Which of the following two scenarios would you rather be in?

1) married to a woman who has little interest in sex but will always consent to it when you instigate. She does not like oral or any positions other than missionary. If you push her, she’ll do them but clearly doesn’t enjoy them and this may lead to her acting distant after the fact. She rarely (if ever) orgasms. Sex happens exactly as often as you’d like.

2) married to a woman who likes sex. She will instigate. She enjoys oral/yoga positions/lights on/standing up/in public/enter weird sex thing here. She suggests new things. Always or very regularly orgasms. BUT she will sometimes turn you down. You always have sex at least 1-2/week (but often more).

Who would you rather be with? Bonus question: what other attributes do you assign to these women? (i.e. Who is more attractive? Who makes you feel more attractive? Who is nicer?) 2nd bonus question: Do either of these women actually exist? If so, who is more common?

(Yes, in both scenarios you’re married. That’s a condition of the two options.)