I know FDS women don’t do that, but why do some of us fall into that trap? Why do we listen to their sob stories, their excuses, their lies etc? Why do we try to fix things where barely 3 months in they’re already showing their true colors? I just read a post where 5 months into the relationship she is already bored to death because he did a complete 180 from what he was doing before and the sex is shit, but she is asking for advice on how to fix it, even though she’s repeatedly told him how they could fix things. Why are some of us always taking on hopeless projects? Are men that great at lying? Are we willingly blind? I myself had fallen into the trap of trying to love a broken man who wasn’t treating me right out of his brokenness. Why do we do that to ourselves??