

Doesn't everyone?

l_____o_____l · 2015-01-06T09:48:24+00:00

Women dont hate low status men in general. They dislike the category of low status men who are bitter, misogynistic, vitreolic and creepy. That isnt all or even most low status men, but it does capture the kind of low status men to whom TRP appeals.

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2015-01-06T21:51:16+00:00

A gendered difference I have noticed: Men ignore unattractive/low status women. Women despise unattractive/low status men.

I think it boils down to this: 1. Women take longer to reproduce, making them almost always more reproductively/sexually selective. 2. Men consequently are required to approach women if they want any success with them. 3. Women can more readily wait for men to approach them and do not need to approach men.

So women dislike low status men because they are constantly hit on by them and have to deal with the annoyance and creepiness of it on a regular basis.

Men don't care about low status women because they don't actively bother us.

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WellArentYouSmart · 2015-01-07T01:56:35+00:00

A low-status man has nothing to offer a high-status woman, but he could potentially pose a risk. He could, if he's particularly fucked in the head, potentially try and rape her and that could lead to pregnancy. The higher her status relative to his, the more this risk increases. It's a small chance, but a genetically disastrous outcome.

If someone has nothing to offer you, but they pose a slight risk to you, you'll generally act towards them with disdain. That's why I cross the street from people at night, despite the fact most of them probably aren't about to stab me and take my wallet.

It's worth noting that men also tend to act with disdain towards fat women - the reason is the same. She has nothing to offer you. The reason why men usually just ignore fat women rather than anything else is because she doesn't pose any significant genetic risk to them.

Rhad42 · 2015-01-06T17:57:23+00:00

Disdain? That is quite harsh.

Or do you equate disdain = not sleeping with them?

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T18:16:54+00:00

Easy, they feel that they can do better. Every one wants the highest status person they can pull right?

Why would a woman want a man making minimal wage ,living with parents with no prospects when she feels that she can get a man making good money with his own place and nice car?

The same thing with men too.

SirNemesis · 2015-01-06T19:35:42+00:00

Male disposability.

Next question please.

cxj · 2015-01-07T03:48:19+00:00

SRS sympathetic to men/neckbeards?

Yep, just checked hell, and its frozen the fuck over. Better pack your ice skates when you die HHL :)

[deleted] · 2015-01-14T12:12:15+00:00

I think they don't, but more like disdain men who don't strive to improve their status a bit, or even more precisely, men who don't have an ambition that results in many things, status gain being one of them. I think most women value ambition more than success. I was often told that I am OK because they previous boyfriend did not try to make something of himself. They did not say he tried and failed. That would be okay as long as he keeps trying.

I think these guys get disdained not because they are low status but because they have given up on working on it.

Why do you think women disdain low status men?

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Title	Why do you think women disdain low status men?
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Date	January 6, 2015 9:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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