Since last August the sex life with my wife improved exponentially. Sex now is frequent; ~5x weekly. It is also more intense than either of us ever experienced.

So Saturday night we are relaxing in the post-shower afterglow of an amazing evening, and she starts rambling on about our sexual relationship. Most of it is pretty standard stuff.. “it is so different since we fixed things” // she believes that our changes were mutual and I'm happy to let her think so. She goes on to say that she cant imagine being with anyone else. She NEVER thinks about anyone but me when we are together. Then she asks me if I think about others while we have sex.

I chuckle it off with a “yeah right” comment and go back to my book.

She pushes.. I reply “I’m not answering that”. She humorously-but-annoyed presses. I sit up and say “This is in the category of questions like ‘how many people have you slept with?’. I don’t answer them. Never have, never will.”

To which she replies “Me thinks thou protest too much”. I retort with “me thinks you pusheth thy question too far” She end with “well I guess that answers my question” [no response back from me]

I thought about it later when I wasn’t in the moment. Probably the best answer would have been something like “only the <%my favorite football team %>’s cheerleading squad. Why; do you have other hotties I should consider?”

Feedback appreciated. I still have a lot to work on with my LTR game.