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Same. This is exactly how it starts. Just be happy you got the note!!!
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Ah, the fruits of thinking your vagina is the most sacred and precious thing that you "let" men have if XY or Z.
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So youβre this Chad guy I keep hearing about...
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Sarah is crazy af. Lock your doors and windows.
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I did this to a a three year relationship that was going towards a breakup. Better to cut things off early then to let them drag out.
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Sarah is a whack job. Iβm sure she knows the term because sheβs done it to a dozen guys. Good on you to make her feel what itβs like. Iβm sure you at least never left a creepy note on the ghosterβs door though.
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Completely agree. Signed in just to state the same thing; men's ethics become women's ethics so fucking lead the charge and be personally righteous and ethical (demanding the same) or continue to fight the sexual arms race on trp and watch as each and every woman alive turn into turds before our eyes.
This girl is probs halfway decent, because it's not common that a woman writes a letter like this. You really hurt her, and now the next guy to actually fall for her will be given a thousand dick stare of which you will have played a part. Congrats, OP, you contributed to the decline. MGTOW is not about hating women, though this is a stage (usually fostered by grief) many of us stumble through.
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So.... She has 2 weeks to kill you in your sleep?? Got it!
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what's her number? i love a girl that can do some math
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Eventually, once you have no brain cells left, you'll realize that men invented honor for the sake of other men, I am absolutely not talking chivalry here. What if you bought some land with a deed to sale that evaporated into thin air ten days after purchase? How would you feel? Be honorable. If you aren't, you are downhill. Shit runs downhill, son. Karma will absolutely get you, if only by your own decisions and immaturity destroying you with ego/id growth.
Yes I just objectified women and compared them to land, that is correct, but there are rules of engagement that if misrepresented or ignored, make us shitty, craven, humorously sad animals - male or female. If there are enough of these, society crumbles. It's already well on its way, I don't even know why I talk about this anymore because we are all so fucking stupid.
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I comment because intellectual echo chambers are disdainful to me and it bothers me enough to lift my fingers to type a response to try and change this. I make no claim to understand my own behavior. The fact that I commented is not proof of anything. I am likely wasting both of our time because you are unwilling to seek meaning in my message. This is frustrating.
Doing what is right, in this case, is not necessarily different than what this person has already done (besides that, it's in the past, I have no interest in debating right/wrong since each man is an island of rights/wrongs and we must all make our own calls).
My point is that he (and you) should learn that this is questionable or even destructive to other males / his pool of peers which includes himself. He is shitting in the pond. I will never congratulate this behavior. Every mgtow must think for himself. This is what it means. Follow the rational conclusions of your actions. Always. You can probably tell that I'm way better at giving advice than receiving it. I am usually excellent at this, but I fucked up, and it hurt someone I cared about, and she got revenge in the form of life-changing side dick. I should feel bad about that because it allows me to change.
Ignore your elders at your own peril and make the same mistakes we did at exactly the same rate, then we can really act like animals instead of humans. The show is just beginning, go get the popcorn ready.
My (feminist, liberal, hippie) history teacher in high school used to have a saying that I became fond of, regardless of political views: "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." Consider the views of a blind world. I believe that is where we are headed, and mgtow/feminism/trp/extreme left/trump/heightened emotional fragility serves as indicator that tribalism is on the rise. Even here, we cannot think for ourselves without taking offense. On the surface, it's funny, deep down this is actually stuff I weep about. I am deeply bothered by it. I don't have any idea how to fix this, but it's honestly all I care about.
I'm not defending the girl, in any likelihood she may be a slut (a wise assumption), we cannot know. I am cautioning against angry or non-useful assumptions. Go your own way. Make your own moves. If one is stoic with women he always assumes they are all shit until they prove otherwise. Then he continues assuming they are shit and is still pleasantly surprised when she makes him supper, gives him a massage, leaves him a thoughtful note in his lunch, or other such things. If the man never expects anything, he will not be disappointed by anything. This is the territory where I'd rather exist. But I will always be honest and I will always try to keep my word. This has nothing to do with girls, but personal integrity. It's paying back a friend who loaned you money, it's taking care of your father when he is in the hospital, it's noticing the old lady at the grocery store and helping her out because she's fucking old and her husband died last year and goddamn it nobody else is going to because we're all pussies.
Best of luck, very seriously. My deepest hopes are that someone can learn from me to not repeat the same mistakes. I want a more ethical society, not a less ethical one. We might actually live through what is to come if we can band together as strong neighborhoods, even if the banners are weird at first. :3
TL;DR; Be kind, not nice. This gesture was, imo, unkind. He said he would do one thing and then did another.
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Not cool man. If you had sex knowing full well she wanted more after, then you shouldn't have had sex. This girl seems to me like just actually likes you and wants a relationship. If you blocked her after sex and knowing you had plans, that's bad too. I don't see the humor in this and the childishness from the other posts. She may be a little clingy, but you created the problem by having sex.
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When sex, feelings, and lives are involved, it is not a game. That is why you don't sleep around. Just because some other people do things doesn't mean you should.
He knew full well she wanted more than sex. Treating people like dirt or dis-regarding simple human decency is not ok in my book, I don't care who or what it is. I would NEVER do something like this to anyone.
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