Girls just wanna have fun - a ‘healthy’ red pill?

DangZagnut · 2020-03-27T15:40:59+00:00

‘Female nature’ probably exists, but isn’t evil or destructive or bad.

Nope, just everyone needs to be aware of it, and women need to stop lying about it and pretending they don't have one and do these things that conflicts with trad cuck theories and jesus licking.

stats135 · 2020-03-27T16:36:46+00:00

Fun is just another undefined buzzword. Because there are millions of ways to understand fun and women use different types of men to provide different types of fun. Using RP lingo, the fucks and bux are both "fun" for a woman. Some men have fun with her in bed when she is young and attractive, and others have fun with her taking care of her child once she has "matured".

Traditionally these two men are one and the same. But as the tradcon days where women marry as 18yo virgins are long behind us, we need RP to make sure we are the men that has the right kinda fun with women.

Cobra_x30 · 2020-03-27T16:38:44+00:00

Most guys see this and think they need to be the life of the party.

However, in a lot of situations, I have found that it works better to tap into a woman's natural sense of fun and energy and let her be the "life of the party" instead. It doesn't always work, but when it does it can be really good.

M4sterDis4ster · 2020-03-27T16:39:33+00:00

If you want to be part of the men who are able to experience "girls just wanna have fun", then you have to lift and look good.

On the other hand, women do have fun. Men know women want to have fun. But women women dont know is that men might have problems with commitment, because they want to have fun with girls who have/had fun.

I actually embrace "girls wanna have fun" scenario.

OXOzymandias · 2020-03-27T17:39:02+00:00

I mean i know homebody type of girl and yeah they are not 49, it is more about niche.

and everybody want to have fun, nothing new under the sun, there is just different definition of what is fun

sadomasochrist · 2020-03-27T17:55:44+00:00

Your title? 100% agree.

‘Female nature’ probably exists, but isn’t evil or destructive or bad.

Well good luck on reconciling how hypergamy is good for a family or marriage.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2020-03-27T18:50:59+00:00

Everyone wants to fucking have fun. That's normal. That's not a red pill, thinking "fun" is a red pill is what's autistic.

goatismycopilot · 2020-03-27T20:54:46+00:00

All of the men here complaining about being dancing monkey already have no social skills or awareness so everything feels dancing monkey to them a normal conversation is effort. I found the last open dog park in two counties and talked to a couple of teen girls, an early thirties guy, a middle aged guy who does detailing and gave his card and some dude in his early 30's. We did the social distance thing the dogs played it required very little effort and it was chill that is what normal conversation is.

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Dumberjack · 2020-03-27T16:38:31+00:00

most people have an immensely difficult time reconciling their idealized view of how the world should be, with how the world is. they cannot seem to have ideals and pragmatism at the same time.

we are sort of hard-wired to view anything that goes against our wishes as evil and villainize it, rather than adjust our behavior to deal with reality. probably because naturally, we are all at our cores selfish and lazy. it takes a great deal of discipline and introspection to fight those natural urges. very few people want to do that, even less are willing to put in the work.

OXOzymandias · 2020-03-27T17:03:50+00:00

take care of the difficulties no one else wants to deal with.

What does this even mean? "Super simple" indeed.

2020-03-27T17:17:18+00:00

TRP makes gender relations so god damn autistically complicated.

Quite the opposite, TRP makes gender relations very simple:

There are people in relationships:

some are happy/healthy relationships
some are unhappy/unhealthy relationships

But at the end of the day, they make their own bed

And then there are the single people:

	High School	College	20's	close to 30	After 30's
Women (single)	just want to have fun	just want to have fun	just want to have fun	looking for a husband	looking for a husband
Top 20% of men (single)	just want to have fun	just want to have fun	just want to have fun	just want to have fun	just want to have fun
Bottom 80% of men (single)	wish they had a gf	wish they had a gf	wish they had a gf	WTF is going on?	hey, what the hell, I just want to have fun too (various degree of success)

Super simple. You don’t have to lift or be an asshole to meet these criteria.

Far from the truth

Reciprocity12 · 2020-03-27T17:10:05+00:00

"Girls just wanna have FUN - aka excitement - aka not boredom."

The genuine emotion is good but I think it quickly turns into a dancing monkey scenario. Girls need to be entertained and catered to as not to get bored. As much as the guy tries to keep her entertained she inevitably gets bored and he 'runs out of material '.

"Successful men are supposed to 1. be exciting and 2. take care of the difficulties no one else wants to deal with."

My usual disclaimer..I'm old school mgtow. Men should have zero interest in what a female thinks is "successful". Pin down a definition and it will simply changed based on some Instagram photo she comes across. The #2 above is spot on. Men are the actual and metaphorical janitors for women. I don't think its correct to blame women for this. I hear more men pushing for the trad notions of taking on the burdens for their families and their society.

Zippo-Cat · 2020-03-27T17:55:22+00:00

Super simple. You don’t have to lift or be an asshole to meet these criteria.

You do have to be an asshole, because men can only remain "exciting" for so long(see also: how sex life plummets after marriage) If women really only do want excitement, then pumping and dumping will become your modus operandi, which in most people's eyes would make you an asshole.

Title	Girls just wanna have fun - a ‘healthy’ red pill?
Author	XS10TIALST
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Date	March 27, 2020 3:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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