"iT's JusT a jOkE"

Summerisle7 · 2020-11-24T23:10:34+00:00

"He said it was a joke, that he would never say anything so cruel to me."

Um, but he DID say it. WTF is she even asking, these AITA posts are always so idiotic. Total Idiocracy clown world shit.

GoldandGlowing · 2020-11-24T23:17:51+00:00

“He said he’d never say something so cruel”

So how tf did it come out of his mouth 🙃

dollymyfolly · 2020-11-24T23:21:36+00:00

She better leave him now, otherwise she’s communicating to him that she’s okay with him speaking to her like that. It’s only downhill from here.

-pop-fizz-clink · 2020-11-24T23:36:17+00:00

"AITA for not accepting this losers emotional and mental abuse and horrible insult?"

Fixed it.

We all know these jokes generally escalate, I'm sure he's been a POS for a long time now. Sweaty socks? Wtf????

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2020-11-25T00:13:35+00:00

I used to hope that a man would like my body, but at this point, I truly don't care.

I will always like it infinitely more than they do, and men's opinions on my body parts that are primarily for feeding babies just aren't relevant or applicable, unless he wants to pay for a boob job, and then compensate me for putting up with him with the same amount to me personally.

Mostly, these "opinions" are nuisance.

I remember when my mom started dating when I was about ten. I could hear them talking about how her breasts weren't exactly and precisely the same size - mostly her just reluctantly agreeing with his statements, and trying to appease him. He was bullying her.

I remember being so sickened, hoping that I would never even HAVE boobs.

She was a beautiful woman, including that part of her, and he came in like he even deserved an ounce of her time, just to insult her body.

Imagine having to share space with someone who thinks you care about whether or not your breasts are as perky as a teen's?

HER "S.O." IS LUCKY HE'S EVEN SEEING THEM, AND NOT DYING IN A WAR.

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-11-25T00:53:59+00:00

He said “he would never say anything so cruel to me” *Regina George voice”: so you agree, you think you’re really cruel.

Bovvsette · 2020-11-25T00:00:23+00:00

They're ruining the word ”joke”, because they keep stapling it to disrespectful comments and suggestions that obviously weren't pleasantly accepted. As if that suddenly makes it better and any less disrespectful and depraved. It's like how abuse is apparently supposed to be suddenly nonexistent if you label it as ”kink”. They try to justify being vile in the name of pleasure and fun, but they do it at the expense of other people, so it's a really lame excuse that shouldn't be accepted.

yesmme · 2020-11-25T00:17:57+00:00

“Does your dick have permanent shrinkage? For once it doesn’t look like it hahahah it’s just a joke”

2020-11-24T23:33:15+00:00

...I'm so happy I'm single right now....

Never thought I'd say that! Ha!

2020-11-25T00:55:17+00:00

Red flag. He’s a pos. My ex called me a fatty/fat pig whenever I ate or even reached for food. Degraded my body and my healthy weight gain. It pushed me back into my eating disorder for a while.

This isn’t ok. If she allows this, he will make her end up with an ED or make her extremely insecure. She’s the same with that weight gain. The joke is, if he gained weight, she wouldn’t make such jokes and still love him the same (i assume).

NotSoBunny · 2020-11-24T23:43:11+00:00

I saw this post, and replied to it.

It makes me sad, because you know she knows it in her heart but she is willingly denying her own instinct on the own matter.

WildTenderness · 2020-11-25T00:21:39+00:00

Schrodinger's douchebag

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-25T00:55:46+00:00

Oh boi I would have talked shit about his junk. Oh it’s not funny now that you know your dick is harder to find than Waldo

Less-Panic · 2020-11-25T05:30:13+00:00

Translation: AITA for not letting him gaslight me?

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-11-25T07:41:12+00:00

How is that funny? Was she suppose to laugh? Did he laugh? I think no one laught.

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-25T12:26:13+00:00

They only say "It's a joke" to not admit they're wrong.

whatiidwbwy · 2020-11-25T18:05:06+00:00

that he would never say anything so cruel to me

He wanted to so he did

kittypixplz · 2020-11-25T13:43:07+00:00

If it’s a joke why wasn’t it funny. What was the punchline. Like come on think for one minute.

Pepsiluv123 · 2020-11-25T02:28:34+00:00

I was told the end of July 2020, that my 5-10 pound weight gain during quarantine had him feeling less physically attracted to me.. But said he loved me for my personality. Well everything changed Aug 2020, and he went on dating apps because he was "bored" and claimed it was bc he fell out of love. Idk how one falls out love within 3 weeks of saying he loves me a lot more.. LMAO.

UshiiMoe · 2020-11-25T18:15:20+00:00

"He would never say anything so cruel to me", umm he just did..

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MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-11-25T17:20:24+00:00

What’s the difference between hurting your feelings and hurting you physically?? Next up, she’s asking everyone if she’s the asshole for telling him it hurt her when he punched her in the face? After all, he did say it was just a joke. Some girls just can’t take a punch.

suncolor · 2020-11-25T19:05:14+00:00

First of all, it wasn’t a joke.

Title	"iT's JusT a jOkE"
Author	dreitzzen
Upvotes	267
Comments	36
Date	November 24, 2020 11:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k0g0vs/its_just_a_joke/
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