[FR] My year since taking the Pill.

Summary: Took the pill a year ago, have gone from 10 girls in 7 years, to 10 girls in one year. This field report details the resources I used and the lessons I learned throughout including tips.

Throwaway account, however some of you might remember a field report from a while back where I had just taken the pill and had a girl masturbating in front of me literally saying "we're not going to have sex." Funniest shit ever.

Anyways, I thought I'd share my year since taking the pill. I've found that in-depth field reports with heavy analysis were most beneficial to me for learning more about TRP so this is my attempt to give back to that body of knowledge.

Disclaimer: The following stories are not me bragging. In fact my numbers for a year since TRP really aren't high but they're okay compared to where I was at.

Since last year I've slept with 10 girls. In the previous 7 years I had slept with 10 girls.

Clearly, the pill had a profound effect.

I had always been a relationship guy so I had 2 LTRs, one most of high school and one most of college. Yes I regret it. But in a way I don't because look where I am because of it.

I've chosen to go through some of those 10 girls and dive into the analysis of how I went from 1st contact to close.

#1 We'll call her S. S was a HB8, Russian girl. Two kids, I didn't care because pump/dump. I met her on Tinder. Within a few messages she was asking to hang out. I opened with the Bf/Gf? Line made famous by the legends on BodyBuilding. The entire conversation was pure DGAF and cocky/funny. We tried to hang out a few times, but I ended up ditching the plans last minute so I strung her along for almost two weeks actually. We finally hang out at her place. I show up in sweatpants and a tee shirt, no fucks. We're watching tv and shit, I proceed to get hit with a thousand shit tests.

"Why are you on Tinder?" I've answered this differently many times but my go to is "to make fun of girls/mess with girls." It implies that I don't take it seriously without revealing true intentions. It works for me.

She proceeds to invite a friend over to smoke. This is where it gets awesome. It's a dude, about my age. Immediately I'm kinda pissed. She said she just wanted to smoke so I held frame and kept acting aloof and like I didn't give a fuck about this guy coming over. Once he showed up I truly didn't give a fuck because he looked like a burn out anyways so I took charge and started talking to him showing her and him that I'm not threatened in the slightest, but I kept it light and funny. They smoke, she texts me while he's still there saying "Sorry lol." I text her "Tell him you're going to bed, I'll pretend to leave too." She does, we fuck right after. She shows me a text from him right before I leave that says "You're so pretty smile emoticon next time we should hang out without your friend."

Poor guy. She smoked all his weed and then fucked me instead.

#2 We'll call her K. This one is the most straightforward fuck I've ever had. Hit her up on OKC. Bf/Gf line. Exchange maybe 6 messages total, get number. Text sporadically for a week, some light flirting, she randomly texts me "Come cuddle" at 2am. Head over, watch some dumbass movie, boom. Sometimes no games have to played at all. I just kept it simple, straightforward, and showed outcome independence via texting (I hadn't responded to her last two texts before the "Come cuddle")

#3 My fav. Tinder, Bf/Gf line. Cocky-funny. etc. This came down to a few key interactions/passed shit tests:

2am Her: Me and my friends went drunk bowling. Me: Nice, me and my friend could meet you guys up. Her: Would you possibly have weed? (Oh no. I know this one little lady. I saw what happens to the weed guy, not today biotch) Me: Haha no just our good looks. Her: She's gonna go to bed, you wanna pick me up from my friend's house?

We hang, make out like crazy, domed off, but no sex. I could tell this no was a for sure no. No worries, I could tell it was a lock for next time.

She comes over to my house 2 days later and we fuck. Ever since she is like a starving dog coming back for more scraps. Texted me at 3am telling me she needs to fuck me, we fuck in her car. She sends me nudes and videos of herself all the time (she's bored and alone away at school now) and is literally texting me right now about how she wants to be manhandled by me and fucked all over her apartment.

#4 We'll call her H. This is an interesting one because she's basically an open relationship LTR at this point. Totally mine. She does whatever I say (bring me food etc.), constantly asking me to come over, have sex, etc. Told her straight up: I'm just not ready to be exclusive with anyone yet, I'm too young. You can accept that or move on to someone else. We've been seeing each other for like a year now. Just be honest with intentions. She would rather be with an alpha and share than with a beta for life.

I have screenshots of Tinder/OKC/Texting convos that went well and landed me in posititions to close that I would be open to sharing but there literally are dozens of examples and screenshots so I would prefer to PM those rather than putting them all here.

Lessons Learned

1. Lifting

I've been lifting seriously for a year now. I started with basically SS even though I had some muscle already. Moved on to Wolverine (BodyBuilding) and I've been doing 5/3/1 Big But Boring ever since. I weighed 145 lb. at 5'9 last year, I now weigh 180 lb. AWALT - Women stare more at my body during sex and just in general. Comments about my muscles etc. Several of those plates said things like "You're getting too big." I like you just how you are. "I don't like guys with big muscles One of them even posted on Facebook a status making fun of guys who work out and closed with this little fucker "Drink another protein shake bro! I fucked her again like a week after. They don't mean anything they fucking say.

1. Reading

Obviously sidebar. The most helpful books/reading resources for me personally were: Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Illimitable Man Commandments or Rules, Heartiste, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and most helpful of all was Book of Pook and Roosh's Bang.

Not really reading but also equally as helpful as the Book of Pook was the Black Phillip and Beige Phillip podcast series. They're long, but I listened to them right before bed and honestly it was fantastic. It just resonated with me more than reading text sometimes and it stuck more for me.

1. Game

Broad, I know. But here are the specifics:

Have an anchor word. Seems silly, yeah, but it helped me. Basically think about being in the zone. Hopefull you've had a moment when you're out with friends and were just killing it socially. Visualize that moment deeply, and attach a word to it. Whatever it is, something unique obviously, and say it to yourself in the morning like a mantra.

Perfect is boring. The Pill is like everything else in life, filled with peaks and valleys. I hit a valley, a deep one, where I just wasn't feeling right about everything. I felt stuck. Then, in Pook, I read this phrase and it helped launch me out of that. I was trying to be the perfect man. No flaws. That's not realistic. DGAF. Improve yourself, but don't let it take over your life and cause negative energy to build up when you're constantly thinking "I'm not good enough."

Everything is temporary. There was a post on here a while back about how we're all monkeys flying on a rock in space. You could run up to girls at the bar and say something like I'm an alien and if you don't suck my dick I'll explode or something. It doesn't matter. We're all specs of fucking dust. We live like 80 years and that's not even a blink in time. Who gives a shit? Do what you want. It won't be remembered and that's depressing in one light, but existentially freeing in another.

Silence, Posture, and Eye Contact. Just in general, doing these things more often has created more success for me. I won't elaborate on these because we've had plenty of posts about them.

Your unique view on the world. Comedy has a special place in my heart and while I don't do stand up or anything I'm a massive fan of smart, dry, and realist comedy like Louis C.K. or Bill Burr as most people here probably are. Their stand up has allowed me to see how they view the world and created a foundation for my humor to follow the same plan. We all look at things in unique and often hilarious ways. Now when I tell a story or a joke I just say what the fuck I'm thinking about it. Not trying to spice it up or add in things I think would be funny for other people. I say it how I see it and how it is funny to me. It works wonders and I can't stress it enough.

tldr: Took the pill a year ago, completely changed my life, scroll up for examples

EDIT:

Area I still need to improve in is cold approaching out at bars and day game. I do great when something is going on and I can use a situational opener but otherwise I have a tough time going up and saying hey I'm so and so. I'd love some tips on that from people who do well with those.