Wednesday Wisdom: Red Pill Observations

TRParents · 2016-03-09T18:42:40+00:00

Plugged in men will shit on me behind my back to validate the system they think will get them laid

BaconEggsAndSleaze · 2016-03-10T06:24:16+00:00

Men, be bold in your interactions with women.

There is no such thing as being too bold. Polarize.

The longer you wait to be bold, the harder it is to get away with.

That little voice in the back of your head isn't your conscience, it's fear.

Zealous_One · 2016-03-09T19:11:15+00:00

Since I swallowed, my LTR started swallowing

Benny757 · 2016-03-09T18:49:34+00:00

The minute you confront a woman with red pill realities, they immediately deny it, waffle about it, hamster it, try to change the subject, etc. etc. The lesson learned, keep your mouth shut and internalize Red Pill tools. Do not share them with any woman. Control your frame and game.

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T21:10:58+00:00

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BlackJ1 · 2016-03-09T18:38:24+00:00

I've noticed that a lot of women don't take it well when men don't give them attention.

I notice this often because at times I can be described as aloof, and it leads to women asking me a question like: "Do you hate me?" Simply because I'm not being social with them.

There have been times women have been in my class and I don't recognize them, until they say hello to me outside of class and ask them who they are. Their face is always priceless and sometimes hurt.

GayLubeOil · 2016-03-09T20:20:06+00:00

Women respond a lot more to the tone and style of how something is written rather than the content.

bittr_n_swt · 2016-03-09T20:08:03+00:00

All women agree with the red pill when the language and context is presented in a "user friendly" format

Knowmadik · 2016-03-09T21:08:20+00:00

Most important thing I've learned:

I don't ever have to be a blue pill beta stuck in a horrible LTR ever again. When I think this I have this burst of happiness. 😊

prodigy2throw · 2016-03-09T19:00:15+00:00

I've noticed when you've been a certain way (beta) for so long, people around you will try to keep you in that bubble.

You may want to find new friends or keep your distance from some people, especially with regards to your goals.

Benny757 · 2016-03-09T18:44:10+00:00

The thing that is between where I am now and where I want to be is self-mastery.

redolas · 2016-03-09T21:10:45+00:00

Bodybuilders know the best ways to lose weight.

punkrock_101 · 2016-03-09T19:18:23+00:00

Since swallowing the pill the idea of the media "brainwashing the masses" has gone from a laughable idea only a conspiracy nut would suggest to something which is confirmed every single day in every area of my life.

Not specifically to do with women but I guess you can say the rabbit hole is deep..

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T19:39:35+00:00

The most successful people I know are also the most passionate.

They have one (or more) very strong passion in their lives. Examples include: driving/cars, programmingt/ML, skydiving, motor bike racing, climbing, cooking, kite-surfing, planes/piloting.

Having a very strong passion leads to a RP personality. They want to spend every minute of their lives engaged with their passions, which makes them ambitious (career-wise) and successful (as they work very hard), natural leaders (they lead others towards the activities they like), interesting (boredom = "time I could be doing what I'm passionate about"), they have high standards ("does this person help me achieve my passions").

In the meantime, I spend my time sitting in front of the TV or browsing Reddit.

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T21:38:47+00:00

Its like getting in on the worlds biggest secret

cholomite · 2016-03-09T22:49:34+00:00

Every highly educated career woman I know is completely miserable. They think that having a post-grad degree increases their SMV but it doesn't. The guys they hook up don't give a fuck about their masters degrees, just how big their titties are. Despite having highly rewarding careers, all they talk about during their time off is how they can't get a decent man to commit to them and how alone they are. Meanwhile, all my single male friends are happy as clams.

What's even worse is that they constantly try to shame my gf for not getting an advanced degree like they did. They try to make her feel bad for wanting to be feminine and let me handle shit, when that is exactly what they want to have for themselves. It really blows my mind to listen to them complain one minute, then give my gf shit for not doing the same thing they did. Haters gonna hate I guess.

Benny757 · 2016-03-10T01:20:23+00:00

Even at 60 staying in shape will get one noticed.

If you lean MGTOW you can still have a lot of fun.

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T20:11:57+00:00

If you start giving women relationship advice about a guy they're involved with, you're basically immediately friendzoned. Thank GOD I no longer do this.

thewrightstuff88 · 2016-03-09T20:40:18+00:00

When going through my break up with my ex, she told me she took me for granted. Those words resonate with me everyday and push me to become the man that no woman will ever take for granted

0xdada · 2016-03-10T01:07:57+00:00

When I relax because I don't give a fuck about impressing anyone anymore, I automatically become AMOG because men and women want to be around me and to have my attention.

Women I used to be "friends" with stopped taking up my time when they realized I wasn't going to orbit.

Guys want to be my friend.

In spite of understanding my formerly BP self and the mistakes I made, looking back, my instincts were pretty good I just didn't know how to act on them.

Since lifting for like 4 months after a year of xfit, women don't know where to look when I am not wearing a jacket. Fuck xfit.

I catch plates checking me out during sex.

More events having a +1 than being the +1.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T05:54:06+00:00

"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved."

sprouu · 2016-03-09T18:41:52+00:00

The only woman on earth that is capable of loving you unconditionally is the one that gave birth to you. Never forget that went entering the dating world.

eccentricrealist · 2016-03-09T20:12:27+00:00

Whenever you tell people one of your plans, they will only tell you what will go wrong.

"I want to learn to ride a chopper and do a motorcycle tour in Nepal"

"Oh, but people die in those"

"I'll open a business of x y or z"

"But you risk bankruptcy "

" I'm doing strength routines, I'm getting way better. "

"You'll hurt yourself, do lower weight higher reps "

They will always find why it won't work, risk assessment is one thing but come on, ships are safer at the harbor but they're not made for that.

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-03-09T19:38:05+00:00

Big shoutout to the The_Titleist for helping me to identify when my LTR is going through her daily spin-cycles. Today, her spin cycle went like this:

Spin cycle commences:

(10:00AM ~): LTR couldn't find her wallet, became concerned that it had been stolen. Checked bank account, found a strange charge on her card. LTR begins to freak out. LTR asks me what she should do, I tell her to lock her card in an aloof manner, LTR accuses me of "not caring enough". I respond by laughing at her because I'm 95% sure that she never lost her wallet or her card. (Later on, we found out that the charge on her card was a purchase that she had forgotten about; lol)

(11:00AM ~): LTR finds her wallet in her apartment and her card with it. Doesn't want to admit that her "anger" towards me is based on bullshit, so she stomps off to work without saying goodbye. Whatever.

(1:00PM ~): After two hours of no communication from me, the texts start to roll in: "Are you mad at me??" - "I need you" - "I miss you" - "Let's meet up soon"

Spin cycle concluded.

Jaxx_Teller · 2016-03-09T18:38:19+00:00

The more the media tries to influence the public's opinions on how horrible Donald Trump is, the more I cannot take anything the media propagates at face value. It makes me chuckle, to see people regurgitating their hurt fee fee's about Trump's aggressive and misogynist demeanor on Facebook, knowing that they are suckers that fail to see the bigger picture.

Rambunctioussex · 2016-03-09T18:48:36+00:00

Female behavior makes so much sense now. The shit post-wall women pull on "their" men is ridiculous. It's sad to see, especially because these men don't want to be unplugged.

I've also seen a lot more positive attention from people since I began dressing and looking better (working out). I'm married and I don't go past flirting with strangers, but it still gives me an ego boost to see them be receptive.

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T18:49:47+00:00

Talking about RP-theory with friends and co-workers always concluded with unpleasantness for them/myself. Law 38 is a much better approach.

Steve_Wiener · 2016-03-09T23:03:04+00:00

Women will always act sweet and innocent and are so good at it, you can never tell if it's an act or not until you dig up info on them. Also, they may be slightly schizo or develop mental blocks if they ever have to confront that duality.

crx1 · 2016-03-09T20:31:26+00:00

The sheer amount of women who refuse to take responsibility for their own shortcomings and failures (and conveniently rationalize or blame it all on men).

rporion · 2016-03-09T22:42:53+00:00

God, they love it bold and rough....

For some reason, that makes me love it that way, it is almost like I was given permission....

Equilibriun · 2016-03-09T18:52:38+00:00

I noticed how my mom acts towards my dad when he outlived his usefulness. She wanted so much distance and I knew why

Tscio · 2016-03-10T00:13:56+00:00

A plate of mine would rather share me than get commitment from a low value/beta/whatever guy she was previously seeing.

the_pill_is_free · 2016-03-10T00:44:10+00:00

Before, women thought I was creepy when I looked at them -- now they say hi.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T00:58:50+00:00

Being a pussy gets you nowhere, especially with girls. Being a pussy does not get you pussy.

IGoYouStayTwoAutumns · 2016-03-10T02:40:01+00:00

You can be all Chad some of the time, or some Chad all the time, but no one is ALL Chad ALL the time.

IGoYouStayTwoAutumns · 2016-03-10T02:41:01+00:00

It doesn't matter how high you raise your SMV, you can never compete with the new guy / the unknown quantity.

Tron10000 · 2016-03-10T10:09:03+00:00

Got social anxiety? Walk around with your thumbs up. Not like a fist but spread your fingers out and keep your thumbs up, its a good body language trick I learned from reading "what every body is saying". Idk exactly how this ties into TRP but its good to fight anxiety and has worked pretty amazingly for me. Also be mindful of your body language, keep your head up and shoulders rolled back to keep relaxed. Also, google " steepling hands" its a body language trick that projects confidence, this also helps tremendously.

prf_q · 2016-03-10T10:40:24+00:00

Briffault's Law is very much real. There is no reason for a woman to be kind to you or interact you in the first place if she is not benefiting from that.

She already has far too many dicks lined up, that'd do anything for even a remote possibility of intimacy with her.

If she is a friend, yet a possible girlfriend to you, she will know this and she will use you and you won't even notice.

Reject her requests, reject ljbf (let's just be friends). Women are not your friends.

TheRedWay · 2016-03-09T18:32:40+00:00

Hypergamy in action... Girls at a concert trying to get backstage to meet the band!

joshsoowong · 2016-03-09T22:47:28+00:00

I've noticed that if I just look straight and walk straight I look 10x's more confident.

glenfiddichlaker31 · 2016-03-10T00:04:08+00:00

Focusing on myself has vastly improved my self confidence as well as getting approached more by women then doing the approaching myself

RationalistFaith1 · 2016-03-10T01:34:47+00:00

Swallowing TheRedPill restores a man into a Patriarch.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T01:01:05+00:00

I believe a "large" reason why men like petite women is that petite women can still have babies, care for babies, and perform basic tasks but are easier to keep alive calorie wise. A 160 lbs tall, muscley woman (not even fat) is still not strong enough to do most things a man can but will need to eat a lot. This is on top of other reasons, of course.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-03-10T08:33:15+00:00

The next time your bitch gets angry at you, picture her as a four year old girl in a stained Minnie Mouse t-shirt, with tantrum snot streaking down her face.

The way you would deal with that little is girl the way you should deal with your bitch.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T02:09:12+00:00

Too many male Millennials are playing the victim mentality. "Oh I can't find my dream job," or "Oh I can't afford to live in the most affluent area with my B.A. degree." GTFO and find your way, no one will tell you how best to live your life. Sickening to see that at all in males, fuck blue pills.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-03-10T08:37:57+00:00

A single, definite rejection is far better than a hundred "what-ifs".

The rejection eventually fades away, but the what-ifs will haunt you.

redpillbanana · 2016-03-10T12:07:25+00:00

There's nothing toxic about masculinity.

the_number_2 · 2016-03-09T21:07:37+00:00

Being the Fun One & Branch Swingers

I show my car and have a shop sponsor for it. We also have shop girls (models) for our vendor displays at events. These girls get attention all day from thirsty guys wanting to take pictures of them or take them home.

I am playful with these girls, just having a good time while most of our other guys just sit around all day. I get them laughing, and in return they're always wanting to hang around with me. I tease them, and threaten to "sell their numbers" to the creepier guys.

Two of them are in committed relationships (one LT, one is engaged). They still want to hang around me, even when their guys are standing there (note: their guys aren't a part of the show scene). We take pictures together, them kissing me or grinding on me, and they're VERY aware that what they're doing is wrong (they insist with great sincerity that their boyfriends don't see the photos).

Ultimately, it doesn't matter how great or committed they are to their guys, if you're entertaining, and you're a part of the social attention (in this case, showing a car), they want to be associated with you, even while their guys watch from the sidelines.

midlifedick · 2016-03-10T00:05:25+00:00

I was (am? Trace amounts maybe) angry when I unplugged. It was a traumatic experience and one I will never forget or regret. Now, strangely, I am more empathetic after a long period of pain and self doubt. This is something I really needed and I continue to see improve. As angry and hurt as I was for myself, I truly pity the poor souls that are plugged in.

pornpornpppp · 2016-03-10T03:05:27+00:00

Women can smell weakness, but also strength and self respect. Obvious stuff. New observation; Lesbians (not 'lesbian for a semester' but Lesbian lesbians) do too

fasthandssam · 2016-03-10T05:22:10+00:00

When I was shown the realities of the smp, and the fact that all sex/ relationships are transactional (whether or not I want them to be) it had a profound impact on my opinion regarding prostitution.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T12:48:34+00:00

Every time I assert myself, be dominant, and take the reigns, there is always a voice nagging me saying, "Do not say this, or do not do that." But I have since learned to ignore it.

So it is not so much that I naturally exude confidence, it is that I naturally overcome the resistance to being insecure and weak.

FakeGuru · 2016-03-10T15:38:52+00:00

Red Pill wisdom:

You don't have to do much to scare people.

Buddy_Handler · 2016-03-10T20:26:54+00:00

"I gwarp you." Broadened my understanding of affection, and positive regard. Now when people I'm fond of say it, I challenge them to explain what love is to them.

Context for anybody that may not have seen the post. http://archive.is/6yV7M

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-03-10T08:35:23+00:00

The next time a woman throws you sass in a casual setting, tell her that you will spank her the way her daddy obviously never did.

Benny757 · 2016-03-09T18:52:17+00:00

One more. Being blue pill and needy simply doesn't work. So STOP IT! Be a man for a change. Embrace masculinity. Improve yourselves, and accept and love yourselves.

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T21:20:19+00:00

AWALT. My sister, my X wife, all my plates and X plates. I have a FWB now that will admit to alpha fux, beta bucks. Her and her best friend who is married by the way had a threesome with a dude in Vegas on a "girls trip" last summer. For the love of God, never get married men.

RPAussie · 2016-03-10T02:24:40+00:00

It seems that the longer someone has known you before you had any success, the more likely they are to try to hold you down.

l3v1a7h0n · 2016-03-10T02:49:46+00:00

My buddy's gf left to go on a year long vacation in Australia. She cheated on him. AWALT. Not surprised

trp_angry_dwarf · 2016-03-10T05:34:31+00:00

For me (pretty natural alpha ish) it's been more about the MRA/SJW stuff.

It's still good to refine techniques, cement or validate theories and hunches through the flow of information here though. Learning never ends.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T08:00:58+00:00

The harsh truth is something that women DO NOT want to face.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-03-10T08:40:29+00:00

Looking forward at how far you have to go is daunting.

Instead, look back and see how far you've come.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T09:16:45+00:00

It's never about what you say but about what you do and how you say it.

DaphneDK · 2016-03-10T11:38:09+00:00

Relationships have a great post. Girlfriend cheats. Guy takes her back. Girlfriend cheats another time. Second time:

She rather bluntly confessed that actually, they had slept together. On the 13th of February, before she drove down to my place to celebrate Valentine's day. This breaks my heart even more because I gave her a lovely day at the fair, bunch of flowers and the whole deal. I had a really nice day, too. And knowing she was hiding this secret so fresh in her mind is heart-breaking.

Now he's wondering what he should do. A temporary break up perhaps.

TheRedStoic · 2016-03-10T15:52:16+00:00

For all manner of market purposes, you are what the world sees in you and wants. You are what the world sees you do.

meditateonthatshityo · 2016-03-10T20:36:10+00:00

Since I've taken the red pill my confidence has skyrocketed due to living my alpha lifestyle. I look at this as the same as I will be the alpha me today, & every day. Lift daily, eat healthy, keep up with hobbies & intellectual pursuits. Women want to lead, I will lead them. Women want to have amazing sex, so I do that. After 1 week of red pill epiphany I've had 2 dates, about to get in the the first one tonight & the next girl is ready, even though she has a boyfriend who she calls her alpha.

cheeky--kunt · 2016-03-10T21:31:58+00:00

When beta smells opportunity, he will spit the pill out. Doesn't matter how much you tell him. He will agree with you for hours, but then he snaps and chases twat again.

Don't waste time on betas, only when they turn to you and say "I want change in my life".

RMK24 · 2016-03-10T22:41:25+00:00

This will probably sound arrogant but I don't care. I noticed that I already had many of the qualities TRP talks about and I noticed most of the things that TRP opens your eyes to. I just didn't have a complete philosophy or guide in what I was or saw. Now that I swallowed the pill I have completely opened my eyes to everything. I hope to build my life and TRP is one tool to do that.

[deleted] · 2016-03-10T23:21:25+00:00

Economic Red Pills

Federal Reserve Printing money to infinity and inflating the currency to a extent that will eventually cause a collapse. Trillions in debt. Unfunded liabilities Social Security, Medicaid, Medicare, Govt Pensions.

People no longer living within their means, taking out loans they cannot pay back, buying 500 dollar cell phones, huge houses, etc.

EquitorialMind · 2016-03-11T01:51:34+00:00

Be cold, calculating and assertive.

Since I swallowed the red pill I realized that we are all men for a reason with at least one redeeming quality that attracts women.

RedEyesBlueShades · 2016-03-11T02:07:14+00:00

The ultimate/true power of "plausible deniability" manifests itself in the complete obfuscation of otherwise intelligent and rational men's minds, even when they are mildly aware of its existence.

They just don't see it. Even when brought to light and pointing the finger at it.

hailhailhailandkill · 2016-03-14T15:53:13+00:00

Relationships don't resemble economics, relationships ARE economics. Such as;

Supply and demand principles,
Speculators (betas omegas orbiters SJW's etc),
Stock price (SMV),
Investment and return rate (whether worth the time & effort),
Rewards (incentives),
Shill bidding and inciting rivalry,
Peer pressure (herd mentality)
Nash equilibrium
Tradeoffs, opportunity costs, arbitrage etc...

StoicCrane · 2016-03-10T04:56:08+00:00

Just be yourself and you'll find that special one!

On a serious note, noticed that women get the tingles around silent, stoic men.

When it comes to them a single gest can have more of an impact than a thousand words.

Men are beings of physical presence but women are verbal/emotional ones.

Be mindful of your mouth but, lead with your body.

nia_kills · 2016-03-10T11:14:49+00:00

The force awakens is a shitshow for TRPillers... almost closed my browser out of disapointment...

Title	Wednesday Wisdom: Red Pill Observations
Author	bsutansalt
Upvotes	63
Comments	148
Date	March 9, 2016 6:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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