Okay, I'll try to make this as understandable and painless to read as i can so here goes. So i met this gal at the gym i go to. She goes with her sister and friend on occasion and i got to know them all. Invited her on a super casual coffee date which she agreed to. I showed up first, got my coffee and waited. She showed up right on time, which i thought was pretty cool, got her a drink and sat with me. All went well, i asked her about her and things she was into. I could tell she was nervous and tried my best to be comfortable to be around. Didn't ask alot of questions about me but i figured "hey, this is the first time she's been alone with me so she's probably pretty damn nervous "
Anyway, finished our coffees and had a little time left so she took a walk with me to a sporting goods store that was nearby (this was at night) wandered around the store and looked at stuff. Told eachother stories about being in the outdoors and so on. Made her laugh with some dumb jokes etc. Walk back to our vehicles, give a hug goodbye, had a nice night thank you etc.
Fast forward a couple weeks. I ask if she wants to meet up again at a different place. Tells me "maybe, hit me up" i said ok. Didn't see her for a few days so i added her on fb. Had a little neautral chitchat, mentioned she ought to meet me at the gym and we could do some ellipticals together and I'd save her a machine. Message didn't get read. So i think to myself "well, i suppose she aint interested. No worries"
So here's the thing where my redpill is kicking in and i don't know if its right. I've seen her at the gym since. I've not said a word to her, but i catch her watching me from the other side of the gym often. I'm no looker myself, just there to improve. I would like to spend time with this gal again, but I feel like if i make a move then I'd be chopping my own balls off at this point, especially where she didn't read my message much less reply.
So I'm asking you good ex redpill folk, should i consider it done for? Or should i go about this a different way?
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