Women want sex, men want relationships

Workaholiconew · 2020-01-11T07:35:11+00:00

Men and women want good sex and good relationship.

The catch is on the definition and how to acquire those.

TheJim66 · 2020-01-11T09:49:25+00:00

What reality do you weirdos live in?At this point you have to be trolling

Sir_manalot · 2020-01-11T15:09:46+00:00

Men want access to easy sex, they believe a relationship will create this.

2020-01-11T09:19:17+00:00

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ArminoKink · 2020-01-11T14:15:10+00:00

Men can have multiple orgasms, they just don’t know how or that its even possible...

Sir_manalot · 2020-01-11T14:28:58+00:00

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k995 · 2020-01-11T11:16:24+00:00

Its as if you never talked to an adult male or female.

Grow up and reread this over a few years to amuse yourself ;-)

sublimemongrel · 2020-01-11T15:32:27+00:00

Both want both, generally speaking. But also generally speaking women want sex within a relationship and men are more happy to take it from whomever.

Your premises that you’re relying upon to draw your conclusion are flawed in many ways, at least as support for your conclusion. It’s not that simple

Cytrool12 · 2020-01-11T10:22:04+00:00

Its all about definition of love. Men's love is mostly idealistic, while women's love is opportunistic. Its how evolutions has created us. The only thing im mad about is how society and popculture serves us completly wrong patters of how it actually looks like

Grek27 · 2020-01-11T17:48:06+00:00

This is actually pretty accurate, women only want a relationship with the fantasy guy and as soon as he's not she drops it.

MrShakedown1 · 2020-01-11T19:58:20+00:00

But not with us, ugly men. Just top 20% of Chads and Chad lites.

taapy234 · 2020-01-11T13:10:30+00:00

You are correct, but also wrong.

Women DO want sex... but in their younger years. They actually do crave it and the validation it brings from top % males. But like a deflating balloon, they slowly start to lose energy to keep up with this lifestyle, and they slowly start to look for a ~~victim~~ beta bucks guy to look after her so that she "settles."

For men, they can get horny daily, sometimes multiple times a day, and it won't stop unless they have hormonal issues or get senior citizen level old age. Hell, based on the stats I read, even these old people are horny as fuck and are basically having orgies in old age homes so scratch that, if a man is healthy enough, he can have sex until he reaches a level where he physically can't move his own body.

bonusfruit · 2020-01-11T17:16:17+00:00

Women can have more orgasms but also seem to suck at achieving them or learning how their own bodies work. Women well into their 40s say they don't get orgasms and don't even know how to experiment with toys while boys are wanking as early as 13 like pros

blackedoutfast · 2020-01-11T19:58:16+00:00

no it's because men are actually capable of love and loyalty. women are just hoes.

CatchPhraze · 2020-01-12T21:38:48+00:00

Woman are less likely to have an orgasm with new partners vs old.
Men cheat more. This is proven. It's not a you think. It's hard facts.
This is because men really sadly don't get much of any emotional support and they often cling to even subpar ones.

CMOAN_MAYNE · 2020-01-11T17:16:13+00:00

Cringe take my dude

ThorLives · 2020-01-11T19:54:13+00:00

Yeah, this makes sense. /s

Do you think that women masterbate more than men? Nope, they masterbate less: https://io9.gizmodo.com/how-often-men-and-women-masturbate-by-age-1583854130

Do you think lesbians have the most sex? Nope. They have the least. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian_bed_death

Do you think gay men have the least amount of sex? Nope. They have the most.

Research by Blumstein and Schwartz depicts that gay men had higher levels of sexual frequencies in comparison to lesbian women throughout all stages of their relationship.[25] Supporting this, it was also found that white homosexual male couples reported higher levels (47%) of copulating more than once in a week compared to lesbians (32%)... during a ten-year relationship 11% of gay couples [had sexual intercourse three of more times a week] compared to 1% of lesbian couples signifying that gay couples have higher frequencies of sex.[27] Given that males desire higher levels of sex in comparison to females,[28] it is thus, common to find that gay males, in comparison to heterosexuals and lesbians, have the highest frequencies of sex across all stages of their relationships. Thus, this signifies that gay couples encounter in higher levels of sexual intercourse.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desire_discrepancy#Gay_couples

poppy_blu · 2020-01-11T07:18:50+00:00

Actually, women want GOOD sex and men want GOOD relationships.

Women can have multiple orgasms, once she's on she's on for a long time. Men need a break after an orgasm. It makes sense for women to have multiple partners.

LOL wut??

why do women (especially young women) have such a hard time keeping a relationship together without cheating or wondering eyes all the time? You'd often be fooled to think men are the ones with these issues but look around you.

Yeah, ok.

Men may want sex but they want relationships more. They're more desperate, accept more bullshit and seem to fall harder and faster for a girl. Women aren't as desperate and seem more nonchalant about their relationships.

What exactly are you basing this on?

I rest my case

You gotta make a case first.

ak1702 · 2020-01-11T21:54:24+00:00

You seem to be drawing generalized assumptions based on your own perhaps personal experiences?

First, you make a claim with little correlation. Women can have multiple orgasms because that’s literally just based in biology. We don’t have “sperm” to release, so we’re able to go for more rounds without feeling overwhelmingly exhausted or drained I suppose. But just because I can have more orgasms than my partner, does that mean I go out and cheat on him? It doesn’t make sense, why would I do that when he’s perfectly capable of everything I could ever want and need? And if I want another orgasm but he’s not in the mood, well that’s the wonders of masturbation. The desire to cheat on your partner because you’re sexually frustrated isn’t a woman or man thing, it’s a personal thing and indicates a personal issue or the relationship needs to be worked on.

Additionally, once again, it’s not just women who are “incapable” of maintaining a long term relationship. It’s not a gender thing, it’s a personal thing. Young women may find it difficult because they’re still figuring themselves out and figuring out what they do and don’t like in a partner. Cheating is never okay though, and the desire to cheat once again isn’t gendered, it’s a personal issue. Another thing is that it often takes women a longer time to find a long term partner due to an evolutionary stand point. At an evolutionary standpoint, females (in all aspects of nature, not just humans) are very picky with their partners because they want somebody who is going to be reliable so that (once again, purely scientifically speaking) once they reproduce and give birth to offspring, that partner will stick around while the female nurtures and looks after her offspring and the male does the hunting to bring food. It’s wired in our brains, at least when looking for a long term relationship, to think “okay, long-term. Do I trust them? Will they be reliable?” But of course, as humans have evolved and society has advanced, some aspects are still very similar but not as applicable.

Why do you think that women don’t fall easily? This sounds more like a projection of your own inner dialogue. I, for example fall fast and hard, and have never been nonchalant about my relationships. I’ve had a couple “flings” where there weren’t much feelings, but that’s just because I realized I didn’t like the person in that way and that’s okay. I’m sure the same thing can apply to men as well.

MrHerbSherman · 2020-01-11T22:04:20+00:00

Men don’t want relationships as much as they want consistent sex. It’s a means to an end for many men

rochesterjones · 2020-01-13T03:33:11+00:00

Retarded. More retardation here than any other sub I’ve seen save braincels and female dating strategy. People aren’t a monolith. Men and women aren’t a monolith. No averages actually don’t mean anything. This is dumb as shit and you need to learn basic logic

SDW137 · 2020-01-13T15:42:43+00:00

Some women want sex, other women want relationships. Some men want sex, other men want relationships.

Anthony-waltzs · 2020-01-16T17:52:18+00:00

That’s backwards mate..

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rus9384 · 2020-01-11T15:17:56+00:00

Men have higher sex drive, though. That means they want sex more often.
Women don't cheat that much. People don't cheat that much.
Desperacy makes you accept things you don't like in order to get things you want. Now, which is which, sex and romance?

Something_Chronical · 2020-01-11T16:30:10+00:00

Biologically speaking, it depends on the time of the month, literally. Women have a hormone called progesterone that gets secreted into their blood stream for a week and that hormone increases their sex drive by quite a bit, probably even makes them hornier than the average man. But overall, men are biologically wired to desire sex at a much higher capacity, on the average. Until he's emptied his load, then his sex drive diminishes for a bit.

Awokeeleven · 2020-01-11T07:23:30+00:00

Oh god, you got it all reversed really...

AchromaticFade · 2020-01-11T14:25:30+00:00

On this sub, men are rarelly with a bad trait. 🙄

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-11T19:34:25+00:00

Women want sex, men want relationships

I have been saying this lately. I have a better "relationship" with my ex's now that we just have casual sex from time to time than when I was trying to have a relationship with men.

Women only become serious and start caring about relationships after they hit the wall and they aren't hot shit anymore. Like my ex is always calling me to come over now that she hit the wall. She's trying to be a nice person now when back in the day she was just a bitch. She also thinks that I've forgotten that.

whydidntthey · 2020-01-11T07:20:50+00:00

Nah. Women's orgasms don't matter. Young women have zero wisdom and they are very very dumb. If you're going to be a player? Target em young. Find places to meet high school girls they will drop their... jaws cause you are a barely functional adultish guy.

Desperate men want a relationship. Not desperate men may want a relationship, if the girl is right.

Title	Women want sex, men want relationships
Author	no-BBQ-sauce
Upvotes	26
Comments	88
Date	January 11, 2020 7:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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