Askreddit thread earlier today asked what your biggest secret is that would ruin your life if it got out.This reply was mild compared to the dog fuckers, incestuous twins, and wannabe murderers, but it stuck out to me, for obvious reasons:

I have been a fake person to almost everyone i come in contact with. I have cheated on all of my boyfriends without a second thought or any remorse, but i would give them hell if they even looked at another girl. My parents dont know the truth about how i make my money. I've had sex with god knows how many men (given my job) in order to make good money and yet my on-again, off-again boyfriend is completely clueless. I talk shit about my friends to other friends and never own up. I even went so far as to use one of my close friends for help with rent and food and bills, and then bragged to my friends that i never even had to hook up with him to get any of it. (He found out but i denied it). Basically, anytime the truth comes back to hit me, i just deny it and instead blame the person for being disloyal for even accusing me of anything without concrete proof. I dont mind using people because if they want to give me something, i'm not gonna turn it down but then they shouldnt expect anything from me, right? I make my sugar daddy feel like he's the world to me, but obviously i would drop him like a bad habit if the money flow stopped coming in. I'm basically an unapologetic fake person and i dont care. This is a fuck or be fucked world. The only person that knows everything could probably destroy me, but i have an ace up my sleeve incase it comes to that. I talk shit about how toxic my parents are but run to them for cover as soon as my other shit gets too hard to handle. Basically, just stay away from me. Idk what else to say. Truth is like shit, it will eventually float. But not in my case. I'm just too special. I am the great and powerful (name not disclosed) and i will make the most of any situation. I sincerely believe everyone wants to fuck me. I dont mind putting a price on that.

I believe what she posted because there's no reason to lie on an anonymous message board about your sex life. Some of you reading this may get very angry and the selfishness displayed by this poster, but it would be wasteful on your part. This is a brilliant sexual strategy for her, she get laid while making money(sugar daddy), and has an emotional tampon in the form of her "on again off again" boyfriend (the orbiter). She also has her BB who pays for rent and food while getting nothing, even the boyfriend getting cheated on is less pathetic than this.

The point of reading the post isn't to get mad, it's to know the warning signs of bad behavior. Right off the bat we have her dodging accusations by questioning the loyalty of the accuser, or flat out denial. Then we have the treatment of friends, she's not a good friend. Woman trash their friends all of the time, so it's hard to say that her behavior is a warning sign, but would you want to be around someone that negative?

The biggest red flag and also the easiest topic to bring up is her parents. It's an innocent question that can give you way more information than most people ask on a first date. A well balanced woman will love both her parents, or at least appreciate them. She's going to be a headache if daddy loved her too little or he loved her too much. Here she says that she trashes them but runs back to them when SHTF. It's clear that she doesn't appreciate or value the time and energy of others, if you find yourself in a relationship with this type of woman: you fucked up.

I dont mind using people because if they want to give me something, i'm not gonna turn it down but then they shouldnt expect anything from me, right?

This is the most helpful part of the whole post. Don't ever get the assumption that women owe you anything, ever. Don't ever get the assumption that YOU owe them anything, ever. So don't do favors for people that wouldn't help you out, don't ever lend something you expect to get back. Before agreeing to something, ask yourself "would this person do the same for me?" If she calls you up because her car broke down or she needs help "moving a couple of things to my new place" think about how that conversation would go with the parties switched. Is she going to jack your car up and pull the full sized spare out of the trunk and mount it on the side of the highway at 1 AM? Is she going to help you carry your futon out of your 4th story apartment?

The answer is always no. Don't do favors for people who haven't earned them, don't be a time ho. Respect yourself, or other people won't. Some parting words from the hamster:

This is a fuck or be fucked world

Keep lifting.

Edit: apologies for the poor format, I double spaced the paragraphs but it doesn't seem to show up in the corrected post.