[TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie?

creamtart_ · 2021-05-05T07:16:19+00:00

This really helps reinforce the points made in the huge amount of literature attesting to the desensitisation of male attitudes towards violence against women through excessive porn use.

Horrifying that there are men who are perfectly fine with women’s pain and abuse being exploited for their sexual gratification.

The_Pyramidion · 2021-05-05T09:03:54+00:00

I distinctly rember being in middle school and reading a sex ed brochure in ye olden times when a minute of dial up internet cost like a million dollars and I roughly quote "the pleasure derived from first time intercourse is very intense, so don't be surprised if your boyfriend orgasms after a few strokes"

Little did they know that post-2005 would be an apocalyptic wasteland in the death grip of widespread erectile dysfunction 🤡

tea-pickles · 2021-05-05T10:37:44+00:00

This is so well written, it really clearly shows us how their thought process works.

Let’s also no forget that alongside pain, anal brings us absolutely no benefits.

Anal makes you more prone to infections by causing small tears near the anus.

Makes you more likely to be incontinent later on in life, possibly earlier than senior age.

It can cause hemorrhoids, external AND internal.

And lastly it can also cause fistulas, which allow faeces to possibly travel inside the abdomen and cause sepsis.

It’s so against nature and they’re still pushing it as being “sexually liberated”.

It’s so blatantly obvious that they wish to harm us in any way they can.

Erinelda · 2021-05-05T08:42:11+00:00

I once read an article by an "insane" feminist about how all sex with men is rape. I thought she was doing a disservice to real feminists that are trying to be taken seriously. But the more time I spend on FDS the more I am starting to see that there might be more truth behind it than I thought on the man's side..

-Men will be turned off if you pressure them for sex, but pressure you np
-They want to do painful things to you like anal
-In my day they never took no for an answer, they "wore me down"
-They rape by deception nonstop, pretending to like a girl or want relationships
-Most porn is pretty rapey and most watch it
-They don't care if a woman gets raped but care if it's a man
-They feel sex is done TO women, not with them

I am not saying her article is true, that all sex with men is rape, but it's falling together in my mind in the worst way. Makes me glad I stopped having sex with them more than a decade ago.

Healthy-Salt-4361 · 2021-05-05T13:39:39+00:00

the one-two suckerpunch of modern times: porn everywhere and everyone is on antidepressants

now nobody c*ms from vanilla sex and it adds to the pressure to do weird kinky shit with men

E_lloci_N · 2021-05-05T10:39:44+00:00

So true.

I just think back to my first lover, after being together for a year (he was a v1rg1n too), then we separated - for a number of years, he slept around, had a porn addiction - we took up with each other again, but no more gentleness, no more love-making, it was fking and Vag1nal sex couldn't get him off. I couldn't stay with him. I didn't want to have sex if I wasn't enjoying it, and if I did, it was then "his turn."

Unfortunately, we're suited in all other ways but he can't be just friends, so we avoid each other constantly. Still makes me very sad.

sugarplumcutie · 2021-05-05T06:56:15+00:00

Just to be clear, I do not take credit for this. These are screenshots of an old Tumblr post that were sent to me by a friend, and the OP has since deactivated😔

BeckyStocks · 2021-05-05T12:11:58+00:00

I suspect that there is a massive amount of men attracted to..well, men too.

Ever heard of "gay for the stay"? And why do so many men rape boys? All the "bro job Choo choo!" Jokes..

So many gay men are able to father children.

Anyways my two cents.

2021-05-05T13:46:46+00:00

I'm my dating experience only a couple of men would except female orgasm as a apart of the sexual act.

One guy (pre FDS) would be like 'did you cum? ' - clearly no idea what he was looking for.

For my ex husband it was a chore he would only endure if he thought he wouldn't get sex

2021-05-05T14:10:21+00:00

Men try to make women squirt as proof that they orgasmed... well... I squirt, but it doesn’t mean i orgasmed. I have squirted and i had not orgasmed. It just came for some reason. My friend squirted once and her bf thought she came even tho she didn’t. And no it isn’t pee, cuz it is like a waterfall coming from the inside of my vag. Pee doesn’t do that.

bmstf · 2021-05-05T22:03:48+00:00

Every man I have dated has wanted anal. I refused each and every one. This post is great, can we get it stickied?

RadfemBlack · 2021-10-08T03:44:15+00:00

Title	[TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie?
Author	sugarplumcutie
Upvotes	461
Comments	42
Date	May 5, 2021 6:55 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/n59orj/trigger_warning_but_wheres_the_lie/
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