Ladies, how would you feel if only obese men showed interest in you as a healthy weight woman? And all healthy weight men that are your looksmatches ignored you and thought they were better than you?

I present a frustrating Snafu regarding OND, and i'm interested in how women would feel if the roles were reversed.

I'm a guy who is normal in weight, into gym/cycling. 170lbs / 5ft10 / 16% bodyfat (remember 13-17% bodyfat puts you in the "fitness" range for men). I like my ladies healthy. I would say I'm average looking, so I go for average non-fat ladies.

With OND I message healthy weight, mostly average looking women around a 5/10 and have a very low response rate. Less than 0.3%. Basically maybe 1 in 300 bothers to reply back and they always flake.

I'm a small magnet for obese or plus sized women. I don't msg them but they msg me. Maybe 5 or 6 of them per month. I generally ignore or block if its the same obese woman repeatedly messaging me. I don't feel the need to tell them they aren't my type as I know I'll end up getting a mouthful of abuse.

I feel pretty bad to be honest, i would say it de-motivates to continue. I put in all the work to go from 187lbs to 170lbs in 2019. Its making me want to quit and look overseas. I have tried the whole "meet women offline in social clubs yada yada ya.." and it doesn't work, either. Just want to know how women would feel if they put in effort to be slim/fit but get knocked back and you feel "pushed to date down" in looks and date a slob.