A pickmeisha in her natural habitat. This just ain’t it...

loudest_gusset · 2020-08-08T16:11:03+00:00

Note how she says “ratchet” “overly bold and confident” terms often associated with black and latinas. It really sealed the deal when she pointed out being raised by a “quiet white mom.”

This is both racist and misogynistic. I hope she gets picked for her sake. Poor thing. It must be so hard to be that desperate for men’s approval to throw out her whole ass dignity.

applestorm · 2020-08-08T15:59:55+00:00

She said with her whole chest "I hate most women".... Wow.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-08T16:18:02+00:00

So she hates this negative stereotype of women that men created. She also hates pathetic pickme women. And she hates bold, confident women. She's a racist. Oh and her having her tits hang out of her top is okay but not for anyone else! This chick needs some fucking therapy!

2020-08-08T17:05:27+00:00

I have nothing but pity for her; not hate nor anger, just sheer sympathy for this confused and broken woman.

It's really sad how utterly brainwashed she is into keying into this line of thought. She's simultaneously suffering from: internalized misogyny, "I'm not like the other girls" syndrome, cool-girl-at-the-boys'-table complex and self hate all rolled into one vile heap. Bless her misguided heart.

chickenery · 2020-08-08T18:55:35+00:00

It’s so depressing how many women and girls I’ve met who say this shit. Just goes to show how societal misogyny affects us. How come I don’t see men running around saying, “I’m just not like other boys... I can’t stand 99% of men.” Even though a lot of men can’t even maintain male/male friendships and all their close relationships are with women. 🤧

This woman has a lot of racism to unpack as well. Tf does she mean, “I was raised by a quiet white woman”?

LaBaronessa · 2020-08-08T16:15:03+00:00

Oh look some subtle but not really subtle racism. A racist and overt self hating Pickme is the worst combination.

pinkamena_pie · 2020-08-08T20:40:58+00:00

I don’t like bras, like I wear them because I have to at work but WHY are they some kind of required item? Men don’t have to wear bras and they cut glass just as hard when the A/C kicks on. Why only us?

merigoround1996 · 2020-08-08T16:00:32+00:00

What does she think is gonna happen meow? Some dude is gonna progress his buying love for her. She drops the hint that she isn’t into livery, so she’ll be cheap to please, she thinks other women over over confident, highlighting her own low self esteem and mentions being raised by a white mom as if that’s the only way to be quite and reserved( this part makes me kind of angry, IDK sounds like it has racial undertones, like it’s completely unnecessary to mention her mom is white)

powerline2500 · 2020-08-08T22:04:38+00:00

More than likely the girl that wrote those posts is biracial and lightskinned. But likely not considered "attractive" by the males around her for one reason or another. And so now shes extra bitter. So because the boys (men? She sounds like a teenager/young adult) are interested in other girls, she has grown a distain for them.

Posts like these are motivated by women who feel entitled to certain attention from the opposite sex for whatever reasonn(in this case being the prettier "lighted skinned) and when they dont get it, instead of working on improving themselves, they try to tear other women down instead.

MalloryDame · 2020-08-08T18:46:24+00:00

Tearing down other women who've done nothing to her and she has no business talking about... Yeah that's not a good look. I think even men don't care about that sort of behavior these days, and they don't have many standards 🤷‍♀️

juliet-elia · 2020-08-08T20:37:11+00:00

All I'm reading is "pick me", pure and utter black and white thinking and a little pinch of self hate.

shortywannarock · 2020-08-08T21:20:22+00:00

“It’s the ... for me”

What does this even mean?

PomegranatePrincess8 · 2020-08-09T07:08:07+00:00

Can’t save em all. This is why I say I’m not a pick me factory. I know we all have our journeys but some of these pick me’s need to be left where theyre at. It’s the Racist/anti Black bullshit for me 💁🏾‍♀️ It’s me being confident growing and thriving while you sit at home hating yourself, begging for attention and solidarity from dirty internet scrotes for me 😘✌🏾 Hunny said “I hate all women” with her chest. can’t do nothing but pray for em. 💅🏾😌

plummyjellyfish · 2020-08-09T07:20:33+00:00

Classic, I bet she is the type to also have few to no female friends and say shit like, "I get along with guys more than girls...less drama". Anytime a woman says that alarm bells go off in my head.

Title	A pickmeisha in her natural habitat. This just ain’t it...
Author	feckincovid
Upvotes	111
Comments	33
Date	August 8, 2020 3:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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