I still remember what dating was like before PUA became a thing. Most guys were completely clueless to what girls wanted and how go about getting girls consistently. We still got laid and had girlfriends here and there but the reason was just always that we "got lucky". We also had a scarcity mentality because if we broke up we didn't know where the next gf was going to come around. We would still shoot our shots with girls but where so afraid of getting shot down and embarrassing ourselves.
Then PUA became a thing and men learned how to be attractive, flirt, and to approach. Men also learned how to deal with and manage rejection. We started to analyze our approaches to see what worked and what didn't. Overtime we would just get better and we stopped being afraid of rejection and embarrassment. We just detached ourselves emotionally and learned to figure out what we did wrong and correct it the next time instead of feeling down about it like we used to.
Girls also began to lose power because it just became a numbers game and we just had to increase our success rate. No reason to really worry about one girl because even with a success rate of 10% all we had to do was approach 10 girls and we would have another one.
Still can't fully understand why girls say they hate it. I found that most girls liked to be approached. They were flattered for the most part. Yes we did fail sometimes and made some girls uncomfortable, but that just a part of the game. If anything the guy would also feel uncomfortable as well so it was even. Not to mention that many times we would just click and hit it off and we were both happy. She got a guy she liked and we got the girl we liked.
Now with #MeToo females are trying to sequester male sexuality again and the options that PUA/TRP has gotten us. #MeToo is about giving men a reason to be afraid again. Now men don't just have to worry about rejection and embarrassment anymore, we have to worry about sexual harassment charges. Now scorned females can shout #MeToo if they get ghosted. Now we have to worry about LMR ending up as a #MeToo accusation.
Females also seem to care more about sequestering male sexuality more then they care about backlash from overreaching with #MeToo. Now the HVM at the office isn't going to risk his career for a cute secretary. Not to mention that females won't be able to manipulate men with the possibility of sex anymore. If sex is completely off the table with some high risk female men are not going to be so quick to do things for them. It'll also make men wonder why do some unproductive women even need to be employed at all if sex is completely off the table? Not to mention they will be a liability of a walking #MeToo time bomb waiting to go off.
Also want is the point of #MeToo? It's not like females are going to start approaching men in mass all of a sudden. All it's doing is replacing traditional dating with online dating and it kills all the fun and the rush of meeting someone new. Now in the post #MeToo world men will need to text women instead of talking to them so they can collect evidence that could prove his innocence. It's also taking one of womens greatest asset away which is their facade of weakness. Now they are seen as predators and liabilities.
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