"Real sex isn't like porn sex"

[deleted] · 2013-08-07T06:56:50+00:00

I don't understand what they even mean by like "porn sex." Do they not realize there is a huge diversity of very different pornos?

abcd_z · 2013-08-07T10:29:15+00:00

"My girlfriend said 'we should make love like they do in the movies.' So I shoved my dick in her ass and came on her face.

She got upset. Apparently we watch different movies."

RedSunBlue · 2013-08-07T05:35:24+00:00

The more porn-y I make the sex, the more the girls seem to like it.

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VZPurp · 2013-08-07T05:45:04+00:00

As I just said in other thread:

The part that boggles my mind about women, even after grasping TRP, is that their default behavior is to lead you into behavior that causes them to lose attraction to you.

This is no different. If you fall for the trap, you won't be having much sex. Why everything that comes out of a woman's mouth is contrary to the reality of the situation, is beyond me. Creatures designed to mislead.

rugbytitsandmedicine · 2013-08-07T05:44:34+00:00

It is when I have it. Ass spanking throught grabbing hair pulling dominant fuck fest and they love it. In fact if anything porn is actually quite a good guide

MarkyBhoy101 · 2013-08-07T14:50:58+00:00

This really depends on the porn.

[deleted] · 2013-08-07T19:54:14+00:00

Actually, I think the best sex is the "quickie." If you're a man, you don't got time for all that rope tying and marathon running. Passionately plow one out and get back to the real business of life.

It's what you make it, of course. If you want to tie ropes and buy accessories and do marathon fucking, that's your choice. Personally, my goal is to hit a stride of fuckin 'em and chuckin 'em. That would fit my lifestyle perfectly.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-08-07T05:50:53+00:00

Is this just another lie fabricated by feminists to absolve them from having to perform in the bedroom?

Porn = competition for male sexual release. Feminists don't like it just like they don't like prosititution (but some hamsters don't mind women exploiting men for money as long as only the men get punished). Any other shit that flies out of their fat mouths are hamsterizations to cover up the fact that they just can't compete.

I'm doing the /r/nofap and even the /r/pornfree so I'm not personally looking at porn. But I'll be damned if I let feminists and Big Mommy government tell me what I can and cannot watch in the privacy of my home as long as it's 18+ and consensual.

Now as for "real sex isn't like porn sex" I disagree. The best sex I have involves porn-like things. Outfits, role-playing, consensual rape fantasies (safe word enforced), new and exciting positions with women that take care of their bodies. Perhaps, porn gives men who don't know how to game a window to what they are missing? To what their fat wives well beyond the wall aren't giving them?

GaiusScaevolus · 2013-08-07T16:23:56+00:00

we shouldn't watch porn because it gives us unrealistic expectations for our sex lives.

The same way Disney movies give women an unrealistic expectation of life and the world.

The comparison here is that both fantasies are possible, for the best of us. The difference is (some) men understand this requires work, and most (98%) of women think they are owed a prince charming and a talking animal sidekick.

rugbytitsandmedicine · 2013-08-07T05:57:30+00:00

if porn gets banned there will be a massive influx of betas desperately looking for pussy. 3 things will happen

Suicide rates will shoot up, have no doubt porn is the only thing keeping some of these poor fellows going.
Prostitution flourishes.
fat post wall hamster marriage epidemic

TRPsubmitter · 2013-08-07T07:24:21+00:00

I have a few extra "items" that help me increase the porn-like sex:

school girl costume. I make them wear it and they love to roleplay teacher vs student.
make them wear high heels (very good for the sex position where you are sitting on the edge of your bed and she is bouncing on your dick while facing away from you with her feet on the floor too. Also good visually when the girl grabs her legs under her knees and pulls her knees all the way up to her shoulders).
Mirror headboard. Set up doggy style looking straight into the mirror. Pull her hair and make her look right at herself. Makes them lose their minds.
For BJ: don't ask them. Follow the Will Smith/Hitch routine where you go 99% of the distance and stick it in front of their face. They always go the last 1% and start sucking it on their own. But a few girls will actually like you to hold them down and fuck their mouth. These girls are great.

santaincarnate · 2013-08-07T09:21:49+00:00

There was a ridiculous video on this subject posted on /r/sex the other week, which claimed that the average bang outside of porn lasted for three minutes. If blue pillers think that's an acceptable performance, it's little wonder they're not getting laid.

FucknaughtTheElder · 2013-08-07T06:46:09+00:00

I use the racing analogy. Porn actresses are the Formula 1 cars of sex and are professionals used to being pushed to limits that have been choreographed and discussed "pre-race."

When we racers are dealing with amateurs, even Ferrari-level street cars, the true skill is pushing our partner to her limit, maybe briefly past the redline, and having the talent to post the best lap time possible without missing a shift and blowing the tranny.

There are physical limitations to street cars, and women. Shallow vagina/long dick . . . tight vagina/fat dick . . . true championship drivers test and find the strengths/limitations of the cars they drive and take them as far as they can push safely and efficiently.

purepwnage85 · 2013-08-07T10:23:58+00:00

"you fuck like a pornstar"

Achievement unlocked: Fulfillment.

Amuro_Rey · 2013-08-07T05:59:15+00:00

Another comfort mantra to make people feel content.

JediCraveThis · 2013-08-07T11:28:16+00:00

I'm not sure what kind of porn you people are watching, but I sure as hell don't want to do that in real life.

The porn sex I've had in real life has always felt a bit odd. Still, jerking off with 50 other guys and off-loading it on her face might not be a day to day activity for most folks.

GizmoC · 2013-08-07T13:11:45+00:00

I've thought about this, and frankly, I have not reached a conclusion. I can last quite long (apprx 40mins to an hour), but I often wonder if the girl is also actually enjoying it. For me, sex is a mutually sensual experience and if she isn't enjoying it then I don't enjoy it as much too. One girl I was with a few years ago was very loud... fucking her felt soooo good.

But currently I have three FWBs and they are all silent as a dead fish during sex... its quite demoralizing. I sometimes think that I am just being used for my company and support, and then being "paid" by sex. And no, this is not a good enough for me. Keep in mind that these girls are not "fuck buddies"... I would still interact with them even if the fucking stopped (for ex: if one of us found girlfriend/boyfriend). In fact, one girl recently told me during sex, "Don't take this the wrong way, but I wan't you to finish... I am very tired". My penis went lump in 2 seconds. On the bright side, all of them are happy to do anal -- just need to buy lube :D

Sorry this ended up ranty...

kingssman · 2013-08-07T14:07:33+00:00

My first red pill sex (fuck like it's your last fuck. Go porn style) she loved it. She hadnt had cock in a while so we went Hard up against a wall, doggie style, made her come twice before blowing my wad on her face and tits then stayed hard and gave it to her doggie again till she came a third time (constant clitoral simulation key).

She was so enthralled that just having her recall the night gets her wet. Anyhow she says she wants to try it soft and slow missionary and shit. Keept telling her she's not gonna like it, that she's not into that soft stuff but she insisted.

Gave it to her soft and slow like any other beta fuck. It left an air of dissapointment almost damn near disgust. Funny thing is she actually pulled away from me, lost interest, almost regarded me as if I was full blue pill beta and left her sexually disappointed. Needless to say it took some time and then when she called up again and said "lets do it your way" it was back full on porn sex

Guys.... always give it to your girl like a porno, she will fantasize over it for weeks. Missionary slow and easy is for chumps.

OceanRacoon · 2013-08-07T14:22:59+00:00

It be a can be if you want it to. The last two years of a ten year relationship I had anal sex exclusively including atm. That was mainly because I was worried she'd "oops" her birth control, but still.

Yeah it'll be a while before I'm that alpha again, if ever.

God that was great.

[deleted] · 2013-08-08T22:57:42+00:00

Except it is, for alphas at least.

Christ, this is the cringiest fucking subreddit I've ever accidentally stumbled upon.

[deleted] · 2013-08-07T23:09:55+00:00

Don't really understand why "porn sex" is a positive modifier. Don't really want to spend half the time mugging for the camera and the other half jerking myself or spitting on one of us.

[deleted] · 2013-08-08T04:52:18+00:00

Well, I must admit that there are many aspects of professional porn that are major turn-offs for me.

Physically, I prefer a slightly muscular female, with small perky tits, nice hips, and unshaved pussy.

When I see some cunt with makeup an inch thick, giant fake tits, and shaved everything, trying to be as loud as possible during sex, I'm just not interested. It does not appeal to me. I am somewhat repulsed by it.

DavidTIntellectual · 2013-08-08T11:22:23+00:00

Well, in some porn the sex is deliberately staged to be viewed from certain camera angles which doesn't really happen IRL.

hollycatrawr · 2013-08-09T08:15:19+00:00

You can't just jam your fingers in a woman's cunt and expect her to moan like a banshee and cum 5 times. And pretending your dick is a jackhammer really doesn't do too much either and actually kind of hurts; and believe it or not, you can't just stick your dick in someone's ass without prep. Real sex and porn sex do not work the same way, logistically speaking. And you better spend at least as much time down on her as she does on you. Not to mention most women can't get off without some clit stimulation.

So actually no, porn sex and real sex should not be the same. Fuck me like a person, not a porn star. Consent is pretty important too, but far too often left out.

Ask me what I like and what I don't, and I'll do the same for you. Never in a porno have I ever heard someone genuinely ask "does this feel good? What do you like? Are you comfortable?"

Watch porn by all means, but don't grab any technique tips from it.

Neverd0wn · 2013-08-11T22:48:40+00:00

I think the look Asa Akira gives when she looks deep into the eyes of the guy comes pretty close to what you mean.

3rt41 · 2013-08-07T07:28:04+00:00

I am actually always standard porn style during sex and it's really good. Only time it has been awkward happened because the girl had some SERIOUS issues with herself (crying out of nowhere, "i don't know if you like me" shit WHILE I AM ACTUALLY TRYING TO FUCK HER can really devastate any boner)

FrankieSucks · 2013-08-07T20:38:02+00:00

Sorry to interrupt the circle-jerk, but when I think of "porn sex" I think of jackhammer like thrusting for 30 minutes with the girl orgasming the entire time. This is not what sex is like for 99% of the population.

monsieurhire2 · 2013-08-07T06:22:42+00:00

Seems like people are confusing "making love" with "having sex," as well as "fucking."

junoguten · 2013-08-07T17:01:02+00:00

It's just a straw man. Almost none of the women that say this are anywhere near, are not asked to and very possibly could never be anywhere near the quality of a porn star or. What they are asked for is to try slightly harder at first. Whoever expects anyone to suddenly become great in bed?

Edit: While I agree most people can improve dramatically at sex over only a few months or years, saying we can be like pornstars without quite extraordinary genes and loads of dedication is playing sofa quarterback.

Offensive_Brute · 2013-08-07T17:25:22+00:00

Porn sex is mostly about having the self control to pull your dick out and switch positions every time you feel yourself nearing climax. It also helps to pre-ejaculate, or learn to power through post-ejaculation.

You don't hae to be alpha to have porn sex, you just need to have a sex partner, and a concept of what makes porn sex different from "real" sex.

EtovNowd · 2013-08-07T18:20:27+00:00

Well, the type of porn i watch is simply for the shock factor... and I don't have sex that way.

Tyrien · 2013-08-07T21:26:12+00:00

You realize this is in reference to scripted, glorified, high-budget, "professional", Hollywood beach house porn, right?

The obviously fake stuff that happens in situations we know aren't real.

Most people can't make the distinction.

ekjohnson9 · 2013-08-07T11:18:06+00:00

Generally I agree, the only thing I would say about "porn sex" is that they are aided by Viagra and similar drugs on many occasions. Most guys can go for a long time once you put in enough work to reclaim your fitness, but be warned, you will have sex at least once and wake up with a sore dick.

VaginalAssaultRifles · 2013-08-07T19:46:21+00:00

Well, remember, "real men" are the ones that take whatever shit a woman dishes out. I avoid feminist "reality" as much as possible.

iseeyou1312 · 2013-08-07T06:17:32+00:00

Why don't more red pill guys buy cameras, hire sluts, and produce POV porn and make money from it?

I have to say though, I don't think being a pornstar is alpha, it's prostituting yourself and lowering your status. Also, you're exposing yourself to disease.

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