I’ve been casually dating this guy since December. We were friends for two years first. He has done the whole horse and pony show - treats me when I least expect it, opens every single door for me, flowers, picks me up instead of suggesting meeting places, is thoughtful and surprises me. When I was very sick, he took me to the hospital in the early hours of the morning, stayed by my side, made me soup and tea, and used his sick time hours to care for me. I wanted to make sure it was for real though, and not just an act. Well today I came home after about 3 weeks of traveling. This man picked me up, surprised me with 90 min couples massage, treated me to dinner, had flowers and surprise cupcakes waiting for me at home, made love to me and spent a ridiculous amount of time focusing on my pleasure, showered with me, cuddled and watched a movie, and during the movie went down on me a second time.

I think imma keep this one around a while longer.