Anyone else annoyed that the average man is straight up ugly?

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-28T17:42:45+00:00

That’s because guys can get away with looking like shit. Women are criticized for their looks from day one so we’re held to a higher standard.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-28T17:58:54+00:00

I tried Tinder over the holiday (not really looking to go out, more just checking the state of it in my city) and the four guys I swiped right on, Tinder was like “that’s a super popular profile, you should super like!” First off, no thank you. And secondly, of course it’s a super popular one... he has an actual bio, is allegedly educated, looks like he can groom himself without looking vain af and doesn’t sound like a complete train wreck crashing into a burning dumpster. The rest were either no bio, misogynistic bio or looking for hookups.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-11-28T18:56:56+00:00

Every woman I know married to an ugly ass man is married to a man child, ugly men do not have good personalities because their ugliness comes from laziness. Sometimes people gain a little weight, that's not a biggie. But if a guy is obese, dresses like shit, has bad skin, an ugly haircut, and facial hair that doesnt work for him then he is a lazy slob. That means he actually is single and entered the dating scene without putting in even a tiny bit of effort, how do you think he is in the other areas of his life? He wont even work to get pussy, something men devote their lives to, and you think hes gonna be a good husband? Girl, please.

Mella_20 · 2020-11-28T18:31:02+00:00

Yes omg. I guess that's why people put attractive men on a pedestal. Cause most of them aren't.

cheesymacaroony · 2020-11-28T18:11:25+00:00

Even when I see a random couple he is always at least 4 notches down in terms of attractiveness

tellmesomething11 · 2020-11-28T18:02:03+00:00

Yeah. I’m 40 but easily look late twenties/early thirties. The men my age have huge beer bellies or are ridiculously wrinkled due to lack of sunscreen. I’ve worn sunscreen since I was 16. I work out twice a week, lift weights,take vitamins and eat well. These men drink heavily, don’t save money, wear tattered clothing from high school, and are dirty - they don’t clean and live in filth.

The younger men flock to me, but they all want kids lol🙄....I can see the start of deterioration and I’m like 🤨🤨🤨. The majority of men my age are ugly.

2020-11-28T18:38:24+00:00

Bruh, my ex legit didnot shampoo his hair (it feels weird and has dandruff) didnot use a loofah or a sponge. Just soap on the armpits and dick and that's about it. Doesn't wash his ass or scrub the dead skin or grime off his body. Doesn't wash his feet and between his toes. Disgusting!!!!

UNeed2CalmDownn · 2020-11-28T19:07:33+00:00

The beards and facial hair this year have gotten so wild. I get that barbers were closed, but you can trim it up a little so you don't look homeless.

hapahunnie · 2020-11-28T18:57:46+00:00

And if they’re not ugly they’re either short or have parental issues. What lucky ducks we are!!

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-11-28T21:03:56+00:00

I'm annoyed he's allowed to be. I'm annoyed the average man can be crusty and greasy af and still give me grief over having a slight bump on my face that I can't even notice and then have the audacity of saying men "don't care about this shallow shit".

I'm annoyed the average man can roll out of bed without combing or brushing his hair and go around in unwashed sweats and the wrong size shirt and he's just fine to people, but when I dress sporty I must be lazy or letting myself go and that must be why I'm single (uhm I'm getting married).

I'm annoyed the average man can have a shit haircut and an un-styled patchy beard he just grows out of laziness and still be considered a nice, regular dude whereas people can be fairly hostile to women who aren't perfectly coiffed and tweezed like it's a personal affront.

Mcccy · 2020-11-28T22:33:06+00:00

Yes. I'm really starting to think I might be gay, cause the second I try to imagine myself with a guy the thought of the average guy with blackheads, bad skin that has never once been moisturised, hands he doesn't wash after using the bathroom, just HITS me and i loose all interest.

Davina33 · 2020-11-28T18:25:29+00:00

This is so true. I'll easily see more than twenty good looking woman to every good looking man. Shame I'm straight, really.

flower_vs_mower · 2020-11-28T19:26:38+00:00

I am the most annoyed by ugly teeth. Where I live it's not that expensive to get your teeth fixed, a lot is covered by insurance. I often met men through online dating in my pre FDS times and was disgusted by their yellow or crooked teeth, which was not obvious from their profile pics. Even if I had them send me several pictures where they smiled, a lot of them probably just photoshopped them. (Another reason why I'm not dating online anymore. I'm just fed up with being deceived.)

And then they wore expensive watches, drove expensive cars or proudly spoke about their high-salary jobs. I used to think that maybe I was superficial and there might be medical reasons why they hadn't fixed their teeth etc. But now I feel they just don't care because women are told by society "not to be so superficial" and there are plenty pickmeishas who won't say anything to not hurt their egos.

I am taking good care of my body and before I would spend money on jewelry or a holiday, I would definitely have my teeth fixed - out of respect for myself and also my partner who I want to share lots of kisses with. If a man does not take care of himself, but thinks he's in my league - then he's mistaken and I will never feel guilty about that ever again.

99power · 2020-11-29T00:02:35+00:00

Also I’m very tired of the patriarchy telling all women that they are past their prime after 30 and will all become chained to their menstrual clocks and age quickly. No- it’s the men. Sure the Hollywood guys age fine but the normal men absolutely not. They either gain so much weight, bald, develop ED or just turn into total slobs. That is what they are afraid of so average men perpetuate this scare to women to make them fear aging based on their fertility

pancakeCEO · 2020-11-29T00:24:04+00:00

Yup. And not all of them have to be but they sure as hell make it happen.

Poggersisms · 2020-12-02T03:40:50+00:00

This is why I say don’t shy away from WLW sexual experiences. I’m not sure if yall have spoken about this before. If you are curious about women, go for it.

Don’t feel the need to label yourself.

It’s okay to be attracted to other women.

On average, women are more hygienic, mature, and sexually fluent than the average male. They also understand female anatomy!! Ofc if you are straight, be straight. But don’t limit yourself to unwashed heterosexual men if you don’t want to.

If you are slightly bicurious you can see what happens. Male fantasies will say “include me!” and society will tell you not to “be promiscuous”, but that’s up to US. It’s our life. The reality is, most women are better looking than most men.

Title	Anyone else annoyed that the average man is straight up ugly?
Author	GoldandGlowing
Upvotes	228
Comments	35
Date	November 28, 2020 3:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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