Last week I posted about how the US Family Court System is a scam.

What I didn't tell you is that I myself was warned about it a few months after I filed for custody myself. I had my reasons for ignoring the warning. My case was different, I thought. Ha.

What made my case different is that the mother of my daughter was up on felony drug charges with her ex boyfriend. Certainly that would help me make the case that I was a better parent, right?

If you know anyone going into family court for purposes of custody, please have them read this and my other posts. The more men who understand how deep the system is against them, the less men will end up hiring lawyers and the system can eventually become bankrupt. It's the only nonviolent way to change the system.

Bonus: a huge pussy pass example is shown below.

I wish I could say that I was blindsided about how deep the scam of the US Family Court system really is. But I have no good excuse. I was warned.

My custody case took place in Mississippi. At the time, I was living in Los Angeles, California. Every US state has different laws, proceedings, and even names for family court. In Mississippi, family court is known as “Chancery” court.

While living in Los Angeles, a new neighbor moved in next door. He came over one day to chat. He had seen me with my daughter and asked about her. I told him I was in litigation for custody. Then he told me his story.

My new neighbor was a cop. Some sort of drug investigator. Years ago he and his wife separated and divorce and custody proceedings were filed by the cop. The mom apparently was more of a partier than a mother.

“So I go to court and afterwards the judge calls me into his chambers, one on one. He said to me, ‘I’m only telling you this because you work in law enforcement. Don’t waste your money. You are not getting custody. I don’t care if you can prove that she’s a prostitute with 100 clients a day. You’re not getting custody. Save your money.”

He tells me this story and I’m floored, but also, like the degenerate gambler I am, I focus on how my case is different. For one, my case was not in California. The laws are bound to be different. Secondly, I’m not a cop who may have to work odd hours and leave their kid at a moment’s notice. My schedule was predictable. Third, the mother of my child had drug distribution charges against her and was looking at up to 20 years in prison. I didn’t know about her drug charges until well after I had sex with her.

In my neighbor’s case above, his son eventually got old enough to petition the court to allow him to live with his dad. And the court granted it.

“The Best Interests Of The Child,” is a completely fairy-tale made-up “legal standard” that sounds like a great thing but really means nothing. Is it in the best interests of the child in these cases to never give custody to the father except in cases of child abuse? “The Best Interests Of The Child” is really part of the genius of the scam. It’s not what YOU think the best interests of the child is, it’s what the system believes is best to keep the money flowing in.

In my neighbor’s case, the judge admitted that “Best Interests Of The Child” means nothing. He didn’t flat out say that, but in the scenario above, your ex is a prostitute bringing 100 strange men a day into her home where your son is. You are a cop. Apparently, “Best Interests Of The Child,” means your son needs to know firsthand how much of a whore his mother is. Right?

Judges heavily favor law enforcement. Cops know the system and are given weighted testimony. Ever try to fight a speeding ticket? If it’s your word against theirs, the cop will win almost every time.

Place the exact same cop in a family court against his ex and all of a sudden the cop’s job and supposed integrity mean nothing.

It’s all bullshit. It’s all a scam. And the family courts and the lawyers and judges who make up the system don’t want you to know about it.

The vast majority of the time, the only way you’re getting custody via the family courts is if you can prove abuse to the child. If your child is in imminent danger and you can prove it, you’ll win. However, if your case isn’t good enough for an emergency hearing to change custody, then you’re not going to even be able to prove abuse and you will lose.

In fact, in many states, exposure is not the same as abuse. Your ex can literally smoke pot and shoot H around your kid and as long as she doesn’t hurt the kid and sober people are also around, you still won’t get custody.

Remember those drug charges against my ex? She pled guilty. Because she was a new mother, they didn’t send her to prison as part of her plea bargain. She was sentenced to three years probation along with monthly drug screenings. She was let off of probation after a year and a half, and was never given a single drug screening during her probation. Part of her plea deal came about because she said she was a new mother.

She didn’t commit the drug offense alone. She did it with a boyfriend of hers. He is currently serving year 5 of a 30-year-sentence for conspiracy to commit a crime, sale of a controlled substance, and sale of cocaine. He received 10 years for each charge.

Conviction and Inmate Details For JP

Conviction and Inmate Details For JP — JP had a penis. His girlfriend didn’t. 30 year conviction for JP. His girlfriend didn’t serve a single day in prison for some of the same counts.

For the record, the most legal trouble I’ve been in is traffic tickets. Oh, and my daughter’s grandparents had me arrested for calling to talk to her after I had a court order granting me the right to do so. They got me for “telephone harassment.” I spent 30 minutes in a holding cell at the court house and the charges were eventually completely dropped.

None of what I said above is even recent in my case. I’ll be talking about more recent stuff in future posts. The point of this post isn’t about me, it’s about you. But as a barometer, the mother of my daughter:

  • had active, pending felony drug charges against her when I filed for custody
  • pled guilty to those drug charges
  • did not have a job
  • would not allow me any regular contact, physical or phone, with my daughter until the court mandated it

How does your case compare? Remember, IT DOESN’T MATTER!

Family courts are a scam. Stay out of them as much as possible. Don’t waste your money. Unless you have actual, physical proof of abuse, you’re not getting custody. And if you do have actual, physical proof of abuse, I’ll have advice for you soon that saves you lots of money in future posts.

Please share this article with anyone you know going through custody litigation, or contemplating doing so. I was warned, and failure to heed the warning cost me tens of thousands of dollars. Don’t make my mistakes.

Full article here.

Edit: Fixed a broken link.