Talk with LTR about body count

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-27T13:50:21+00:00

Don’t you know OP it doesn’t count if

Anal
Blowjob
Handjob
In club
In car
While drunk
On vacation
7 miles from your zip code
Getting railed in dumpster behind McDonalds

😏

You’re dating Thot McGee

But then so are most of us because, if she breathes.....

El0vution · 2020-03-27T15:58:12+00:00

A man’s future matters more to a woman than his past. But a woman’s past matters more to a man than her future.

It’s a legitimate question, but I would have asked it before getting into an LTR.

UEMcGill · 2020-03-27T15:33:33+00:00

I used to date Jewish girls in the north east. Many came from conservative backgrounds and would never marry a catholic Italian like me. They would suck your dick, they would let you fuck their ass, but the vagina was safe for Moshe. They'd happily wear white on the wedding day and go off and marry proclaiming they were pure as the driven snow. In their mind, it was all true, because that's how they felt. It didn't count because it was in their ass, or I was a catholic and it was never going to be serious, blah blah blah.

Listen to what shes saying but from the way it made her feel. Notice she went right to "sex is different" and "some didn't count"? In her mind that guy that was a 2 pump chump? He was a mistake, so it shouldn't count. That awkward backseat blow Jon when she was 15? She only did that once.

The way she feels about sex should give you a lot of insight into what her values are.

Innovative_being · 2020-03-27T09:54:22+00:00

She doesn’t count certain times she’s fucked someone as sex

This tells me it’s a lot more than 3 or 4. On top of that she’s being defensive.

Some don’t count it if theyre drunk, or if they don’t know the guys name, or if they stopped seeing each other before the 1/2/3 month mark, or if it was only anal.

You’d be surprised the level of mental gymnastics involved.

rambler429 · 2020-03-27T10:58:49+00:00

You were dumb for even having this conversation.

You'll never get a straight answer and never ask questions you don't want to know the real answer to anyway.

wawakaka · 2020-03-27T12:57:49+00:00

Women know that being a slut lowers their value in men's eyes especially for LTR

SHE got defensive cause she don't want to lose what she got with you

A rough estimate is ten guys a year starting from age of 18 to her current age

Opperkech69 · 2020-03-27T12:00:23+00:00

saying guys don’t get what sex really is

Those are the ones that cheat. Sex ain't special they say, sex is just something you do for fun. At the same time they say that you should commit to them. It's literally them telling you: "Hey if I'm drunk, I will cheat, I can't do anything about it, it's in my genes. But you should never flirt or even talk to another girl!"

PachoHerrera0 · 2020-03-27T14:35:43+00:00

3 or 4? That wouldn’t be a hard number to remember, she’s obviously bullshitting.

It’s double digits I bet.

john_L27 · 2020-03-27T15:48:36+00:00

You're wasting your time with her. You'd be a fool to want to put a ring on her finger someday.

foreignobjectfound · 2020-03-27T12:21:35+00:00

A guy here once explained why that number never comes clean and why your LTR thinks you don’t understand—cause there is no logic to it, she feels it didn’t count for whatever reason her brain can surmise about the event

Edit: For future reference, you don’t ask or tell

RPOpenUp · 2020-03-27T11:57:17+00:00

How hard is it to remember that you should never ask for her n count neither tell yours. Just don't talk about it

Herdsengineers · 2020-03-27T13:45:12+00:00

In other words, she's a slut but you inadvertantly hit her ASD mental shields weak spot. She attacked in response. It's a "don't go there or I'll hurt you" response, inspire fear and intimidation (fear that she'll be mad, maybe break up, etc.) to get to you stop.

This chick ain't LTR material, dude. You might have a good time together but you just saw a bit of what she's really made of. Reality checks that she doesn't like cause her to go into denial and anger and lash out.

Might be time to start looking for an upgrade.

southflsup · 2020-03-27T14:46:00+00:00

Dude you literally made a post about this over 3 months ago , when are you gonna go and get your balls back ?

Snowboard18 · 2020-03-27T18:02:50+00:00

With that big of a defensive reaction id say multiply that number by 5 or so.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-03-27T12:15:54+00:00

I noticed that the ones who get jealous are the ones with the least amount of power in their relationships. Shit it's like anything you tell them could set them off. Biggest mistake was telling my ex that I fucked strippers. I might as well should have told her that I crucified puppies smh 🤦🏿‍♂️.

Don't talk about shit you don't want to know about, and if it bothers you then turn her into a fuck buddy. Problem solved.

Bone_Coat · 2020-03-27T14:28:18+00:00

3 or 4

multiply by 3

its between 9 or 12

She ended up getting very mad and defensive, saying guys don’t get what sex really is, and that she doesn’t count certain times she’s fucked someone as sex

there's the answer you've been looking for

its basically: "I've fucked a lot but I wont tell you"

redlurker9 · 2020-03-27T09:53:33+00:00

Rule of 3. At least 10 on her side. Why do you even care? Asking her that and getting mad is you entering her frame.

Morjumba1 · 2020-03-27T14:17:53+00:00

just multiply the number by 4 and there you go anytime a girl gives you her body count.

BusterVadge · 2020-03-27T16:34:57+00:00

Have you not read anything on here? Whatever number you get will be BS, so don't even ask the question. If she asks you just deflect the question.

downvotesanimals · 2020-03-27T18:11:50+00:00

Just don't have the conversation next time. Now you know.

SalporinRP · 2020-03-27T18:45:02+00:00

she doesn’t count certain times she’s fucked someone as sex.

Lol

Afterwards she starts attacking me for putting too much importance on the number, when all I did was ask a question

It's a stupid question to ask in all fairness. It just makes you come off looking butthurt.

hombredelmurir · 2020-03-27T18:55:49+00:00

Was in an ltr with a girl when I was blue pilled. Asked her how many guys she'd been with during the honeymoon phase and she said exactly the same thing "Idk, like 3 or 4". Didn't care to make a big deal of it at the time. six months pass and I come to find her real number allegedly being 8. This was what she said but it's extremely unlikely it was just 8. Probably was somewhere around 15. Keep in mind this was the number of guys who had their dick inside her and fucked her. Now think about all those blowjobs she gave to guys. She was only 19 at this time that's what really bothered me. And she said that I was her first real boyfriend and the rest were all just fuckbuddies or ONS! They are all sluts my man, and this is a BIG RED FLAG. WALLPK AWAY NOW! Girls like these are good Fuckbuddy material but never LTR.

bruiser18 · 2020-03-27T19:13:28+00:00

You aren’t ready for LTR

JustArtist8 · 2020-03-27T19:36:42+00:00

She's a whore that's simple

maverick9759 · 2020-03-27T19:43:01+00:00

Why dude.. Why ltr, spin plates .. And lets say you're ugly as fuck and your only way to get pussy is LTR.. Then just fuck her till she hits the wall don't put a ring and start ltring the next hoe... Become a serial monogamist if that's what your smv allows .. Why are you thinking about shit like this? Improvise adapt overcome

LeEbinConchShell · 2020-03-27T21:20:49+00:00

she doesn't count certain times she's fucked someone as sex

god women are SUCH fucking whores.

marcus8crassus · 2020-03-27T22:11:04+00:00

End it now. You’ll regret it later if you don’t end it now.

SirKolbath · 2020-03-27T23:03:53+00:00

Next!

She's lying to you and defensive about it. You did not vet this slut properly.

Batman-von-Pepe · 2020-03-28T05:37:31+00:00

Girls ALWAYS lie about their n-count

This is a great one to me because you can actually see the lying in their reactions. You can tell some of these chicks are in the triple digits then come back with <10. HAHAHAHAH

I believe the context is within an interview of dating and partners where they sprung the n-count question on them out of the blue, so you can see the hamster activate and spin-up at record speed.

Pickuupp · 2020-03-27T11:05:59+00:00

Why do you care and why did you ask?

Powerfucking5000 · 2020-03-27T12:04:25+00:00

Two answers and this will be different based on the percentage of accuracy you can surmise from the information she gave you.

So take the the first number she gave you, three and multiply that by two. Six represents the planets of our solar system and Saturn is the sixth planet from the sun. What is implies is that she's had at least one partner who had a massive dick. This number only represents PIV so you'll need more info as to how many cocks she's sucked, jerked off and took in the ass.

Second answer is with her second number four. Four times three is 12. Twelve times four is 48. Divide this by three. Sixteen is the PIV number from high school alone.

Hope this helps.

Title	Talk with LTR about body count
Author	throwaway37485903834
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Date	March 27, 2020 9:46 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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