Lose 80 lbs and all of a sudden I need to get hitched....thanks ladies but no thanks.

PubliusVirgilius · 2018-12-22T14:59:33+00:00

I am currious to hear her logic behind "having a gf means having more money". Its like saying losing weight, by eating fastfood.

palaceposy6706 · 2018-12-22T15:53:25+00:00

If you want all that fatness back, by all means, get a girlfriend.

MillerLiteBulb77 · 2018-12-22T15:05:45+00:00

Hey congrats on losing weight! How exactly does Keto work? Do you send a email to someone and they give you a personalized diet?

mrbill1234 · 2018-12-22T17:02:28+00:00

Be careful what you say to women at work and even how you say it. There are some nasty specimens out there just looking to cause men pain for any perceived sleight. Just stay professional at all times - do not engage in chatter - do not befriend (even platonic). A good friend of mine was fired after he befriended (purely platonic) a female at work and she make false allegations against him. He tried to treat her as equal as his male colleagues - but she turned out to be a psycho.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-12-22T16:46:52+00:00

Keto break here. Can’t wait for the holiday and all its festivities to end so I can get back to it.

teslaistheshit · 2018-12-22T17:57:05+00:00

I've noticed a lot more attention since I've been in bulk mode. Put on about 15 lbs of mass the last three months while my waistline remains the same. At the gym, bar, work I catch women making glances. It's just raw natural instincts man. Women can't resist a guy that looks like he can protect and provide.

NohoTwoPointOh · 2018-12-22T15:57:48+00:00

Do not make it about revenge for the times women did not want you. The entire system is rigged. As you say, GYOW, and never look back.

BIG_DICK_NIGGA_SAN · 2018-12-22T18:02:43+00:00

All women do this when a man loses a lot of weight or has a great paying job. In 2012 I was my heaviest at 410 lbs. Over the course of 5 years I lost over 200 pounds through diet changes and purely working out. Once people saw me at my lowest weight I get all of these "compliments" like:

"Damn BIG_DICK, you lost a ton of weight" "Do you have a girlfriend?" "You're husband material BIG_DICK (lol)" "You're so handsome BIG_DICK"

The older women will always hit on you. The whole reason I did this was to get in shape and live longer. I'll admit that very early in the journey pussy was a motivating factor (started to relapse on blue pill thoughts). That shit waned years ago so I don't desire some disease riddled pussy.

Now I have a white women (blonde hair & blue eyes, 21 years old) and a black single mother hitting on me at my job.

I purposely dress like a bum with oversized shirts. I'm balding and have an unkempt beard and they still hit on me. You're damned if you and damned if you don't since ignoring them is apparently sexist.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2018-12-22T18:24:25+00:00

I started getting more compliments from women as well when I lost weight. I'm a tall guy but I was pushing 300 without muscle mass. It was all fat. I got diagnosed with hypertension and was told to diet/eat healthy and exercise and it will help dramatically although I would still have to take BP meds for the rest of my life. I lost near 70 lbs in 7 months and I felt great and was in the best shape I had been in since I was in high school.

Women in my workplace would never glance at me but once I lost the weight, the compliments started coming in (as well as minor flirting). I was already deep into MGTOW mode by this point and shrugged them all off. As you said: You didn't want me when I was fat, you don't deserve me when I'm thin and in shape.

Congrats to you brother! Keep it up! It feels great fitting into certain sizes again doesn't it?

DarkNights292 · 2018-12-22T17:16:15+00:00

By the way, good on losing so much weight..that's a lot and I am proud of you. Also, just don't bother with these women, they are more burden then reward.

flee_market · 2018-12-22T18:15:53+00:00

If you had a girlfriend you'd have more money

AAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

38yearsoffreefallin · 2018-12-22T17:17:29+00:00

Yeah mang if youre 6" 180ish and fit you have to beat yhe yetis away with a stick.

sh0t · 2018-12-22T16:05:59+00:00

Don't be fooled by those early compliments you are still fat

Time for that Snake Diet

NotLuceBree · 2018-12-22T17:43:16+00:00

I've always been a lithe guy, but once I added 10-15 pounds of muscle mass it quickly put to bed the idea that women are not as shallow as men.

Now I get annoyed because women will make all sorts of comments and even grope and touch me in inappropriate ways, without any expectation of negative consequences. The double standard alone is enough to irritate me and compel me to stay away from them.

tramese · 2018-12-22T17:46:43+00:00

"If you had a girlfriend you'd have more money" (I flat out laughed at that comment to the woman's face that said that one - she was not pleased with my reaction

hahaha

N2nalin · 2018-12-22T20:08:04+00:00

Never forget the way they treated you when you weren't at your best. These bitches say they are not shallow and looks don't matter but it's all bullshit.

I'm going to start weight loss now from this January finally. Fingers crossed!

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2018-12-22T20:54:29+00:00

"If you had a girlfriend you'd have more money"

Biggest lie I've ever heard.

If you didn't accept me at my heaviest you don't deserve me at my lightest.

lmao

[deleted] · 2018-12-22T21:13:15+00:00

Congrats on the weight loss.

I also went 260 to 180. The satisfaction from rejecting women who have hit the wall or are “done with bad boys and looking for security” is priceless.

DeathbyTren · 2018-12-22T21:29:04+00:00

You can lose fat but you can’t gain height. - me being 5’4 arguing with people on the internet

idontevenlift37 · 2018-12-22T20:58:33+00:00

Get used to it buddy. The more fit you get the more thirsty bitches you attract. Stay curvin these hoes tho 💪🏼

[deleted] · 2018-12-22T21:50:26+00:00

Keto works. Period.

Keep going man.

Improve yourself.

Fly_Guy_97 · 2018-12-22T23:02:15+00:00

I started lifting last December. So it’s been just over a year. I went from a scrawny cross country runner to a pretty leaned and evident weight lifter. I have gotten similar messages from my family members and friends. “Damn chicks are going to be all over you now”.... hahaha I’m not doing this for this unnecessary attention, I’m doing it for myself. Congrats on the weight loss, keep it coming

hrm0894 · 2018-12-23T03:29:39+00:00

Be careful out there, bro. Going back to the plantation can be tempting at times, especially if a sexy woman shows interest. Just remember that if a female is talking to you, ALWAYS assume she has an agenda, and it does NOT benefit you.

Evys19 · 2018-12-22T15:55:11+00:00

Brilliantly said my dude. I've been working on myself a lot and hope to be a strong as you are one day if they do come for my time/money. GOOD SHIT!

spookymate794 · 2018-12-22T18:06:08+00:00

Just like you don't want to fuck a fat girl, women don't want to fuck a fat dude. Get that through your brain and your life will get better immediately.

KopKings · 2018-12-22T18:06:49+00:00

I couldn't love the OP more. Well done Sir!

[deleted] · 2018-12-22T18:17:40+00:00

Agree with all but the blue pill sentiment that a woman who doesn't want you fat af @ 260lbs is somehow a POS and "doesn't deserve" you. As if women are even capable of such unconditional love. We all understand female nature, here. No need to get up on a soap box and bring sappy emotions into the mix. IME, no woman is actually going to "want" you to be fat. It's the same on men's side. Biologically speaking, we want em thin. They want us muscular. Neither gender has to adhere to that if they don't want to. But both should damn well be sure to if they want to stay fit, healthy, and attractive.

BroJack22 · 2018-12-22T19:11:39+00:00

I feel you bro. I lost almost 100 doing the same thing plus IF and all the attempted set ups with "great friends" got old fast. And dont sweat the holiday weight. It's mostly water I'm sure.

Superspathi · 2018-12-22T21:37:56+00:00

Certainly I agree since I'm posting here, but I can't help but recognize the tragedy of our circumstance. Humans weren't meant to live like this with the sexes alienated from each other. Even though MGTOW is the correct response to modern society, I would hope that someday we would get back to sanity and not need this.

jackonager · 2018-12-22T21:52:55+00:00

Good job voncloft, keto has been a godsend.

pearceharris · 2018-12-22T18:32:18+00:00

Ay yuh keto gang

bigmodaman20173 · 2018-12-22T18:59:25+00:00

lmao that's a joke. Congrats on losing all that weight! Just be cautious when you get back on track after the holidays. (the first few days are the hardest, but you know this)

DangZagnut · 2018-12-22T20:03:02+00:00

Congratulations on your success.

TwilightSea · 2018-12-22T20:10:14+00:00

I'm 134 and I don't get complements. 🤔 Maybe it's because I'm too short.

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2018-12-22T20:59:13+00:00

As an aside, now that you are attractive women are going to place a target on your back and seek your attention.

Spend $20 on a discreet voice recorder if you live in a one-party consent state. Record everything. You do not want to get metooed.

VadeRetroLupa · 2018-12-22T21:03:24+00:00

How does your diet look? Sounds like efficient stuff.

MoonnMan · 2018-12-22T21:17:35+00:00

Kind of off topic, but do you recommend keto? I’m admittedly not in the best shape and want to lose weight. I’ve heard good things about it but want to hear your thoughts.

Shyrk · 2018-12-22T21:59:02+00:00

I applaud you for what you’ve achieved and am stoked for your improvement, but I need to point something out:

If you didn’t accept me at my heaviest, you don’t deserve me at my lightest

This. Is. Absolute. Bullshit.

This is literally Marilyn Monroe hamstered into a reframing for your benefit, and it is an absolutely toxic concept. You were a fat, neglectful piece of shit, and now you’re awesome. Your SMV was in the toilet, now you’re a rockstar.

As a man, striving to improve, you must acknowledge this concept. I don’t care if you’re looking to attract women or not.

Be proud of what you’ve accomplished, and own what you’ve earned. But GYOW or not, that attitude is hollow and pathetic.

joepancakez · 2018-12-22T23:27:55+00:00

Congrats on the weight loss brother

[deleted] · 2018-12-23T00:28:34+00:00

“Get a girlfriend to earn more money”

Wtf is that statement. It makes no sense. It’s like saying: “eat poison to not kill yourself”

JDLshill · 2018-12-23T02:43:28+00:00

I went from 150kg to 100kg myself in 4 months i hope to get to 80 then build muscle, i have always failed but water fasting has been a god send.

kbbroiler · 2018-12-23T03:06:09+00:00

Same deal with me. I was 240 lbs and now I’m between 195-200 lbs. I pass on the offers.

Tercalerc · 2018-12-23T06:10:22+00:00

I see what you did there! "If you can't accept me at my heaviest, you don't deserve me at my lightest"

"If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

LOL fucking awesome

ascended89 · 2018-12-23T23:37:44+00:00

260 to 180? Jesus what a trooper.

chart6653 · 2019-01-26T18:41:04+00:00

"If you didn't accept me at my heaviest than you don't deserve me at my lightest"

That's a slice of fried gold right there

kspmatt · 2018-12-22T17:55:27+00:00

Keep the weight loss journey going man be the best you for you

GamingYourMom · 2018-12-22T17:59:24+00:00

Congrats!

Chad_Pr0dy · 2018-12-22T18:43:56+00:00

Rust me since I gained 60 pounds of muscle they’re all after me. It’s hilarious to say no to all those thots who are used to simps

DarkSoulAviciisBro · 2018-12-22T19:16:32+00:00

thx a lot for your post

cyborg_type_darkness · 2018-12-22T19:39:38+00:00

Did you really not eat any carbs at all?

fezha · 2018-12-22T20:23:39+00:00

Bro tell us more. I know damn well more has happened to you.

[deleted] · 2018-12-22T20:50:48+00:00

Don't worry about those ten pounds. Just water weight. Keto sheds water pretty fast

aanarchist · 2018-12-23T01:28:01+00:00

Funny how she's trying to be all cute when she needs someone to help take care of her bastard child. They do it to themselves and as bad as I feel for them, it's just not healthy to make their problems mine, nor is it sanitary to deal with a woman who is decidedly below my league - not in looks but in character and intelligence.

Atton_Risk · 2018-12-23T03:25:28+00:00

Keep up the progress.

[deleted] · 2018-12-23T05:47:21+00:00

congrats man.

takeyourfill · 2018-12-23T07:17:26+00:00

you must have a chad bone structure- lucky bastard.

chrisinWP · 2018-12-23T16:23:24+00:00

How long did that weight loss take to happen? Any tips for someone wanting to repeat your success?

RealityBitesU · 2018-12-22T21:56:59+00:00

Clearly you don't devote a lot of emotional energy or time to women.

Clearly.

Itisforsexy · 2018-12-22T21:15:56+00:00

As a side note, keto isn't particularly healthy in the long-run, I recommend a whole food plant based diet instead to keep the weight off, but also be in a perpetually healthy state. And yes you can find hundreds of studies linking keto to better health markers, but the reasons for that are indirect. It's losing body fat that improves one's health to such an extreme degree, in spite of the terrible diet.

Title	Lose 80 lbs and all of a sudden I need to get hitched....thanks ladies but no thanks.
Author	voncloft
Upvotes	752
Comments	168
Date	December 22, 2018 2:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/a8ldfj/lose_80_lbs_and_all_of_a_sudden_i_need_to_get/
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