Q4W. Is it convincing/coercing a woman when she says no and I say "Ok, if you are not that interested, I will just go with that one girl"...

Nevidimka- · 2019-12-30T18:03:43+00:00

I attended a 5-year olds birthday party today and this is exactly how they interact when making new friends

PennnyLame · 2019-12-30T18:03:47+00:00

No. But also, if you’re gonna fuck some other girl, then just do it. If you try to pull this, I will tell you go ahead and then make sure she knows she’s second choice. Nicely of course. Sisterhood and all that. ❤️

2019-12-30T18:38:48+00:00

i...what? who are you people? if a guy said that to me i would be so dumbfounded. i would probably laugh in a dude's face and feel embarassed to be associated with him if he said something like that to me

Specialist-Childhood · 2019-12-30T18:06:00+00:00

Lol.

Why do you think it’s an incentive?

poppy_blu · 2019-12-30T18:24:37+00:00

Is that just high level dread?

I’m curious why you guys have such a hard time with this.

Just like a woman isn’t obligated to sleep with you, you aren't obligated to hang around and wait for her to change her mind. I mean are you married to this woman? What do you owe her?

Either she’ll say, whatever and it’s done, or she’ll change her mind (though I’d be wary of a girl like that).

Now If you’re talking about a gf or wife, yeah that’s kinda shitty. There’s a far more subtle and effective way to dread.

Orange_Paisley · 2019-12-30T19:03:38+00:00

If a guy pointed to a rando and said he was going to try his luck with her, I would wish him all the luck in the world and walk away. Because it would be clear to me that he wasn't interested in me, he just wants someone - anyone - to touch his peepee.

Maybelowsmv · 2019-12-30T17:54:44+00:00

No. And what bloody comment were you even inspired by

rus9384 · 2019-12-30T18:11:23+00:00

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LexaBinsr · 2019-12-30T18:17:54+00:00

Yes, because you're being vocal about it. You should stop at "OK" and then actually go try your luck with that one girl.

Unless you're dating. Then you're just being immature.

quaintrell · 2019-12-30T18:23:28+00:00

It's not coercion but it's extremely cringe

Foxxellot · 2019-12-30T18:28:47+00:00

If you'd do that to me I'd be more than happy to be without you. Sure, for some people with lower self-esteem or something that could work as a way to coerce her.

For me that'd just show me your true colours and make me want to have nothing to do with you

goatismycopilot · 2019-12-30T18:31:46+00:00

Convincing to me? No. If you just need a jizz bucket go for it.

SmurfESmurferson · 2019-12-30T17:58:27+00:00

No. It would actually be an ego snack for me that you clearly preferred me in the first place, and would backfire

“Ok, good luck”

GennyX · 2019-12-30T19:35:23+00:00

Her no still means no. Go talk to the other woman and leave her alone.

lemonfluff · 2019-12-30T21:53:08+00:00

Yes it's coercion. If she's been open to flirting etc then why not just wait a little longer? You've made it clear you're interested, she's said no, either leave or back off and tbh she'll probably say yes later without needing to be coerced into it through the threat of you leaving and taking another girl.

It's like if you have a girlfriend who wants to try pegging, you say no, and she threatens to go with another guy. Would you agree? Maybe, maybe not. But it would still be coercion because you didn't want to. At least not just then.

2019-12-30T22:02:38+00:00

I don’t think it’s coercion, just really infantile lol. If a man did this to me, I’d probably think he was a big fucking baby.

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bonusfruit · 2019-12-31T03:28:07+00:00

It's on the nose. A misapplication of dread game. But not coercion

darksoldierk · 2019-12-31T05:48:06+00:00

Why do you have to tell her that? Just go to the second girl without telling the first girl. Everyone is happier that way. You think she's honestly telling you about things she doesn't want drama about and that hinder her ability to get her way?

NeedingAdvice86 · 2019-12-30T20:54:46+00:00

"I don't know why PPD people can't understand this and assume everyone is an autist."

Because most of PPD are social avoidants who cobbled together just enough personality to get a SO and who hate the prospect of participating with new people and groups who are not vetted by 5 levels of friends or family.

Really just be thankful that you would never be attracted toward or have the misfortune to meet any of them in a social setting.

There are billions of normal attractive women across the globe who understand social dynamics and aren't scared shitless of men and dating.

Title	Q4W. Is it convincing/coercing a woman when she says no and I say "Ok, if you are not that interested, I will just go with that one girl"...
Author	rus9384
Upvotes	1
Comments	150
Date	December 30, 2019 5:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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