Does red pill make you cold?

KingGerbz · 2021-05-13T01:36:52+00:00

It made me more ruthless since I understand hypergamy and female nature. How she only loves me for what I can provide and not who I am. I have a strong protector instinct so when I was bluepilled I often broke frame due to feeling bad.

Unsurprisingly being ruthless and more “dgaf” has only increased their attraction for me. Win win.

MrNeverDryDick · 2021-05-13T01:39:02+00:00

You can still bond with women just stop thinking they’re magical unicorns that will fix all of life’s problems.

Fix your shit yourself. Women can tack along.

And don’t kid yourself. A woman is not gonna just love you for being you. Just like you’re not gonna love some haggard whale for being herself. You both have to bring something the other wants to the table.

drkinferno72 · 2021-05-13T03:42:28+00:00

Means you OD’d on the redpill and went full black pill

Pooddit · 2021-05-13T01:38:11+00:00

Why can't you just enjoy her company? Why not pursue your own happiness in life which includes being yourself, being around lots of people (women included), working on yourself in masculine ways, as men tend to do in life...

immatonton · 2021-05-13T05:50:50+00:00

My goal is to be like a thick slab of cold, hard steel. To have emotions is to be human, sure, but if I bitch and moan about every hardship I face for the rest of my life, please kick the shit out of me. I'm going to stomach it and carry the weight. Crying hasn't gotten me anywhere for many, many years, and I hate the people who sit and complain to others all day, like we all don't have similar problems and could easily fill their ears with the same useless drivel. I still struggle with it, but life's a journey and practice makes perfect, so I think I'll be happy with where I end up.

I don't want to get emotional nothing with a woman, man. You said that you never feel a sense of happiness or contentment anymore. That's another problem in and of itself. You should be living your best life *without* women, honestly. Personally, I enjoy a lot more things in life than being with a girl. I would say to look into that area and work on it.

Love is nice. Emotions are cool. Marriage, a family, those are things I think about, someday, but I'll cross that bridge when or if I get there. Right now, I'm so busy and content with other things that women are just a side story. Right now, I just want to have fun and if there are women that want to have fun with me, then that is cool too.

I definitely think the red pill changed me, though. In some ways, worse. In others, much better. Overall, I think it greatly helped me. I think I'm going to have a successful life and a lot of fun, God willing. Give me breath, time, and good health for the years I need to live a complete story.

Edit: Going back to the man being a cold, thick slab of steel. We should be like rocks around women, gentlemen. Don't share your problems. Don't pillow talk. Don't listen to shit about other men, her girl friends, or anyone but you, her, or other select people. DON'T SHARE YOUR PROBLEMS. Be a fucking statue. Cold. Hard. Deadly. They love it, I'm telling you. On top of that, when she has her fits of rage, temper tantrums, whatever, you weather those storms unbothered. When she shit tests you or otherwise does anything that irritates you or pisses you off, don't even care. If you can simply NOT give a fuck about anything she does, says, or feels AND be emotionally unavailable yourself, you're golden. All you need from there is to learn a little bit of game and have decent social skills. Oh, and a set of balls, which I'm realizing are hard to come by.

BlackjointnerD · 2021-05-13T01:16:37+00:00

Why are you niggas so mad at women? Like really.

Love is not unconditional.

When your conditions are met be happy, when its not leave or fix it.

What is emotionally bonding with a women? You want to cry on her shoulder or something?

Have fun and respect each other for what yall are. Dudes think they are so superior and more special than a women just because she wants the best she can get just like a man.

If yo bitch got fat or a women has no ass or tits what are you about to do? Stay because of her heart.

Intrepid_Artist · 2021-05-13T04:13:16+00:00

I would not say cold, but more balanced and grounded.

I love my women, but am not emotional all over her. I live like she will die or divorce tomorrow (if she passed away, I can take care of kids by myself, I can bring another single women to my houselhold cause of strong smv. In case of divorce she gets no money)

However I do have empathy towards my women. We share passion about minimalist lifestyle. We share passion for languages. For traveling. I understand births are hard, so pushed her to train hard. And all of 3 births were smooth cause her body is like iron. I advice her how to build career, so her hourly pay is good. How to balance family/job/her time. I used my network to provide her good job. I let her spent time abroad with her people (I don't complain for extra time to do my things and bang new meat). So she is happy and can bring absolutely love, tenderness to kids. While am there in family more for discipline, authority, learning skills

I understand she is a women, and far from innocent. As long she gives love, hard commitment to kids, I don't care what she does as long she doesn't shit where we eat.

In the end, her smv gets lower than mine. Age is cruel to women.

hope this helps.

NeverLace · 2021-05-13T03:30:29+00:00

It makes you respect yourself and out your needs first.

ifonlyeverybody · 2021-05-13T05:53:09+00:00

Taught me to not expect too much from women because men and women are not equal despite whatever society is telling you. No hate nor anger coming from knowing this. In fact, I’m much happier after learning all this because everything makes sense now.

fiasco_jack · 2021-05-13T05:26:28+00:00

Most of your best male friends are only your friends for now, someone moves, someone gets a new job, someone gets married. And suddenly you’re finding new best friends. Dosent mean they can’t become your best friends, dosent mean they arnt the homies.

Fogcloud2 · 2021-05-13T01:01:25+00:00

I don’t think it’s beta to want to emotionally connect with woman, more than often it’s just draining and unlikely things will work in your favour. I feel redpill definitely makes you cold, because women here are just seen as objects and having emotion for them is weakness when it’s in our dna to love. Don’t get me wrong redpill definitely helps with self improvement but is toxic at times. It can make you assume the worse constantly, sucking the fun out of talking to other women.

Mustbeaight · 2021-05-13T02:02:05+00:00

Isn’t that... the point?

mrmaskfawkes · 2021-05-13T06:21:41+00:00

Bruh its a side effect of you taking too damn many or this already existed and the pill brought it out.. Listen to me there's a great qoute by michal malice " take one pill. Not the whoel bottle". You seem to have upped your dose too much because now your getting some negative stuff, so get off it a little bit. Listen here is your thing you took in a lot of info and it's clearly effecting you. This info is like asprine or caffeine daily dose is fine and can be helpful. Thirteen cups will get you to seeing lightspeed and time slowing down. To be clear it seems you've developed or are currently working through something, the pill only seems to have another effect where you have to work on stuff so much it makes you confront issues you yourself have and this maybe one of them. So I will also say if you are feeling empty please talk to someone or perhaps consider that maybe your choice of partner is not the best and maybe you need to try someone else out. All in all the pill is medicine for you, but here's the thing you're your own doctor. Keep that in mind from here on.

OneTrueQ · 2021-05-13T05:27:34+00:00

I was the same as you. I feel really weird from time to time that I haven’t done anything beta in such a long time, so I sprinkle a bit of beta here and there in my interactions with women (100% alpha will eventually detonate any relationship). Don’t overdo it though.

BlindMaestro · 2021-05-13T06:17:30+00:00

At the risk of sounding cliched, reality is a hard pill to swallow. Most people would rather live in blissful ignorance. That was the point of the movie and is the point of the metaphor. They are the uncomfortable truths that most people would deny rather than face, with encouragement from people in positions of power. In fact, if the majority of the population were to become aware of some of these things, very bad things would happen.

ArcangeloPT · 2021-05-13T12:07:34+00:00

I get where you’re coming from. I would put my experience as something like this: when it comes to relationships with women, the highs are not so high, but the lows are not so low either, as they were before.

I began to see things for what they were, not for what I thought they were in my head.

Ultimately, a girl (or anyone really) will not solve your life problems. You gotta do it. And fulfilling this purpose brings you to more solid ground as you feel more secure of what will happen.

Is that cold? Maybe, but I see it as a strength really. I was way to volatile prior to the pill.

WIA20XX · 2021-05-13T12:37:00+00:00

Guys that are "cold" are really

1) Still in their anger phase

2) Consuming "red meat" content to stay angry

3) Producing "red meat" content for profit.

For a lot of dudes, once they get introduced to this space, they leave their blue pill prison for a red pill prison.

HillaryRodhamFan · 2021-05-13T04:47:42+00:00

The “alpha” (lol) male is always laughing, smiling, having fun. People want to be around him. When a girl complaints about bullshit in her life he says something silly and she blushes. When he’s with his friends they go out and have a good time. And it’s genuine not an act, because he’s comfortable in his own skin and with his life. Cold squinting types are tryhards.

AlphaBetaSigmaDelta · 2021-05-13T01:55:20+00:00

Lame

volvostupidshit · 2021-05-13T02:01:04+00:00

It just activated my inner hypergamous nature sleeping inside of me. And now I do not feel bad exercising it.

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-05-13T06:15:21+00:00

More knowledge just emphasizes who you are imho so if you don't like who you've become you should figure out how you got there.

128bitworm · 2021-05-13T13:16:11+00:00

It makes you aware. How you use that awareness is up to you.

KurkTheMagnificent · 2021-05-13T13:28:28+00:00

RP has just reinforced my behavior of treating everything and everyone as a means to an end, so I'd say so.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-05-13T14:07:13+00:00

I can only see them as sexual objects that have been used by multiple guys and its just my turn.

If you only use them for sex, they will only appear as sexual objects.

I can never feel a sense of happiness and contentment anymore.

A woman should not be your source of happiness/contentment. That way lies codependency. This should come from within. If you don't feel these things, you aren't doing great things. Go pick up a trade, a skill, and get good. Find purpose and meaning. As JBP would say, Carry a load.

All I feel is emptiness. Is this the side effect of redpill?

No. You sound like you removed little brain from the driver's seat, but you didn't replace it with anything. Find your purpose, find a mission, and life will spring back into being interesting.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-05-13T18:08:23+00:00

Same, I can't bond with women anymore. I feel zero emotions when I'm on a date with a girl. Just thinking about fucking her and doing my own thing or hanging out with friends.

r1bb1tTheFrog · 2021-05-13T20:56:14+00:00

Part of being red pill is recognizing your behavior with different people. You can emotionally bond with plenty of women just to fulfill regular, non-romantic, friend needs.

It’s like girls who hang out with guys who are in the friend zone. It’s because she also has regular, non-intimate social needs, and she uses some guys just for that. She’s not dumb. She knows they want her. But she has a need for regular friendship so she uses them for that. It’s not a bad thing. It’s just how it is.

Funny enough, when you start hanging with girls that you’ve friend zoned, a lot of them will want you.

papunigga031 · 2021-05-14T22:50:35+00:00

No, it makes you masculine.

Ethman2k9 · 2021-05-13T06:50:32+00:00

Find a religious girl

Title	Does red pill make you cold?
Author	Downtown-Shame3117
Upvotes	77
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Date	May 13, 2021 12:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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