How can TRP find fault with the cock carousel, but still find fault with women being picky?

lewormhole · 2014-08-29T13:10:50+00:00

The cock carousel always sounded really fun to me. I imagine myself sitting on massive plastic dicks with seats and reigns on them, flying round and round without a care in the word! Yeah....

sh1v · 2014-08-29T05:59:09+00:00

how can a woman not be entitled/picky and also not be a slut?

Easy, by doing one or the other.

A woman with low partner count has, in a way, already earned the right to have higher standards than a slut. She brings a quality, chastity, to the table that the sluts don't, and therefore can demand more out of a potential partner. Value for value.

It's not quite that simple of course. Every woman should cultivate high value if that's what she's looking for in a man. Having low partner count is usually a boon here, but not always. The occasional frustrated male will still call out chaste women for their unreasonably high standards, and if she doesn't have many qualities other than that chastity, and is rapidly heading for spinsterdom, he may have a point... but it could well be that he's just trying to pump and dump her, and mad cause he can't.

an_absolute_rose · 2014-08-29T00:49:42+00:00

being an even decent-looking woman means you can have sex with a guy...literally every week

It's amazing how many times I've seen blue pillers either try to refute this or flat out deny it's truth. You have gained respect from me if that matters to you. I know most blue pillers would be disgusted with my belief that respect is earned and not given, but you just earned some in my book.

So, all that said, how is a woman supposed to lower her standards without riding the cock carousel?

I would suggest only sleeping with guys who you are going to be in LTR with. Ideally assuming for marriage around 25 years old.

it would be a huge sacrifice for a beautiful woman to choose an unattractive man at an early age just to avoid being a slut or being picky.

I have no issue with women being picky with who they are with in LTR. In fact if a woman went through periods where she was single and didn't sleep around I would respect that decision.

For most men it's hard to get laid. For most women it's equally as hard to resist temptation. Both have their challenges and that's why female chastity and male promiscuity are both of high demand by each respective side.

masterrod · 2014-08-29T17:08:13+00:00

So, all that said, how is a woman supposed to lower her standards without riding the cock carousel? Other than, at the age of 18, choosing the least attractive man she can find and marrying him immediately.

This is a good point. However, women are usually looking for a good fit that's' socially, physically, and sexually. So if a girl is riding the Cock Carousel how is she able to do so without getting her heart broken a few times? Does she have bad judgement or is she just a horrible person? Is she becoming numb to sex altogether?

It's not about balance or the Cock Carousel, it's really what she thinks about sex. If she thinks sex is not a big deal, then what's stopping her from cheating when she gets bored inevitably of her mate? Or worst, is heart so calloused that she can never truly trust man to be in relationship thus she will inadvertently try to destroy the relationship when it gets good?

Also, women are different from men when it comes to sex, because their pussy is more valuable then our dicks. Consequently, I have yet to find a promiscuous women that can ride the carousel unscathed (but i can't say I'm looking ;)). However, I know plenty of men that have no problems fucking a lot of girls and sliding into a relationship. In fact, I find most of my friends that are players end up in solid relationship in the end.

Considering TRP seems opposed to pursuing any women who aren't a 8/10 or above, it would be a huge sacrifice for a beautiful woman to choose an unattractive man at an early age just to avoid being a slut or being picky.

This might be true except beautiful women with choice learn other skills to pick their men.

Frankly, I don't' have a problem with the Cock Carousel, I'm more concerned about the aftermath.

AFormidableContender · 2014-08-29T01:07:06+00:00

There's a difference between moderation, and excess
The cock carousel infers that women are "riding" the same small subset of alpha men, therefore, the cock carousel wouldn't be such a bad thing in and of itself if the amount of sex was being distributed "fairly", but that a small subset of men is accruing 80% of the sexual attention is what the dissenters of the carousel take issue with.

[deleted] · 2014-08-29T17:43:00+00:00

I'm purple and don't find much fault with the cock carousel, because hey, wtf did we expect out of life anyway? Better parents for all? Ha!

I mostly find fault with older women not giving reasonable guys a shot by at least getting to date #1, and also believing that "waiting" is a viable strategy. Like... pretty much any woman in her 30's on a dating site looks like she is going to be on that dating site for 10 to 20 years or more and if she wanted kids, she is probably not going to have them because her strategy is taking too long.

NegativeNancy1 · 2014-08-29T14:44:14+00:00

Very good question. It's because TRP are a bunch of hypocritical losers who want women to be sluts so they can pump & dump until they are 30 -40 years old (thereby contributing to the "CC" they claim to hate so much), yet at the same time they only consider women who are chaste, virginal and pure to be mother & wife material.

Watch those guys getting bored of their "pure & virginal" woman 2 years down the relationship because she is too boring in bed, too pure, "you dont do dirty things to the mother of your children", blah blah blah

TRP guys are the men most prone to the madonna-whore-cpmplex, and also most prone to cheating on their women because their virginal good moms will be too boring in bed for their taste ("fucking only one p***y for the rest of your life is soooo boring") and because they got used to spinning plates and fucking way hotter women. because guess what, years of riding on the CC they condemn so much not only damages women - it damages men too!

jamieoneal82 · 2014-08-29T00:16:22+00:00

Who has ever said women should settle for unattractive men? Who said women shouldn't have high standards? Not riding the CC doesn't require lowering of standards, it just means different standards. Women who ride the CC are sluts because they'll sleep with any asshole/DT/loser who gives them the tingles, as opposed to seeking attractive, high-quality LTR men.

nomdplume · 2014-08-29T01:03:33+00:00

being an even decent-looking woman means you can have sex with a guy, provided you don' care about looks/age/behavior, literally every week.

Being an even decent-looking man means you can have sex with a girl, provided you don't care about looks/age/behavior, literally every night of the week.

It's true.

Just most people skip having sex with people they don't find attractive (some skip unless the other is really attractive). So it's kind of a moot point.

I admit- I complain a lot about not getting laid. But really, I'm complaining about not getting laid the way I want to get laid.

I could, right now, exit my house, walk to any of the 24 bars within three blocks of my house, and find someone to have sex with me before the night is over. I'd bet my life on it. Problem is, I'm also pretty certain I would not be able to perform sexually at all with said individual, given that I would probably find such a person sexually repulsive.

Alas, turns out my problem is not a lack of sex after all...

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2014-08-29T15:50:34+00:00

How can some women mock men for being virgins while also being weary of men with many sexual partners?

Some people are kinda hypocritical their demands on the opposite sex.

through_a_ways · 2014-08-29T15:38:01+00:00

How come many women find fault with men who would literally bang anything, and also find fault with men who are picky (choosing not to date chubby girls, or black girls, or some other disqualifier they may have)?

ExpendableOne · 2014-08-29T18:01:02+00:00

Women having ridiculous standards and entitlements and women being picky isn't really the same thing. What women base their decisions/standards here matters. Not wanting to settle for a guy who isn't attractive is one thing, not wanting to settle for a guy because you expect him to fit some gender roles and expectations that shouldn't even exist anymore is another.

Also, a woman can still be picky without going into every opportunity with a negative attitude(where those unrealistic expectations end up costing them good opportunities). There are plenty of guys who are looking for LTR out there, and who have a lot of great qualities, potential and value that might not be apparent right off the bat. A woman could just as easily approach all these men without fucking all of them too.

Villaintine · 2014-08-29T00:48:54+00:00

I don't find fault with women being picky per se, it's the unrealistic value they believe they have that would be an issue. As far as not being a slut- that's pretty easy- don't sleep with every guy you date. There should be a conscious evaluation of every possible SO as to whether you're actually going to get a commitment out of them.

Will stressing commitment scare some men away? Yup. Will it also result in less sex (i.e. physical validation) for a woman? Yup. But there are always repercussions to actions. Gotta keep your eyes on the prize.

Title	How can TRP find fault with the cock carousel, but still find fault with women being picky?
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Date	August 29, 2014 12:06 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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