Older women sending these messages are a big reason why girls grow up with such poor boundaries and become Pickmeishas

dzgata · 2020-09-30T18:02:46+00:00

Funny how it’s never discussed the other way around. Men don’t discuss ways to prevent their wives from cheating. How they should eat her pussy 3 times a day etc bc there’s tons of male competition out there. I mean that’s more realistic considering women have way more attention from men than the reverse.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-09-30T17:34:11+00:00

The mother of one of my friends in uni gave us really bad advice once. I was so flabbergasted I remember it to this day.

She deadass said: 'It's better to be the mistress than to be the main wifey, because you will get all the fun times, money and better gifts'.

Can you imagine telling that to young women? This was after her daughter found out that the boyfriend had a whole ass wife and two kids.

SundanceDog · 2020-09-30T17:49:36+00:00

How about this instead: If your husband/boyfriend loses "interest" in you, kick him out. He should be so grateful to be in your presence that he wouldn't entertain the thought of being with someone else.

You are the prize, not him.

AnniaT · 2020-09-30T18:58:22+00:00

I hate when people (men and women) but on us the responsibility of not letting the men cheat on us as if these men have no agency and as if cheating wasn't a character issue of the cheater. This narrative, perpetuated even by couple counselors and psychologists have to stop. You can have sex with a man every day, be the best in bed, the sexiest, the best at everything and he still will cheat if he wants to, because cheating is never about the victim of the cheating, but about the cheater and their lack of character and respect for their partner.

DadaExperiment · 2020-09-30T20:33:12+00:00

This isn't even true. There are some men you can fuck every day, and they'll still cheat. This lady is just dumb. Do not dumb here.

TeacherLady504 · 2020-10-01T00:56:52+00:00

I’m in my 40s and I speak from experience that this is total bullshit. I hit my sexual peak and we were having sex daily the year my husband left me for a 20-something. They cheat because they’re trash, period.

2020-09-30T23:14:21+00:00

Holy shit, I'd rather he cheat on me. x'D

Nat_at_all · 2020-10-01T04:55:33+00:00

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alichuchu · 2020-10-01T13:35:01+00:00

this is the worst thing i’ve ever heard...

LevelTurbulent · 2020-10-01T16:12:03+00:00

This is such a joke. They will cheat if they want to cheat no matter how much sex you give them.

Title	Older women sending these messages are a big reason why girls grow up with such poor boundaries and become Pickmeishas
Author	cicerii
Upvotes	97
Comments	17
Date	September 30, 2020 3:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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