Went thru my girls phone. AWALT.

roxon89 · 2018-02-10T11:27:09+00:00

Happened to me too but after 16 years of marriage and two kids. It’s true, man. AWALT.

TheAccidentOf85 · 2018-02-10T12:49:53+00:00

If you do say anything to her, it will instantly become youe fault for looking through her phone. There will be no more trust in the relationship...because you looked through her phone. All her actions are now justified...because you looked through her phone.

Miscrotesoft · 2018-02-10T11:16:13+00:00

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rationalthought314 · 2018-02-10T13:57:14+00:00

I can imagine a relationship subreddit response:

How dare you look at her phone, OP! A woman would never do that (yes they would). You obviously have trust issues (as do most women)! Her phone - her business! You don't deserve this princess!

and other hypocritical nonsense...

somethingorthrowaway · 2018-02-10T13:20:29+00:00

It's not YOUR girl...it was just your turn. Awalt

HOLLOW90050 · 2018-02-10T11:18:06+00:00

Damn that sucks, you don’t need her anyway bro.

Target4U · 2018-02-10T12:15:11+00:00

Sorry dude it was just your turn. Got some good times from it though 👍

SovereignSoul76 · 2018-02-10T14:14:08+00:00

The ultimate red pill: accidentally seeing your oneitis' phone for the first time.

2QuietDude · 2018-02-10T11:13:58+00:00

Sorry man. Knowledge is power.

evilmmm · 2018-02-10T12:40:59+00:00

My girlfriend threw me an underhanded threat about what she should do when a guy wouldn’t stop messaging her. ‘Like, what should I do?’ Bitch, please. I knew then there was no future with her.

PublicConsciousness · 2018-02-10T14:08:21+00:00

Attention is a woman's drug of choice. All women.

kayfab · 2018-02-10T13:29:22+00:00

What have i been telling you guys all along, this old 45 year old dog, so much experience, dude why would you not call her off, i would.

You think your the only one, if she has email, smart phone, facebook, skype or what ever you bet your sweet a$$ she is talking to other men, even if she is not cheating she wants the attention... got that, she seeks attention.

Last year at my job i met a 47 year old whores, blond, kept fit, i started talking to her, found out 3 weeks later she had a boyfriend and she was talking to 5 guys via facebook, she was messaging me when she was lonely her boyfriend was a trucker on the road, she message me to pass time and chat, and i was stupid enough to give in this.

Until i ask her out to bang her and realize she was a tease, i have not spoken to her in 3 months then bang she message me on facebook asking what happen to me (well bitch i woke up), i did not reply then at the job she came to see me, asking the same question and since she broke up with her boyfriend it was all drama about not meeting a good man.

I told her listen i am not your emotional tampon and i could care less about your stupid dumb romantic life, that did it because she barely speak to me anymore...

Stop chasing women, those cunts, just stop, get one pump and dump and get rid of them... that easy.

Don't get into relationship don't bring them on dates, bang them and bye...

Problem solved. Women are boring anyways....

muro456 · 2018-02-10T12:40:40+00:00

End it off with her and don't say a single word. It will drive her insane. Even if you do bring it up, I already could imagine the bullshit excuses now. All of which is, to make her look like the victim."You don't give me enough attention" blah blah blah. Most Women always have that back up beta too. Swallow a big red pill, cut the chord, and go better yourself bro.

dyshuy · 2018-02-10T13:25:39+00:00

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2018-02-10T14:22:25+00:00

You expect a woman to show loyalty? Young padawan, there is much to learn.

2018-02-10T13:34:44+00:00

One more thing to add; Act like a beta bitch while wanting to keep your distance. She might pity you enough to break ties with no intent on revenge. She going to want you more than ever the way you're acting now.

2018-02-10T14:12:12+00:00

AWALT to the fullest, good on you, you played it perfectly, just like you can't tell a sayian not to fight, you can't tell a woman not to be a thot, it's simply in their nature, I never met a single female in my life that's only talking to one dude.

2018-02-10T14:40:28+00:00

it's pointless to call her out because in her eyes she's done nothing wrong

I always say, never argue with a woman. It's pointless. I never had proof that my one ex was cheating on me, but dumped her anyway.

She told me i couldn't because i had no proof. I told her we didn't have a contract so i could leave anytime for any reason.

SuspectedLumber · 2018-02-10T14:43:09+00:00

a beta orbiter who is sending her massive paragraphs on life advice

lol this part cracked me up, what must go through beta astronauts' brains "she will see that I understand about life... I'm not like all those other dudes, surely she will let me use her hole."

2018-02-10T16:31:18+00:00

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ishyman · 2018-02-10T16:53:28+00:00

The funny thing is about females is, they will still deny it, even you're looking at the texts.

It reminds me of this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pj2FdILyXaM

Every female does it, and they won't stop either.

But the second you talk to another girl... omg!!!! you just committed murder!!!

casemodsalt2 · 2018-02-10T15:29:11+00:00

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Nomad79 · 2018-02-10T17:34:28+00:00

Long story short fellas, dont get attached anymore. I used to but after treating the ladies like gold, I found I would still get screwed over. Long story short, I became an asshole. Playing the same game. Now I always keep a backup, and leave as soon as I see her being tricky. I get way more ladies now than I did before. The only way to keep a lady these days is to keep her on her toes. MAke sure she knows you can be with somone else at the drop of a hat. Jeolousy and fear of loss is the only way to stay in a relationship at this point. Plus if you are the man of the house and she would have nothing if you kicked her out, usually that keep her in line. For me after my last relationship, I got in shape and got my shit together. As soon as she saw me with my shit together and in shape and with a hotter GF, she immediately tried to do what she could to get me back. Lol I just rubbed it in her face, but I was super nice about it. Women hate that....play on playas, its a diff world now. Stop being nice...OR Ill be banging your chick.

GeuseyBetel · 2018-02-10T14:31:59+00:00

Hypergamy caught redhanded. AWALT. Power on brother 👊

SuspectedLumber · 2018-02-10T14:45:56+00:00

Yep, dump her like a bag of shit. Bonus points: explain that you're just looking for someone with a sense of humor and someone with more confidence :P

SYL3NZR · 2018-02-10T14:25:18+00:00

i'd call her out on it too, MGTOW is a symptome, womens behavior is the disease, if you do your part at least noone can blame you for doing nothing

dot_dot_beep · 2018-02-10T17:08:52+00:00

This is why I keep coming back to this sub. You need a constant reminder why you do what you do when these cunts keep trying to insert themselves into your life. Thanks. Your post just set me straight.

Ckb79 · 2018-02-10T14:25:31+00:00

Happened to #metoo

wiseprogressivethink · 2018-02-10T16:29:56+00:00

Take her out one last time, buy her a few of her favorite drinks, be extremely romantic, take her back to a nice hotel, and convince her to let you PROLAPSE HER RECTUM.

Then never talk to her again.

Thundus_Bear · 2018-02-10T14:11:04+00:00

Yeah nigga time to ghost out!

JedYorks · 2018-02-10T14:40:46+00:00

tfw never had a gf

nver had this problem before

2018-02-10T17:59:41+00:00

You are a wise fucking guy. The same thing happened with me, same kinda messages from the guys as well...I was too emotional, I called her out, we got into an arguement because she got mad at me for going through her phone and relationship soured to a point I called her a whore and she told all her friends I was verbally abusive and when I heard that I really lost my cool and shit got really bad because I told off her friends and slapped one of the white knights who came to talk to me about my language...he complained to the cops and I went to jail for assault..had to spend a ton of money to get back out. Worst experience of my life.

I should've handled it classly like you did.

hollybegin · 2018-02-10T14:41:31+00:00

So she comes back in the car and i pretend like I haven’t seen anything. I won’t tell her either. The whole time I kept quiet, yes/no. Keeping my distance. She tried to kiss me when she saw how I was acting and i just sat there. It’s pointless to call her out because in her eyes she’s done nothing wrong, and i already known AWALT so I am not shocked. I am not looking for sympathy I know it’s in her nature, I just re assured myself my confirmation.

Congratulations anyway for your composure and self-control! Keep us updated on the situation.

StupidisAStupidPosts · 2018-02-10T16:46:45+00:00

I remember dating my wife and she had all those "friends" texting her and shit. These friends were around before me so I let it go. When we got engaged they all vanished and it actually made her upset when she realized there was only 1 reason they were friends with her. Pathetic how these men operate.

mongolian_usa · 2018-02-10T14:43:29+00:00

Sooner you walk away from that mess, the sooner your real life can begin.

NO1RE · 2018-02-10T16:22:42+00:00

The truth of AWALT is indeed in their phones.

buff_minorcan · 2018-02-10T18:35:02+00:00

How dare you go thru her phone! Anything she has done is now forgiven because you invaded her privacy.

2018-02-10T20:43:42+00:00

yeah, ghost her. Girls just keep too many options open. sometimes its serious, sometimes they are fucking other guys, sometimes its just attention and they only want to fuck you, but who knows. who can guess, who can deal with uncertainty which is all you have now that these thots have tinder and cell phones all day.

sad things is....she'll turn this around as a way to hate men. i've been there. a woman does something super shitty to me. as a result i ghost her or treat her poorly and then dump her. after the breakup she says how all men are the same (ironic) and i made her so hurt when i ghosted her or broke up.

i once had a girl actually try to cuck me, aka date two guys and i ditched her so fast. she would go on about how me ditching her proved to her that i never really loved her and that for me it was just about sex (fyi i really loved her alot). women are experts at taking their shitty actions and making themselves the victims from it.

SirGuileSir · 2018-02-10T14:33:43+00:00

I think you can see that your relationship is only a matter of her convenience. I would encourage you to maintain it at your convenience. Stop putting any amount of your own time, money or genuine affection into this. Pump her until you find someone else, but make absolutely certain you always wear a rubber.

2018-02-10T15:41:19+00:00

Good job looking through her phone. Caught it sooner rather than later. For all of you with LTR’s, it’s your responsibility to know what’s going on. Don’t be afraid to find out.

megamanxtc · 2018-02-10T15:47:29+00:00

don’t date broken girls because they will break you too

You're not broken - and you won't break. You do you and forget about that trash.

ProyectZ · 2018-02-10T16:02:07+00:00

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solireams · 2018-02-10T16:33:50+00:00

Nothing satisfies the whores of babylon.

PrejudicedIrving · 2018-02-10T17:09:22+00:00

Haha should've tossed the phone out and drove off

Pope_Lucious · 2018-02-10T19:21:18+00:00

If every man looked through his girl's phone, 100% of men would be Red Pill

somethingorthrowaway · 2018-02-10T20:58:11+00:00

Damn, that last sentence gave me chills. You don't know the real her until you look through her phone.

2018-02-10T22:06:30+00:00

Smart phones and social media have women drowning in cock options. Never believe you have a woman locked down. Just accept the situation because it will never change. Shrug your shoulders, consider all women sluts, and treat them accordingly.

JohnnySkidmarx · 2018-02-10T15:21:42+00:00

Cut the cord now! Do not postpone the inevitable.

AntiAbleism · 2018-02-10T16:50:58+00:00

AWALT always.

2018-02-10T17:35:06+00:00

Sorry this happened. But I'm glad you caught her. End it. Don't have a big talk because she will try to manipulate you through sex or words or tears.

The female phone is just a bad joke at this point. Doesn't everyone know what it is for for most of them? I think this: you often don't even have to go through the phone because if they act shady or secretive with it at all then you know what you'd find.

logic_hurts · 2018-02-10T18:21:44+00:00

same. an open facebook messenger. i trusted her to have guy friends, and she couldn't handle it. AWALT

HailMantaur · 2018-02-10T18:31:37+00:00

Most of us have a story like this. Stay strong, brother. You know what to do.

R00TT00R · 2018-02-10T22:47:44+00:00

Before you get rid of her be sure to put some fresh shrimp/prawns in any infrequently checked compartments/spaces she may have. If you live together and you are leaving the place, curtain rails are absolutely perfect. The smell that will arrive a few weeks later cannot be underestimated, and if you hide them well and space it out, she will never be able to source it, and will end up going on a cleaning frenzy and throwing away/burning her possessions trying to locate the smell. Knew somebody who made an ex wife move house by doing this once. Funny thing is the moving van took the curtain rails with them.

ishyman · 2018-02-11T02:47:39+00:00

Update: because I ghosted her... she showed up to my workplace parking garage... I told her I am late and ran inside. Hopefully she’s not there outside when I am out

SamCasey98 · 2018-02-10T11:34:33+00:00

Why do you say "my girls"? You are likely not even number two or three.

MesaBoogeyMan · 2018-02-10T16:38:17+00:00

Cut the cord. And enjoy freedom again. I love my weekends so much more.

BassTooth · 2018-02-10T21:16:25+00:00

You love this girl, huh? This is always a mistake as women are incapable of reciprocating love, regardless of what they tell you. The most you can hope for right now is pump and dump; treat the bitch like an ATM card, then dump her ass.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-02-10T22:12:23+00:00

She will even think that she was justified in keeping these guys around when you do dump her.

trouble_with_trilbys · 2018-02-10T23:42:58+00:00

Just play it like she would play it with you:

"If you can't guess why I'm upset, I'm not going to tell you."

This forces her to come clean on what she thinks you know, which means she'll reveal more stuff to you in the process. It's an old trick that women have used forever to get you to say something you'll regret.

You need to keep that leverage, just in case you have anything come back to bite you, like allegations.

Records of texts are important. Say "goodbye" and let her sweat. GYOW.

FappinBob · 2018-02-10T14:33:09+00:00

Gotta confront shit like that.

dawson203 · 2018-02-10T16:16:48+00:00

You should let her know you felt betray and then end the tie. But yea dude, you dodged a bullet there.

bestpractice1 · 2018-02-10T18:07:36+00:00

There was this saying: don’t date broken girls because they will break you too.

Too true, thanks.

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2018-02-10T19:41:18+00:00

Only fools marry the village bicycle and expects change.

topshelg · 2018-02-10T19:46:55+00:00

Man sorry to hear. Sucks doesn’t it ??? I found out my girlfriend was cheating the same exact way.

diosdaddy · 2018-02-10T20:48:21+00:00

I went to my ex girlfriends phone a few times. She had various conversations where guys flirted with her and she said "sorry I have a boyfriend"

I guess this went on for years until she finally decided to cheat. AWALT.

sentinel46 · 2018-02-10T22:53:18+00:00

A very familiar tale. Once I pried open the entrance to her hutch of betrayal, I was shocked at what I found. The phone, the personal journal, the online shenanigans confirmed for me the worst but also set me free. The dichotomy of incredible pain but also liberating knowledge could not have been greater. But now, having gained so much personally since then, I sometimes find myself approaching pity when I think of most females. To live like that must actually be so empty and so lonely. It makes being an MGTOW monk look like a goddamn game show host.

peaceful_strong_man · 2018-02-10T23:25:37+00:00

Never accept your women having male "friends."

2018-02-11T00:38:42+00:00

I’ll just simply ask for my space and move on

ask for your space? You don't need to ask a bitch for shit. It's your life, live it by your rules.

Seems like you grew too attached to this girl before you considered if a relationship could remotely even work. You put all your eggs in the basket.

When you're hanging with a girl, always understand that if her naked body gives YOU and erection, it gives every other guy in existence an erection. She's always gonna have orbiters. It gets easier to get over this as you get older and more experienced and increase your abundance mentality.. (and abundance mentality isn't just rooted in having a lot of sexual options, it's rooted in living a life that excites you and gives you purpose).

based_meme · 2018-02-11T03:02:13+00:00

It takes immense discipline to handle yourself the way you did.

Kudos to your stone cold attitude and indifference.

dJ_86 · 2018-02-10T16:10:27+00:00

Hashtag timesup

2018-02-10T17:12:03+00:00

Play stupid games Win stupid prizes

Playing with a girl only comes out to bad stuff.

Benny757 · 2018-02-10T17:12:34+00:00

Any questions? MGTOW

MagickalOne · 2018-02-10T17:19:15+00:00

Don't say shit to her. Just ghost her ass.

rustyshekel · 2018-02-10T17:39:57+00:00

Well OP... She is fucking you, if you can detach all emotions for her you can keep that up, then if you want woman in your life, then mix things up with them, since you seen her phone you can do that guilt free. Or leave her...

"Every man has to go his own way." -Batman in Batman forever

fcb98292 · 2018-02-10T17:39:58+00:00

Lesson #1: AWALT.

Lesson #2: Be sure you have access to your girl's phone records, texts, emails, etc. Most pre-paid phones (Trac Fone, Straight Talk, etc) do not have account access, and that means once the texts, calls and emails are deleted off the device, there is with no chance (short of a court order) of checking up on your innocent sweetie.

Jonlife · 2018-02-10T18:25:04+00:00

Amen bro. Bravo! Btw, this will drive her insane once you go ghost on her (never knowing why you ghosted her). Women are 99 percent like this. They use men like tampons and never take responsibility for any of it. Had you confronted her about this she literally would have called the shame and public option police on you.

Let this be a lesson to you. Fuck them, but never trust them or invest effort or energy into them... And keep rotating them until you're dead. The end lol

Rimefang · 2018-02-10T18:54:04+00:00

How long together?

SlainFunicle · 2018-02-10T19:22:41+00:00

use her that is what you should do

2018-02-10T19:41:22+00:00

Even if it's in her nature, no excuse, if a woman wants to be like a man today, then she has to take accountability and reason like one. If our job as men in to society is to uphold and maintain rule then we must make sure that everyone involved complies.

2018-02-10T19:41:48+00:00

Just ghost her and don't explain anything to her.

airmaildolphin · 2018-02-10T19:53:09+00:00

Cell phones are the devil's tools, but even before they were invented, women kept diaries. Looking at a woman's diary (even a brief glance) was just as damning as looking at her phone is today. I made that mistake once. AWALT then just the same as now.

Baldrbaldr · 2018-02-10T20:09:34+00:00

Don't complain. Don't explain. Ghost.

mistletoebeltbuckle_ · 2018-02-10T20:41:14+00:00

<<<"don’t date broken girls because they will break you too.">>>

Jesus! ....this is true. Never heard that one before. You gave me some perspective with that one that I sorely needed. Thank You!

DeathToTheZog · 2018-02-10T21:11:27+00:00

It stung, it always does. But you remained stoic so you did well. Dont give her a reason. Dont comfort her. Just dump the bitch and let her hamster wheel spin.

raywilliam639 · 2018-02-10T21:16:15+00:00

She's not your girl she's just your turn

watermelonicecream · 2018-02-10T21:53:20+00:00

This is exactly why you should be doing the same thing. Either don’t wife girls up, or if you do, don’t stop talking to other girls when you do.

Saturn1981 · 2018-02-10T22:37:21+00:00

Ghost that bitch for good

2018-02-10T22:41:17+00:00

ITSNOTYOUITSME

2018-02-11T00:54:42+00:00

It has probably already been said here, but don't ever call her out for what she did wrong. You will be the "asshole" for looking through her "private information," but her actions will be completely warranted. As you know.

hardtostarboard2016 · 2018-02-11T02:35:07+00:00

Well done, fellow. Keep up the good work.

2018-02-11T04:56:34+00:00

This sort of thing happened to me years ago, looked through her phone (flip phones were the thing then) while she was in the shower. It was just one dude but he was all over her texting and calling her. Luckily no kids in that relationship and got out of it pretty clean. After I left she literally blew up in weight and damn near doubled in size. Got a bunch of tats too. I actually feel kind of bad on that.

2018-02-11T06:39:21+00:00

I'm the kind of person who probably would have kept a covert eye on my partners communications from very early on in the relationship. I don't believe in the concept of trust at all, but particularly women.

As a worthless young nerd with the SMV of a lawnmower i often saw the contents of peoples phones while repairing them or modding them or doing other stuff for them and i couldn't help but see some of the stuff on them. Going up to about the time that Facebook was not yet mainstream... What it must be like now...

1UPZ_ · 2018-02-11T06:50:15+00:00

it happens a lot more these days due to social media.

But to be fair, a lot of men do this too.

But these days, more and more average looking women are "feeling" overwhelmed by the attention from men... due to social media.

But "players" (as we Gen X refers to "Chads or Tyrones" back in the days) have figured this game out a long while ago... have multiple cell phones... different women per state.

2018-02-11T10:54:33+00:00

Dont explain anything - no need for closure. Cut her out like a malignant tumor and move on.

the_unseen_one · 2018-02-11T16:10:01+00:00

It's not broken women, it's all women. Sorry to hear that happened, but AWALT unfortunately.

Devok26 · 2018-02-12T05:53:02+00:00

Water is wet.

mgtowshoes · 2018-02-15T20:20:41+00:00

There's no benefit to tell her either. Just dump her and move on

In fact telling her will just make her double down. Plus you "snooped" which gives her more excuses.

flapjacksrbetter · 2018-04-20T19:10:10+00:00

Whats AWALT? And wheres the update? How u holding up?

2018-05-06T06:38:18+00:00

What is AWALT?

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2018-02-10T17:15:21+00:00

I do think when you go you should tell why - just briefly tell her you won't tolerate her lying and cheating.

Sorry to hear that my friend. Not surprising to any man these days who is "woke", though.

OldRoad · 2018-02-10T14:50:45+00:00

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Title	Went thru my girls phone. AWALT.
Author	ishyman
Upvotes	756
Comments	329
Date	February 10, 2018 11:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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