Gorgeous wife, directly asks for and offers sex, scrote upset and turns it down because it's not performative and titillating enough.This is most posters in r/deadbedroom

AyemHerself · 2020-11-24T21:17:38+00:00

I'll bet my left ovary what he really wants is for his model hot wife to act like his favorite porn star.

Fresh-Presentation76 · 2020-11-24T22:04:49+00:00

"I have explained to her that she lacks passion"

Well...can't see why that didn't get her engine revved...have you tried giving more vague and unconstructive criticism?

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-11-24T22:42:07+00:00

These deadbedrooms would be so much easier for men to understand if we didnt create this weird culture where all women know that 98% of men dont make women cum, that most women cannot cum from piv, and yet 100% of men believe they're making their partners cum through piv.

She isnt cumming. Period. End of dilemma. Your wife doesnt wanna have sex because it doesnt give her pleasure. Why cant we ever just say that?

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2020-11-24T20:37:44+00:00

Even when she initiates more like he wanted her to it's not enough.

I don't even get this obsession of getting the wife to initiate to begin with, when HE is the one who wants sex to occur more.Shouldn't the person who wants it more naturally initiate more. I remember when the low libido person( the wife usually,let's be real) accepting more sex would have been enough. Why expect a low libido person to initiate more when they are already probably accepting more sex than they(she usually) would normally want? Why do women have to be forced to "INItiAte", and pretend like they are the ones who need and are enthused for more sex?.If that wasn't bad enough, looks like it's gotta be initiated in some preferred, performative,porny way or she's getting turned down and blamed again for the "dEAd BeaDrooM!". These dudes are messed up and create issues out of what was once seen as completely normal behaviour.

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-11-24T20:34:37+00:00

Soooo, we are supposed to initiate more, but NOT by saying “hey, wanna have sex tonight?” Ooookay.

I hope she gets her level up on.

i_said_what_i_said_ · 2020-11-24T23:40:05+00:00

“After several conversations, she said she understood what she needed to do and would work on it”

Is he her line manager or something?

Maybe he could put her on a performance improvement plan with some KPIs.

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2020-11-24T20:38:17+00:00

I guarantee his affair partner will be under the assumption that she's been "withholding."

Toot--Sweet · 2020-11-25T00:26:53+00:00

He's a total arse, but I hate the reply too. Suggesting he conditions her behaviour with praise, rewards and positive reinforcement makes her sound more like a wayward puppy than an adult woman.

2020-11-24T23:44:02+00:00

Notice how they get nervous when we ask them for what we need because they can't comprehend that we been sending signals that we want some? Sigh.

Title	Gorgeous wife, directly asks for and offers sex, scrote upset and turns it down because it's not performative and titillating enough.This is most posters in r/deadbedroom
Author	ALISHAISHERE123
Upvotes	105
Comments	26
Date	November 24, 2020 8:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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