Obese woman seeking fit guys only, "Most of the guys I'm attracted to don't ever give me the chance to show them what an awesome girl I am because of my weight"

liberteus · 2020-01-29T13:03:44+00:00

Remember: you're not allowed to have preferences. It is discrimination. Women have standards, it's very different, because it's only bad when men do it.

vampyreking666 · 2020-01-29T13:29:35+00:00

She could always... lose weight.

Unlike the short man, the fat woman can change it.

Why is society ignoring doctors and promoting obesity? Okay, most women can't be models but from a health point obese people are a danger to themselves.

Not only that but aesthetically she just looks awful. Yes that is my cultural upbringing but I am sorry but the looks this woman is trying to wear only look good on thinner women and at some point it looks awkward on bigger ones. Imagine a fat woman in a mini skirt.

NotLuceBree · 2020-01-29T14:04:16+00:00

Honestly I didn't take seriously the entitlement and delusions of obese women until last summer:

I was at an industry-related social gathering (a barbeque), and just chilling with colleagues. Met a young woman, I'll call her Janice. She had a pretty face and a very pleasant demeanor, and I found her charming. She was also obese, had to have been at least 200 pounds, maybe 5'5".

She was also a feminist who began talking about how gender is a social construct and blah blah blah.

So, even though I found her otherwise nice, her weight and her ridiculous views were an obvious turnoff.

Later on one of her female friends pulls me to the side and says "Janice is into you, she'll let you smash if you want it". I couldn't hide my disgust and repulsion at the prospect, I'm sure the friend picked up on it despite my attempts to cover with a polite declination.

As for myself?

I am 6'3", have been lifting for ten years, and have been described as "strikingly handsome". There is simply no fucking way I would ever let this hambeast anywhere near me, but I have to say I was actually offended that this girl had the nerve to even think I would be even the slightest bit attracted to her.

They really don't see the issue with their being fat, it's astounding.

golanginator · 2020-01-29T13:16:01+00:00

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thenotoriousdougie · 2020-01-29T14:14:16+00:00

She’s the size of a walrus but won’t even consider someone with the same “beauty” characteristics as herself. If she really is 5’9” she’s not interested in anyone less than 6’2”, in other words, only the tallest 5% of men satisfy that “requirement”. Also, at 5’9” with that build she weighs a good 400 lbs, which means she breaks furniture, car seats, toilets, etc. Figure that expense in along with the 5000 calories/day she eats to maintain her figure. Out of my price range.

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2020-01-29T14:22:19+00:00

"It's hard to summarize myself in one word."

No doubt, but I think two would cover it completely: "fat" and "lazy".

The only way someone gets that big by 28 is

a) eating too much

b) moving too little

Disgusting. Not just the photo, but the profile itself.

"I'm a tub of lard, but don't judge me - oh, and if you're fat, f*** off."

mustangfrank · 2020-01-29T14:08:01+00:00

She puts others before herself, except at the buffet line.

If she knows what the problem is, then correct it.

I gained 30 pounds in a year. I could not fit into the clothes correctly, so I went on a diet. It took me 3 months to lose the weight. Did I like it? No. It sucked, I was hungry and tired at times, but I lost the weight. Quit making excuses. If she is as big now, what will she be in 20 years?

Dls95405 · 2020-01-29T14:13:45+00:00

It's just mind boggling to me that women think this snarling look and attitude is attractive. Not to mention she's morbidly obese. She's flat out repellent.

incelposter · 2020-01-29T13:58:45+00:00

I have McDonald's money, give me prime steak.

RealMcGonzo · 2020-01-29T14:04:25+00:00

She can't even smile. Aren't fat people supposed to be jolly?

And selfless, eh? If a chick has to tell you she's selfless, then she's constantly being told she's selfish.

KingLeft · 2020-01-29T14:18:23+00:00

This isn't overweight. This is straight up obese.

evil-nick · 2020-01-29T14:33:45+00:00

I had chubby girls look at me perplexed when I used to shoot them down and direct them towards fat guys. Why in the world do you think you are too good for them but I was at your level?????

RunawayGrain · 2020-01-29T14:32:05+00:00

"I need a guy that can bench 450 because that's how much he'll have to shovel into my gaping maw every hour."

houseoftolstoy · 2020-01-29T15:43:21+00:00

I don't care how awesome you think you are, being overweight is not awesome. More expensive and frequent use of healthcare facilities, a more expensive grocery budget, less energy to do anything requiring endurance are practical problems that alone make life less awesome for those around you. Fatness is not an attractive trait to guys, and it would be embarrassing for any physically fit man to be dating someone like this woman.

She wants the fit guys to give her a chance, but won't do the same in turn for a guy who is also fat. And given the lack of self control she has, there is no way her "awesome" personality is anything special either.

Unusual_Chair · 2020-01-29T13:39:28+00:00

To keep her fat in place she wears tight pants that are above the belly button.

Traksimuss · 2020-01-29T14:24:11+00:00

Repost, but I guess a reminder of her is not bad idea.

Old_snowboarder · 2020-01-29T14:40:58+00:00

A person who has a toxic relationship with food I would describe as 'deeply troubled' and not 'awesome'. Disclaimer - I have a toxic relationship with alcohol (dry for 7 years) so I know all about toxic relationships - they are damaging and life threatening and anyone who thinks otherwise is a fool.

toolate4redpill · 2020-01-29T17:28:27+00:00

I'm your typical older guy and I've slept with hundreds of women around the world. I however never got horny enough to fuck a beached whale. If you do, then your too lazy to jerk off.

I mean JEEZ even if your hung like a horse that thing would look like a grain of rice (or brown rice) in her. I can imagine how big her cooch must be. What does she use for tampons? A roll of Bounty and a rope?

No I wouldn't even let her blow me, she's in a constant state of hunger and I'd hate for her to mistake it for a vienna sausage. Plus there are many areas she can't reach with a washcloth so the smell would gag you

DjembeDrummerGuy8972 · 2020-01-29T17:15:02+00:00

She’ll die alone surrounded by empty boxes and wrappers. Don’t worry. This is natural selection at work.

EricTheCreato · 2020-01-29T14:28:45+00:00

I get a sick joy out of seeing these people suffer

Krampus1313 · 2020-01-29T15:28:59+00:00

as someone that use to be in great shape (kid killed my progress and now dad bod) I know what effort it takes to be in great shape. I was a former athlete and was 205 lbs and 8% body fat and no fucking way would I want to be with a fucking land whale.

oxyoxyboi · 2020-01-29T14:27:59+00:00

What they say about mopeds and such ladies

NickTesla2018 · 2020-01-29T18:47:21+00:00

Ah, she can't tie down Chad either. Very sad!

BrickBurgundy · 2020-01-29T19:33:20+00:00

These disgusting porkers really don't have any self-awareness, do they?

rvail136 · 2020-01-29T23:14:21+00:00

Ok, you're fat...but you won't date a guy with the same sort of weight issues you have. Talk about hypocrisy...

sadkratom · 2020-01-30T12:33:12+00:00

Bill Burr female voice * "I just need someone to be with me on my weight loss journey... I want to live my best life..."

2020-01-29T14:28:02+00:00

It looks like the same girl from a week or two back.

azarah69 · 2020-01-29T15:22:37+00:00

They really have no self awareness. Fuck

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-01-29T15:29:46+00:00

Please check and ask you local zoo if they're missing a hippo.

geocorb · 2020-01-29T15:43:38+00:00

I won’t date a fat guy, but I demand a fit guy date me. Well if this isn’t the pot calling the kettle black.

droppingbombs1 · 2020-01-29T16:09:13+00:00

Full figured....? Go figure....

CHAD_TDK · 2020-01-29T18:14:26+00:00

She should give a chance to the guys in her peer group (in terms of tonnage)

PM_UR_PREGGO_MOMBOD · 2020-01-29T18:41:27+00:00

Ah yes, the kind of thread that goes dutifully ignored by those who call you incels and misogynists, along with other colorful words.

Heads up people: this is the kind of person (that happens to be a woman, hence, fits with the sub) that gets feature heavily (no pun intended) here.

otakuzod · 2020-01-29T19:03:02+00:00

Looks like Tess Holiday with black hair. She also appears to have the same insufferable personality to match. Thinking back, I have never met an obese woman with a decent personality. You'd think they'd work on that because that would be the only thing they have besides food.

akihonj · 2020-01-29T19:06:37+00:00

So she really can't see that superficial people annoy her and then goes on to make her whole life about dating a Greek god. How in the hell is she not on medication

Lameador · 2020-01-29T20:39:11+00:00

She's a 3

Can get a bang with a 6

Yet thinks she can mary a 9

Cool, keep waiting.

Gravityhurtsbrother · 2020-01-29T21:53:21+00:00

I can't get hard for lard. Later hambeast.

Zeitgeber7 · 2020-01-30T02:35:30+00:00

would you date someone who is obese???? no. wonderful

h4ppyp1LLs · 2020-01-30T08:03:06+00:00

Gotta love it when they project their insecurities onto others. "You don't like fat bitches because you're not a real man and your mother didn't hug you when you were a child." Yeah, that's the way you'll get someone, dumbass.

smart_26panties · 2020-01-30T10:15:44+00:00

Entitlement is out of this world

z31fanatic · 2020-01-29T17:08:10+00:00

Lol

Just when I thought I had seen it all. What a peach this one. 😂

Uqtpa · 2020-01-29T17:30:31+00:00

Another entitled, stupid and hypocritical cunt. She wouldn't last a week as a short man.

FoxIslander · 2020-01-29T17:32:17+00:00

...absolutely delusional...but, I'm happy she is "selfless".

since25jan2019 · 2020-01-29T20:00:20+00:00

Meh. It's nothing like being called a "short man"--at 5'11".

Scourmont · 2020-01-29T20:40:13+00:00

My friend and I in a drunken and weed induced moment of frivolity came up with the "Thinga". Thingas are fat chicks who expect the universe to revolve around them while offering nothing but a hernia during sex in return. This was in the early 2000s mind you when dating was allegedly better. This thinga is quickly achieving critical mass and will soon become an exoplanet.

Kernalburger · 2020-01-30T00:48:49+00:00

I really could have gone without seeing that fat hog in a giant bra.

IcariusFallen · 2020-01-30T10:56:50+00:00

If I had to summarize her in one word... that would be one fucking huge word.

Kva1234 · 2020-01-29T18:30:28+00:00

So she father's having a delusional guy "loving her" rather than eating less and working out? Smh

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2020-01-29T19:16:19+00:00

'I spend a lot of time thinking about': "What makes some guys so shallow & heartless".

She obsesses over why Mr. 6/6/6 won't fall in love with her. How about getting a hobby that doesn't involve chasing Chad dicks, blubbery one?

fmanly · 2020-01-29T20:51:30+00:00

you should message me if you're ok with joining me on this journey of learning how to love myself and embracing my beauty

Oh, sure, that sounds exactly like what I want to do. My part in the relationship is apparently to love you, and your part in the relationship is apparently to love yourself.

She should open a store and go into business. Hey, if you give me $20 then I'll go ahead and give myself $20 too! Sounds like a great deal!

GSFleming · 2020-01-29T21:33:17+00:00

There are plenty of chubby chasers in the world. She'll find someone.

SuperGoxxer · 2020-01-29T22:39:50+00:00

Christ.

There is a hint of a cute face hidden in that, but its way too damn late to dig it out.

Besides, the personality is utter shit. The best part of course is how other fatties need not apply. But equality, amirite?

coldsteel86 · 2020-01-30T00:35:35+00:00

" Joing me on the journey of learning how to love myself and embrace my beauty "

This translates to......im fat and i know it yet i am to fucking lazy to do anything about it so i need a simp to worship me and make me feel better about myself so i dont have to take accountability.

pdiggs1500 · 2020-01-30T01:21:30+00:00

General Reposti!

binrobinro · 2020-01-30T02:14:40+00:00

It's not just her weight, it's also her face.

thefilthyhermit · 2020-01-30T04:21:20+00:00

Looks like she ate an awesome girl.

2020-01-30T06:20:36+00:00

This is as good as her personality is going to get.

ogrilla99 · 2020-01-30T07:59:55+00:00

Just FYI, I think this one was posted here a few months ago:

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/crao68/quote_plussized_unquote_model_has_her_dating/

kp98409 · 2020-01-31T19:22:48+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

oxyoxyboi · 2020-02-05T06:43:45+00:00

She is awesome alright, awesomely obese

Title	Obese woman seeking fit guys only, "Most of the guys I'm attracted to don't ever give me the chance to show them what an awesome girl I am because of my weight"
Author	goldmedalflower
Upvotes	364
Comments	161
Date	January 29, 2020 12:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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