Honest question for long time red pillers

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October 4, 2019
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So I’ve been in this community for two years and I’ve finally raised my SMV to get the exact kind of girls I want. My exact type and they’re gorgeous (LA and San Diego girls).

How in the flying fuck do you guys stay detached from multiple girls who display no red flags and are your EXACT type, basically the dream girls of your blue pill days?

It’s easy to plate girls who are even 7-8 but when you get to 9-10 who actually appear to be sweet and help you in life don’t bitch and rarely shit test. Along with pleasing you sexually to the best of their ability your natural inclination would be to be like fuck I should take these girls seriously. I know about AWALT and I know what even these girls are capable of. And it’s happened and I’ve just brushed it off and moved on and got more girls (mostly from just plating beautiful girls you can live off the remnants of her friends and other girls who saw you with her for awhile).

P.s. no one in the anger phase or still incel reply I don’t care for your opinion.


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Title Honest question for long time red pillers
Author Whycantwealltwerk
Upvotes 118
Comments 75
Date 04 October 2019 12:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/288683
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[–]SesameStreetPimp172 points173 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sometimes we forget how we got these girls then we go back to Beta behavior. Remember you got there because of the redpill.

[–]norcalguy5105 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had to save this. So true yet so easy to forget.

[–]ElegantCyclist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How in the flying fuck do you guys stay detached from multiple girls who display no red flags and are your EXACT type, basically the dream girls of your blue pill days?

It's also possible that he wants a long-term relationship. I can't speak to that.

[–]Protocol_Apollo35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

You keep them in your rotation, keep vetting them and keep adding/pursuing more plates.

This way you won’t idolise them or “fall” for them for any wrong reason (ie them being your sole provider of pussy).

This is where the wheat is separated from the chaff- do you go back to your blue pill ways and pedestalise women due to your ideals or do you keep it red.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1810 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. It's an on going choice between red and blue. The path is very different to the map.

[–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s natural, at least 100,000 years natural, to emotionally desire a marriage or an LTR. So in a real sense it’s unnatural to be detached. RP recommends detachment for practical reasons. So it’s your choice, attachment or detachment, but I don’t think it matters because either option isn’t ideal.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

Damn if you do damned if you don’t. I guess your answer is the one I knew but couldn’t find the words. Thanks.

[–]Mojiitoo28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy

Mate everybody here on TRP is on a high horse about pussy slayin and stuff as the perfect ideal.

But its also about your happiness. TRP thinks in black and whites, as to make sure to get everybody as abundant as possible. Thats by plating. But the world is not black and white and in your context, what would you like?

But, as long as you dont turn into billy beta, nobody is actually saying you cannot date a girl/LTR. Just keep it fun, exciting, apply dread etc. I've been in a relationship for a while now, and well I am happier overall.

[–]tornadoboy335 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

u/whycantwealltwerk this is the response thread, right here. Came down here to type something similar. Follow the TRP ground rules to develop alpha traits and become ‘alpha’. From there, just be your own man and do what makes you happy. However like Mojito said, all this is assuming you don’t forget the ground rules.

[–]thrwy7547928 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

I know about AWALT and I know what even these girls are capable of. And it’s happened and I’ve just brushed it off and moved on and got more girls

It's not clear whether you actually have the problem you're asking about. You've got it figured out.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I smell a rat

[–]I_Dont_Type3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

He’s saying that he’s showing blue pill traits with these top tier girls, causing them to lose interest and forcing him to hard next them. What exactly do you mean?

[–]thrwy754796 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

He simply moves on to another girl when he becomes BP, which shows self-awareness, and it's all you can really do.

If it's a lesson OP is looking for, then it's accepting the fact that betaization is inevitable in any relationship with a girl. OP is instinctively aware of this because he's able to catch himself getting attached, and I think every guy has some level of awareness of this, hence, commitment phobias.

Commitment, by definition, is BP because you're giving up opportunities to fuck other girls to stay with your girl. Further, girls get bored faster than men in bed.

Fact is, you can't beat girls in the sex and relationships game. No guy can compete with a girl over N-count simply because of the ease with which they can land new partners.

There's nothing wrong with having some BP traits, particularly if you're thinking marriage and kids but thinking you can avoid this by playing stupid games, or using some magical formula is arrogance. It's akin to thinking you're above the game, which no one is.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1830 points31 points  (3 children) | Copy

I remind myself that they aren't going to hang around unless I maintain certain things.

Maintaining those things requires a level of detachment.

I can still like the girls, but I have to maintain a level of outcome independence and low expectation.

Attachment can be born from scarcity. If I find myself overly attached, worryi g about outcomes I remind myself of abundance, to let go of results.

It's always my turn. I can't prolong my turn. She chooses it.

It's discipline. And the 80/20 rule for me. I spend 80 Perce t of my time doing what I love and what keeps me fulfilled. That makes it easier becUse I am choosing to invest my emotions in other things to women. I am more concerned with the outcomes Nd results of my personal goals and career.

You need a solid emotional foundation in stuff outside of them. If the playe keeps spinning, great. If not, I know I'ma be ok

[–]FromTheCaveIntoLight1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I needed to read this today. like op I’ve been doing well. Have 2 really solid awesome plates and 1 that is literally just for sex that I don’t care at all about. I’ve recently found myself like one of my mains more. A lot more. Came here looking for how to keep myself in check, and you provided what I needed. Thank you.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No worries. It's a constant thing. We need to continually name the choice and correct our thinking a d expectations.

For me, doesn't mean I have to be utterly emotionally devoid. I just remember I'm dealing with a five year old and tomorrow they could do anything. I like them, but no expectations. She will prove herself and ask for commitment if SHE chooses. We never try to prolong our turn, just get the max out of it while she chooses to come back.

But yeah, best way for me so far is really concentrate on other things that fulfill me.

[–]FromTheCaveIntoLight1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Solid rp truth brother happy hunting

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper17 points18 points  (9 children) | Copy

How in the flying fuck do you guys stay detached from multiple girls who display no red flags and are your EXACT type, basically the dream girls of your blue pill days?

Why would you stay detached from them?

[–]nateydanger2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

fear of becoming a blue pill is just as bad as being blue pill.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Could you expand on your comment?

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Redpill strategy does not preclude LTRs. If a girl is worthy of one, and you're open to one (and if have trouble "staying detached", you are), then why not?

If a girl deserves to win the prize, let her win the prize.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Fair enough.

I will say that this seems like very risky advice to give to most users on this sub, it's just rationalization food for their hamster. People who could actually use this (aka ones that know how vetting works, don't have scarcity mindset etc) likely have no need for this advice at all.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's not beginner advice, but it's necessary.

Have you read my stuff on Indifference Game vs. Control Game?

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Have not (Or at the very least, don't remember). I have read many great posts of yours, my favorite being "The 2nd fundamental skill".

Also, for curiosity - if you aren't gonna marry anyway, and likely not have kids - what's even the point of upgrading a worthwhile girl to a LTR? You voluntarily put yourself into scarcity, make things harder and for what? To live out a bluepill monogamous dream? You know it's gonna end someday anyway, and when it does, you'll be asking yourself "why did I waste x amount of years of my life with this one person".

I can't imagine going for an LTR in this day and time without it being one-sided polygamous for yourself, just not worth it. Maybe I'm missing something?

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can't imagine going for an LTR in this day and time without it being one-sided polygamous for yourself, just not worth it. Maybe I'm missing something?

There are no red pill and blue pill goals, only methods. Your goals are whatever you decide they are.

Me, I like female companionship. Thus, LTRs offer to me things that hookups don't. Your experience may vary.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fair enough. Seems that we have a different interpretation of the word LTR.

Companionship - I'm all for it, but to me, an LTR is an relationship you could see eventually turning into something "bigger", not just to satisfy your companionship needs. That to me seems like a "pseudo-relationship" , since you are never really thinking about actually converting it into something other than to have the "LTR" experience with all the benefits (companionship, bigger emotional connection etc).

[–]beginner_4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Begin stoic, rational and outcome independent doesn't mean begin a psychopath with 0 feelings.

[–]NOWIFE9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Hang around long enough and there will be signs. Also, Briffault’s law.

[–]mustache_ride_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Smart man. OP, think about this: you live in the country that pioneered movies and television for the whole world. The people here grow up idolizing acting and emulate movies both consciously and sub-consciously, and women are magnitudes better at that than men given their typical higher emotional intelligence. On top of that, you live in LA where literally every other hot chick wants to be a movie star.

It's a dog and pony show, think with your head, not your dick.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well no ones perfect.

[–]ToraChan230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Who is expecting them to be?

Always hated that dumbass saying.

[–]teabagabeartrap2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would say, it depends on how strong you feel.

It is easy to plate a girl. If you are with her, you show her your red side.

You impress her and guide her... when you are in bed or you are doing any activity you enjoy and which is in a field you mastered.

But imagine having a wife, that you eat cereals with at every morning for the next 20 years. Do you have a plan to keep her excited? And lead her all the time? Or lets say 90%. 10% you-fucked-up, is perfectly normal and OK. But do you have the WANT to have the whole situation on hard mode?

To be the man and fix things on the house/car/etc. Without asking for validation.

To stick to your word all the time. Get nagged about what to do next and keep on insisting, that you will follow your own plans. But show that you are having progress.

Your SMV will not anymore depend on looks and fun, but absolutely on everything you do.

At least this is my experience.

Owning your shit is then indispensable

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good point.

[–]furcryingoutloud2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Concentrate on the abundance. Sure, many girls will seem perfect, but even unconsciously, they are working their game on you. It works in stages see?

Stage One: Be the perfect girl. This stage is where they are looking to snare you into an LTR

Stage Two: Begin to whittle you down to their expected mate. Subtly, they begin turning you against your friends. Just asking questions that make you wonder about the validity of their friendship. Questions that make you wonder how you ever lived without their "wisdom".

Stage Three: You are now friendless, your full attention is on them, your life revolves around them. You can't make a move unless you receive their approval. Want to buy that car? "Let me ask my LTR". You want to join the gym? Your LTR will have the answer. Spend some money on [Insert wish here]? Better ask her approval.

Stage Four: You're toast. You don't need Stage 4, this is probably the stage where she loses interest in you because you failed all the shit tests while admiring her ass and wondering how you got lucky enough to land her.

NEVER GIVE UP ON QUANTITY

[–]GonadGravy3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Staying detached is easy when they are abundant and you know your worth. If you find one to gamble on, you vet her over the time and watch her actions to calculate the risk/rewards.

It makes a lot more sense when you are actually in that situation, which is why I find it funny that you’re asking. If you’re drowning in top shelf pussy, you’d already know it, or rather feel it.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not drowning in top shelf maybe two girls. Maybe that’s why I’m asking. I will say they’re new to my rotation and I’m figuring out how to adapt to it. Mild imposter syndrome but I’ll just keep raising my SMV until it goes away.

The thing with TRP is you always think you have a hold of it until something new happens and you’re like fuck I’m not as red pilled as I thought.

[–]GonadGravy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very true. Like many things in life, it’s a constant learning process.

[–]huey7642 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dont invest in them

[–]Merica9111 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

What’s the question?

[–]BloodSurgery8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hes asking how not to catch feelings when hes plating lots of gorgeous girls with no red flags pretty much.

[–]Inyox-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

It sounds like he is already attached

[–]innerspeaker889 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

No shit captain obvious.

What about to answer to his query.

This is the typical comment of the redpill users. Making a let down statement of a help request and zero help provided.

This forum is dying.

[–]443610660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So damned if you do damned if you don’t, okay

Let the indicator be yourself, especially your age and maturity. Are you ready for a commitment?

For example I can’t see myself in a relationship because I’m just 24 and not in the maturity which will allow me to dominate a girl in the long term.

[–]Zombiespire0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Here's the way I see it. The ultimate end game is to settle down with a true wife. Yes there is a risk, you know what they are, but we can't spend our lives waiting for that. You're a man, you can prepare for the worst, and when it happens you can handle it. Just don't stop being a man to love this girl.

It's ok to fall in love. We have to find our way back to the old world in whatever way we can.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Isn’t that using the red pill for blue pill goals ?

[–]Zombiespire4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Blue pill goals aren't wrong, but blue tactics and life styles are. Every beta wants a wife and family, but they can't achieve that because they don't behave like alphas in the sexual market. We can achieve that. The redpill is our counter attack to return to the ways that built civilization, while the powers that be do everything they can to destroy it.

If we just commit our entire lives to promiscuity and meaningless sex and relationships, we're no different from MGTOW besides pussy.

[–]deathhandmachiavelli1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Blue pill goals aren't wrong, but blue tactics and life styles are. Every beta wants a wife and family, but they can't achieve that because they don't behave like alphas in the sexual market. We can achieve that.

Succinctly put and SO accurate.

So many have a hard time understanding that. You can have a quality LTR as a goal, but must use red pill tactics and life style to achieve it.

[–]beginner_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

TRPs focus on plate spinning and not commuting is due to the fact that you should have absolutely done that before every thinking about an LTR. You can't understand it from simply reading.

And once you managed to actual spin 8 or 9s then you probably don't really need any help anymore. Or much more advanced and most content is geared at noobs.

So if you wanna try an LTR do it. Just be aware it will end and hence you need to be willing to walk when it's more burden that benefit and she starts acting up.

[–]CypherMX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Afaik there is only one way how to stay detached - having a strong sense of purpose. If your purpose in life is your strongest passion, then all women become second fiddle. That being said, one of the most common purpose men find for themselves is to raise a family, this encompasses both BP and RP men. Even if this is the purpose you are gravitating towards then all the more reason to stay on strong RP grounds, otherwise the 9-10s will stop dating you. Just make sure that this is what the real you wants, and not something that your inner BP beta is pushing on you because it found "the one" or something like that.

[–]RivenHalf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Learn to stay with those women long enough to experience their bullshit...detachment will come

[–]wanker71710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Remind myself that I don't have them and it's no big deal, but I've had girls go from being completely into me to nothing at all. As a result I've already been conditioned to feel this way. Although it's almost impossible to completely detach yourself from them because you're constantly thinking of inside jokes and teases you can draw back on, which means you are going to be thinking about them at least a bit

[–]1InformalCriticism0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They're calm and easy going, because they have a glut of abundance mentality. That fades over time if you stay with them, because as they start to realize they're the ones with fewer options, they're going to mix in comfort and shit tests and keep their DMs open on IG.

She'll fuck you while she sends nudes to celebrities. You're being used for dick and comfort while she plans her "retirement" with men who've already crossed the finish line.

[–]redbananaboard0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

In my experience, I think it works like that (at least for me). You increase SMV, the hard work pays off. You start attracting bitches without even trying too hard. You spin plates, you have all sorts of adventures. Great sex, ok sex, and mediocre sex.

At some point, you don't even know how one of those girls start to look more interesting than the random hot bitches you've been having as plates and BOOM! You're dating/LTR. Shit goes south in X time for whatever reason. Back to spinning plates, as long as you didn't become a weak beta piece of shit.

I think there's nothing wrong with LTR's as long as that is something you want and don't interfere with your top-level goals. If the girl is legit and you hold your frame in the LTR it can be fun as fuck too. Just remember LTRs are TRP on hardcore mode. You gotta be applying the principles like a pro if you want shit to work. Always make her feel as if she's lucky to be there with you and that you have options.

My mindset is to be engaged until a certain extent but never overly attach. If you're in an LTR and you feel you might die if you leave her or vice-versa go back to the sidebar and man up! Note that TRP is a set of principles, not rules. You don't need to be in pussy destroyer mode all the time, do whatever feels good to you and your goals in life. I hope it helps homie.

[–]Frisky-Fox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why stop there, you’ve got a bunch of 9’s and 10’s. Introduce them, start dating them all together. Make some babies and raise them as a collective? The world is what you make it.

Nothing is serious, and everything is serious. Whatever makes you happy.

[–]ToraChan230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because there is no "dream girl". Just girls.

Who she is today is no guarantee that she will be that person tomorrow. You ALWAYS have to be on your game, and realize you are ALWAYS replaceable, just like she is. You don't just go into autopilot and think you made it to Easy Street.

You enjoy the ride, but don't get locked in and think it will be permanent.

[–]Crixusgannicus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How?

Simple.

Always Remember and Keep in Mind!

1 The Wall Is Coming!

and

2 NO WOMAN ESCAPES THE WALL! It's not a question if IF, it's a question of WHEN and how HARD it hits!

Search this name:

"Brigitte Bardot"

[–]daymi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How in the flying fuck do you guys stay detached from multiple girls who display no red flags and are your EXACT type, basically the dream girls of your blue pill days?

By making the mistake of overcommitting and then them losing interest, over and over again. Eventually, you understand that you must not make them too comfortable ever, and, even if you like them, don't supplicate ever.

You have to be in control all the time and they have to be submissive (they like it more anyway).

[–]Hydrakeen0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds great. If you choose just one, maybe you dont get bored with them in 3 years. Maybe she doesnt get bored of you.

How are your finances? What else do you want to do with your life? Go live it, escalate these women deeper into your life and see how it goes. Have a favorite plate and bring her a little more in. Try it with any or all of them but go on about your life and remember that people change.

One of the reasons it's going so well is because they DONT have you and that's attractive and they need to remain attractive to make you continue to feel like you should be with them.

Maybe that doesnt go away when you lock down, maybe... what do you have to lose except all the plates you have now?

You can always get more.

[–]Truedemocracy50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing wrong with pursuing an LTR mate. For all it’s trouble there are also benefits.

Just remember to stay red pilled that she will leave/disrespect you if you begin letting up, and to always be improving

[–]Drainstink0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they have so so so much more options than you. Young women who are 9/10 change their minds at the drop of a hat. They cant commit and know what they want. Its just reality to expect it suddenly with those types

[–]Don_Draper270 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s possible to have multiple girlfriends. Multiple friends with benefits who know about each other but are willing to share you.

[–]hugaddiction0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can’t keep yourself from experiencing emotions. Instead of trying to control the emotion, control the response. Acknowledge your feelings that you are falling for one of these girls, that’s natural when you start dating women you think are of equal or higher smv than yourself, and remind yourself that she is not your soul mate because they don’t exist, she may qualify for monogamous relationship, which is ok, or she may let you down and need to get tossed aside. Stay rational, that’s all you can do. If a red flag shows itself, disengage, otherwise, congrats on scoring a worthy chick, or for as long as she stays that way.

[–]Exo23030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because the moment you cave and move into her frame, she will begin to loathe you. It's extremely difficult to get the balance right, most dudes fuck up.

[–]Godmode22290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Give it time. AWALT will takes years to internalize.

[–]alittletoosmooth0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You don't know a girl until you've slept with her for at least 6 months. All of the girls I've been with who seemed perfect were just putting up a facade to achieve their goal of locking someone down. If they are still perfect after a while and your goal is a LTR, then go for it. Just keep your head on straight. Don't be blinded by the beauty.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

They do conform a lot of their answers to sound like something I’d want to hear. Do girls do this with every guy or just with guys they’re interest in I’d assume the former.

[–]alittletoosmooth1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

The higher your SMV the more she wants to lock you down. What do you think? I have all of the subjective SMV things in my favor with the exception of lifting. I'm by no means out of shape, but I'm a bit soft. I'm tall, attractive, great money, great social circle, etc. so I get this shit all the time. Chick tries to play nice girl and I usually play along but once I fuck her like a caveman and she has her guard down I usually start digging. Be sex positive, non judgemental, and never under any circumstances let her know that something she did in the past is a "red flag" to you. Just make a mental note. It's really fucking hard to consciously change your natural personality over a course of a few months including during periods of drinking alcohol or times of intense passion. If she's a hoe, and you have hung out with enough hoes, eventually it will come out. For the record, I don't hate hoes. One of my favourite plates was/is a huge hoe. We had a lot of fun together. But no way I'm going to LTR this chick.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yea I keep my mouth shut and don’t show any negative facial expressions when they talk about their “past”. I just recently realized how much blue pill guys shame girls or even judge them for how many dicks they’ve had, whether it be conscious or not.

[–]mickenrorty0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I learnt the hard way, at peak red pill lifestyle, I met a 9 that I Became attached to. She lost attraction pretty much immediately after I sent her flowers at work one day, having had been treating her flippantly up til that point.

It was just my turn, she went on to fuck her boss who was married with two kids.

Gawd she was fun and dirty, we’d use the disabled toilets to fuck on our lunch breaks in our office building, panties to the side, fist full of hair in front of the mirror.

Anyway the way she suddenly lost attraction and was able to move on and how hard it seemed to hit me was a wake up call I became a little more mindful and self aware from that point

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You worked with her?

[–]mickenrorty0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah our offices were nearby

[–]LLL3peat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Simple. Treat them as if you don’t care. Treat and interact with them as if they are human beings(hint, they are) but you have more than one to choose from.

It’s like having a box of crayons, you loose one of the 64 pack, find another one to fill it’s place while you have others.

If you want to have an LTR then you start to narrow them down one by one over the course of a couple weeks.

[–]DrExtra0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Reeeeeemmmmeeeeberrr yoooouuuurrrr puuuurrrpposeee in lifeee....put yourself first...first...firs....fir...fi (echo and fades away). Nah but for real that helps.

[–]deathhandmachiavelli-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are a lot of misconceptions about relationships and 9s and 10s, among those even in the RP community.

IMO, the goal of the Red Pill shouldn't be to spin plates until eternity. You are going to get old, and eventually, a family with kids and a great LTR with a 9-10 is the ultimate goal. Its RP on God Mode and most can't master it, even here.

But I'll be honest with you. I am in an LTR with one of those 10s. She's not the first great one that I've had and I don't turn into the blue pill beta. I got where I am with practice. 9s and 10s actually make the best girlfriends, they rarely bitch and rarely shit test (IF you have mastered the game, are high SMV, and are socially intelligent). You are realizing this, most people don't believe me when I tell them this, but you are getting a taste of this reality.

You can LTR a 10, if you continue to be your high SMV, RP self, you can have a great quality relationship with her.

Now for the bad part, even though you have a great relationship with this girl, you must stay somewhat emotional detached and accept the truth that it can always end. You always need that back up plan, and you always need a roster of girls to take her place if it happens. Now for the other bad part, if she thinks that you CAN'T get another 9 or 10 at any time, or she is too hot for you, your relationship will go south quick. If you have enough balls, you get to LTR a 10 and have a great relationship, but you can never go beta or forget how to do it.

Fuck everyone who doesn't believe me, but I'm the guy who has experience with quality LTRs with 10s and speak from experience.

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Hello, I have 10 girlfriends and make 200k a year. Can someone help me with my life??



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