My career has never been better

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-01-02T18:33:20+00:00

When I dated a sociopath during college, I somehow still managed to make decent grades. They weren’t as high as they would have been if hadn’t wasted my time with him, but still good. Get this: Instead of saying congrats on making Dean’s List, he tried to take credit, saying his smartness and good study habits rubbed off on me. 😾 They can’t stand to let us have anything nice.
To the girl in the video- congratulations on your grades! You deserve it and should be proud of yourself. 🎊

Kimpractical · 2021-01-02T16:49:54+00:00

Same. Everything is going great at work. I’m the healthiest I’ve ever been mentally and physically. I have met a lot of really amazing girlfriends. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been

wagonwheel_ · 2021-01-02T16:49:40+00:00

Smarter, hotter, richer 💅🏼

futuristicallyangry · 2021-01-02T21:16:48+00:00

Every time after a breakup, my career and academics skyrocketed in some way. I have finally learned how to prioritize my career, academics, hobbies and dreams over any man, and life is so terrific now!

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-01-02T18:10:58+00:00

Same! I just received my first 4.0!

staywiththecrown · 2021-01-02T19:22:30+00:00

I have avoided male attention for the past 8 months, and I have never felt this free and hopeful for the future. I feel so much happier!!

edit: grammar

Breesasha · 2021-01-02T16:47:47+00:00

Good for her queen! I know leaving behind the stress/drama of a LVM frees up time and energy that can be invested back into one's self.

moonartemis1989 · 2021-01-02T19:45:16+00:00

This is soooo true im so shocked at what distractions keep a woman from. My ex would keep me from working because he "was sad" & needed company. Just a load off my back now.

staywiththecrown · 2021-01-02T19:00:06+00:00

This motivates me to buckle down and study!!!

shockingupdate · 2021-01-02T23:54:25+00:00

My pickmeism kept me from my blessing for most of the year because “If no one else cares about my success does it even matter ): ): “ but once I’d put my big-girl britches on and realized feeling proud of myself was worth more than a headpat from a dude my attitude got HYPE and so did everything else in my life. So excited to 2021, here’s to being single, proud, and in-fucking-sufferable 🥂

misscatlover123 · 2021-01-03T01:05:58+00:00

My LVM ex I went to law school with got mad at me when I did better in my courses than him (which was every course). He also asked me to hide it from him when I got job interviews because he was jealous I was getting more opportunities than him. So pathetic. Could finally shine even brighter and make top 10% once I cut off the extra weight aka him.

waddamelone · 2021-01-02T22:34:29+00:00

We love to see it!

undertheunderbelly · 2021-01-03T01:34:21+00:00

Yes ! When I was with my narcissist ex scrote, my grades and energy suffered. I was constantly worried and stressing about being his 'perfect girl' while also making my way through the hardest semester of my graduate program. Was literally like having two jobs. And for what!? My degree and career is the only one thats stayed.

Jaymite · 2021-01-02T22:30:52+00:00

I'm doing so much better without them. Though not my full potential cos of stupid migraines ruining everything.

DameSorciere · 2021-01-03T07:40:34+00:00

God, this just reminds me of how much men dragged me down during college/my career. I was in the exact same class with one of my exes, we had a test, I got a high score and he got a low score. Then he broke up with me because he “needed to focus on schoolwork” and “didn’t have time for a relationship.” The trash took itself out

wrice05 · 2021-01-03T16:45:21+00:00

Sadly, I did not take this approach in 2020 and am now licking my wounds as I work on leveling up. But I'm now seriously considering taking the remainder of this pandemic to not just not date, but actively try to limit or eliminate all contact with straight men. I think it might do me a world of good.

autumnxo92 · 2021-01-03T03:39:41+00:00

Manifesting this energy for the whole year 💜

my_curated_life · 2021-01-03T09:56:59+00:00

This makes me so happy to see! And it is so true. 💓

BabyBlankieieieieie · 2021-01-03T18:43:13+00:00

Was fucking a man who was a law school student while I was in undergrad. He was also my TA (it’ll be a good story for my book, you know? 😝)

He claimed to develop feelings for me when really he just needed emotional support for the summer while he studied for the bar. I went to NYC to see him for my birthday, found his online dating profile open on his computer (after he told me to use his computer for schoolwork when he went to work, so he wanted me to find it) and flew out a few hours later while he was still at work. Left the lingerie I had brought for him on his bed, and told him to go fuck himself. Came back, threw myself into senior year and my career, and have never looked back

Congrats, sis. Onwards and upwards!!

Title	My career has never been better
Author	Less-Panic
Upvotes	1213
Comments	35
Date	January 2, 2021 4:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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