Yes I know men are also fat but the difference is that men are capable of getting women because of their personality which is why you will see a lot more fat men who have skinny women than you will see skinny men with fat women. A man will more readily accept the woman isn't really physically attracted to him.

The difference with women is that they need their man to actually be physically attracted to them. Besides a small number of men with a fat fetish most men are not attracted to fat women so there is an oversupply of fat women. There are not enough women a man can be attracted to for everyone so this means a lot of people are going to have to go without relationships. This also means a lot of desperate men will lie to a fat woman and tell them what they want to hear just to get a relationship. Such a thing isn't sustainable though and the woman will figure this out and likely be traumatized as a result and not able to trust a man again.

So basically women need to stop being fat or just accept that the man they are with really only likes them because of their personality and is tolerating their looks.