Time after time there’s articles that prove that women are HAPPIEST when they’re unmarried and have no kids YET scrotes constantly try to shame women who don’t want to fulfill the trad role because deep down they know we’re happier without them and want us to continue serving them.

Angeli_33 · 2021-01-28T10:36:44+00:00

I know a woman who is in her 50-60s. All her childeren are grown up and out of the house. A couple of years ago her husband died, up until that point they had been married for decades. He was her first and only marriage. We used to cross paths all the time and he always seemed very friendly to me. When he died, she didn't grief for long. She was single for a while and now has a boyfriend whom she visit every once in a while. Before COVID hit, I ran into her at an event. We talked for an hour, but at some point she confessed that she had always served the husband that had passed away. That he could barely do anything and that he was practically an infant. She was ashamed to say, but she now finally has rest and time to live for herself. Anyway, that always stuck by me.

thrway01010 · 2021-01-28T10:55:15+00:00

Exactly.

Just thinking the women in my life. Single women doing their own thing, enjoying their lives and having fun. I love being around them. Women with their cranky, messy man babies? Always dancing around the fact that those men are pretty useless and have massive character flaws they aren't even trying to fix. Single women are missing out on sooo much fun lmao.

Espionagess · 2021-01-28T10:12:58+00:00

Let's change the narrative. Every single time someone mentions ANY shaming of women without a man or children, be it a scrote or a pickme, I'm going to link of these studies. Not even in an aggressive way, just oh really? Because science says otherwise. Do you think the earth is flat too?

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2021-01-28T10:30:12+00:00

Wasn’t there also a study that showed married men lived longer and were happier compared to single men, and single women lived longer, were happier compared to married women?

dembar126 · 2021-01-28T09:49:45+00:00

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Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-01-28T13:23:35+00:00

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weekend111 · 2021-01-28T10:32:46+00:00

Also men are happiest and healthiest when they’re married. They’re just being sly.

Feral_Housewife_ · 2021-01-28T14:27:17+00:00

I have 4 aunts. Actually 6, but 4 of them are relevant rn. One never married, no kids. One divorced, no kids. One never married, one grown kid. One divorced, three grown kids.

I fucking adore them all. They are happy, and vibrant, and full of life. They have been beyond helpful and supportive. They helped raise me and my brother and my cousins. They are helping raise my son. They, plus my deceased grandmother's (one divorced, one widowed) were the village that helped raise my generation, and they are falling over themselves to assist me with my son since he was born. These women are so fucking valuable.

My parents have been married 40 years and still love each other. I was raised by them plus an entire tribe of strong, vibrant, big-personality women with all the time and love in the world to pour into me because they weren't wasting it on useless husbands. It was the kind of childhood everyone deserves. I can say from a wealth of experience, we don't need men for a goddamn thing. They can come correct or not at fucking all.

And now I'm the divorced, one kid who is my whole world aunt. I have my baby, I have my nephew, I have a boyfriend who knows goddamn well that if he stops adding value to my life he will be kicked right to the curb. I am eagerly awaiting my cousins having some kids so I have more babies to squish and dote on. Because my aunt's are who I wanna be when I grow up.

BabyBlankieieieieie · 2021-01-28T16:12:19+00:00

Stopped over at a friend’s house to drop off some radishes from my CSA share. I don’t care much for them.

Stepped into her apartment and she was cooking dinner. I asked what they were having, and she told me cauliflower rice risotto. She said “he’s not thrilled about it, but he’s hungry!” And laughed. As she cooked, I could see him craning his neck at her as she poured milk into the pan, very much in a “what the fuck are you doing??” manner. This man plans to be a doctor and take over his daddy’s practice. I love this friend dearly, so hate to see this happen — I just have a feeling he is going to turn on her; based on this and other smaller interactions I’ve observed.

52490 · 2021-01-28T16:20:57+00:00

I made this point on another post this week...women tend to romanticize marriage and children but don’t realize statistically, this is true. Especially with kids, often times women just don’t realize the physical, emotional, psychological toll on you until they are living it.

thegenuinedarkfly · 2021-01-28T13:15:01+00:00

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Maisiebr · 2021-01-28T21:05:17+00:00

Recently on tiktok I've seen an awful lot of male comments along the lines of "men marry who they want and women who they can" in response to the saying that women sleep with who they want and men sleep with who they can. Thankfully most women and girls read a lot and can tell these men instantly that studies actually show that women are happiest when single and men are happiest and healthiest when married so marriage can't be dangled in intelligent women's face as a bait any more.

2021-01-28T21:14:50+00:00

My hypochondria and OCD are really working for me on this one. I now have a health-related excuse to stay single and unmarried forever! Lol

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