Something to send to the “Nice Guy”:

terribletimingtoday · 2020-07-13T16:09:53+00:00

Every man I've ever met who proclaims what a nice guy or good guy he is has yet to turn out to be either of those things. Truly good men don't have to toot their own horns.

WillingBeing · 2020-07-13T17:44:16+00:00

The irony of the “Nice Guy” is that he believes he’s unique and not like other men, which is essentially admitting there’s a problem with men in general. Yet it’s the woman’s fault if she dates a jerk, despite jerks being the default male behavior according to “Nice Guy” logic. If women just choose better (somehow despite the very limited supply of good men), more men would then level up and be nice guys as well.

In other words, women are responsible for male behavior. See how that works?

BasieSkanks · 2020-07-13T16:24:37+00:00

The fact they believe they’re rejected for being too nice shows they are not nice. A nice person would understand that women don’t owe them time or attention, and that women have a right to be cautious and selective in the dating world. Being a nice person is the bare minimum standard of human decency. Its like expecting Apple to give me a top paying job just because I know how to read. Being nice does not make a man special, and it’s only nasty, entitled men that believe it should.

Elegant-Stop · 2020-07-13T17:14:41+00:00

Currently dating/vetting the nicest guy I’ve ever met so far. Goes above and beyond. He never refers to himself as nice.

GraveyardH2020 · 2020-07-13T16:36:23+00:00

My ex used to say he was a nice guy who just wanted to love me. He was a simple guy and just wanted me.

He was literal trash and and is the sole relationship I truly felt mentally and emotionally abused in. He’s also the only guy who’s ever proclaimed himself to be a nice guy to me. See the correlation there?

This gave me a bad gut feeling the first time I heard him say it for some reason (long before I found FDS). Now I know why.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-07-13T18:32:21+00:00

My ex used to say "I'm a nice guy, until I'm not." At first I thought it was just some funny quirky joke - turns out he wasn't kidding. He IS a nice guy, until he doesn't get his way. Then he's a walking tantrum. So, not really a nice guy at all. Just a manipulator who knows how to be fake to get people to do what he wants them to.

superfunpants · 2020-07-13T16:05:08+00:00

“HEY! I WAS NICE TO YOU, WHERE IS MY SECKS?!”

1Here4Bach · 2020-07-13T17:05:48+00:00

You’re probably also boring as hell and have little to no confidence.

illusion_believe · 2020-07-13T19:02:51+00:00

This! I see so many men saying that they are nice and funny and don’t understand why they are single.

But what they call funny is actually making fun of other people and humiliating them. What they call nice is actually smiling often

scorpiorising33 · 2020-07-13T16:45:48+00:00

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Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-07-13T17:39:36+00:00

So true. The “niceness” always comes with a price. They feel entitled to the woman because they’ve been “nice” to her. It’s straight up manipulation.

rosapalmera · 2020-07-13T21:47:24+00:00

The phrases “nice guy” “good guy” and “my ex was crazy” make my hair stand on end. My brain is like have we found... an incel in feminist sheeps clothing?

lowkeyrebel · 2020-07-13T16:35:48+00:00

I see the word 'nice guy' I swipe left

Kitty015 · 2020-07-13T23:13:56+00:00

If the only way you can describe yourself is “nice” then there is a 100% chance you are boring as fuck. And also a 99% chance you aren’t nice.

cats_tats_smiles · 2020-07-13T21:21:35+00:00

Being told 'hey, I'm a nice guy." just feels gross. I am looking for a kind man, not nice. Anyone can pretend to be nice for a certain amount of time. Kindness is real.

Seamstress2 · 2020-07-13T21:56:14+00:00

nice guys, (as opposed to Nice Guys^tm), are aware of their own flaws and failings

NubianQueen101 · 2020-07-14T15:25:08+00:00

Yes, we like nice guys and we like betas. Now all the fake alphas deal with it.

Title	Something to send to the “Nice Guy”:
Author	khidhki97
Upvotes	870
Comments	35
Date	July 13, 2020 3:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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