RPW! What did you GIVE for Valentine's Day?

[deleted] · 2017-02-16T02:27:23+00:00

I gave my husband a card, a new fleece jacket, homemade Cuban food for dinner, and an incredible orgasm. I had also already taken him to see our favorite local sports team last week, Sunday breakfast in bed, and a steakhouse still dinner on Sunday night.

Edit: I also gave myself a big, beautiful bouquet of flowers! Love thyself.

Junebug_20 · 2017-02-16T02:06:54+00:00

We are celebrating on Friday due to a hectic work week and not currently living together.

I'm giving him a lunch box filled with goodies. We've both gotten into saving money, so this will encourage bringing lunch instead of buying. Also, we're moving in together soon, and I'll be able to start packing his lunch, so it's in celebration of that, too.

We had been casually shopping for a lunch box but we hadn't found one large enough for his preference. I found a large Igloo brand lunch box with a drink holder.

I'm filling it with snacks, a box of chocolates, and a framed picture.

Fatpandasneezes · 2017-02-16T03:07:28+00:00

I got him a sweet card. Im planning an awesome March 14 for him!

Purplepenguine08 · 2017-02-16T05:14:50+00:00

I gave hubby a long backrub. Doesn't seem all the special since they're a usual thing, but he seemed very happy. He made dinner :-) I know, we're cheap.

TinyTinasPsychoOtter · 2017-02-16T01:48:53+00:00

My guy and I don't usually celebrate v-day, it's the anniversary of a siblings suicide for me, so we usually keep it pretty low key. This year I wanted to throw some humor in it as a way to try and make it a little more positive. I found some boudoir photos of someone in one of those inflatable t-Rex costumes and printed them, got him his favorite candy which is harder to find than I thought, and a goofy card. Presented them to him and we had a wonderful laugh together.

mabeol · 2017-02-16T04:15:39+00:00

We've discovered that gifts aren't either of our love languages so we don't really bother with gifts. But I did make him a card! I hand-stitched a burlap heart onto a red-and-white background with red-and-white embroidery floss so it has this kind of lumberjack Valentine feel to it, and he just loved it. I got a big bear hug and lots of kisses in response! It's now displayed on his desk next to the Christmas card I made for him :) makes me so happy!

Willow-girl · 2017-02-16T04:33:43+00:00

Whenever I ask my man for gift suggestions, he says he already has everything he needs ... he's kind of a minimalist, so that's probably true. It drives me up the wall though! So he got a card with a gift card in it. And some lovin' of course ... that goes without saying. :-)

[deleted] · 2017-02-16T04:35:21+00:00

Blow job and beer... cheesey homemade card and a damn good dinner.

RainbowKitty77 · 2017-02-16T04:46:32+00:00

I wrote my boyfriend a sexy letter.

Genetic_Failure · 2017-02-16T10:30:39+00:00

We don't usually celebrate Valentines day, but it ended up being my boyfriends last day at his old workplace (they let him leave early and they will pay out his last 2 weeks of notice)! I made the worlds largest dry aged sous-vide ribeye steaks, lemon potatoes, salad, béarnaise sauce from scratch and chocolate mousse - all of his favourite foods. I also gave him a cute card. He was a very happy man!

Spazzy19 · 2017-02-16T22:46:42+00:00

Last weekend, I treated him to a 1.5 hour professional massage (unfortunately the couple's room was already booked), and then continued to dote on him. On Valentine's day morning I slipped some candy into his bag along with a heartfelt card to surprise him at work (I got his roommate some candy too and put it on his bag), and then spent 20 minutes that morning washing their dishes and straightening up the kitchen.

Little did I know that I inadvertently helped myself out because my bf surprised me with an elaborate home cooked meal when I thought we were going out. His roommate even made the potatoes and finished making the soup while my bf went to pick me up! They were both thrilled to not have to tackle the cleaning before cooking.

My evening plans had originally been to do a photo shoot in this super cute apron he got me for Christmas and other lingerie/heels which then led to more fun, but we've postponed that until one of the next couple of weekends because it got too late on Vday.

TheBunk_TB · 2017-02-17T02:03:48+00:00

Nobody gets me sh*t for Vtines Day. I don't get anything for anyone else starting this year. I wish we would get rid of this commercial hell once and for all.

NittanyLioness84 · 2017-02-15T23:52:14+00:00

I got my man a generous Seamless gift Ecard.

He lives in Manhattan and I am deployed, so we didn't get to spend Vday together. He went hogwild ordered sushi, burritos, and corn dogs last night LMAO. Now he said it is my fault he has to do the dreaded cardio at the gym today. Poor, poor man.

HazelTokes · 2017-02-16T01:57:28+00:00

So excited to share. Thanks to this sub I began I planning this a few weeks ago. My husband and I have recently discovered sushi and he loves it. The roll we like most has tempura yams. So I got all of the supplies to roll sushi and I made rice, tempura yams, sliced vegetables for stuffing for making rolls. I found an authentic sushi rice recipe to ensure success. It was a hit! I also made his favorite black bean brownies, however I tried a new recipe and they weren't exactly perfect but they were still eaten up.

beautifulbarbarian · 2017-02-16T02:22:48+00:00

I got my boyfriend a bunch of food/snacks that he likes and ingredients so we could bake together. Our day was pretty low key but we both got each other small things we knew the other person would like.

manxxkitty · 2017-02-16T15:44:37+00:00

When he came home from work I was in a sexy little bondage number, had a home cooked roast chicken dinner in the oven and immediately sucked his dick. Cus ya know, fuck first eat the big dinner later. He then ate dinner at the table that was set up all fancy with candles and what not. Afterwards... took him to the sex club with a gf of mine and he fucked me in the ass as I went down on her... good times had by all :)

kaylin_xx3 · 2017-02-16T03:34:50+00:00

VDay is pretty low key for us usually. My husband got a new car in November (he's definitely a car guy who likes modifications). He's been talking about getting some expensive parts for his car ever since he got it. It's hard to get him these as a romantic gift since I know nothing about cars. But I did get to tell him to buy them (and insist on it) and that we could actually afford them without suffering financially (parts were over 2k). Not romantic, but he was practically over the moon.

We also went out the night before and had a great time. I did have some sexy time planned but my period unfortunately came a couple days earlier (total misery too).

charlotteplusplus · 2017-02-16T04:04:48+00:00

Chocolates! Everybody loves them!

lanafofana · 2017-02-16T04:06:33+00:00

I got him a championship wrestling belt that he's been wanting since he was 8 years old.

kaossfusion · 2017-02-16T09:37:41+00:00

New pants and a shirt for work (ahem, for me because he looks gorgeous in them) and Versace cologne.

videlachkadua · 2017-02-16T12:42:11+00:00

I haven't gave it to him yet but I will give him a big kit kat valentine chocolate. It's his favorite.

jt2438 · 2017-02-16T14:00:41+00:00

We don't really celebrate (plus I was out of town) so he got a lovey text and a naughty picture to go with it.

[deleted] · 2017-02-16T14:07:43+00:00

I cooked a very special meal!

Jayms · 2017-02-16T15:35:11+00:00

I posted in that thread that I made him a hand-drawn Certificate of Leadership as mentioned in the Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood which he absolutely loved. I also brought him a bunch of sweets from the baking contest we had at work and wore some new lingerie to bed. We also were intimate in both the morning before work and in the evening so he got a double dose of love!

tempintheeastbay · 2017-02-17T19:13:10+00:00

We hadn't planned to do anything (our anniversary is super close to Valentines' Day) but when I realized he had planned a dinner I panicked and bought him... sweatpants T_T (I swear, he had requested this ludicrously specific type, so it's not quite as lame as it sounds).

I'm going to compensate by cleaning our apt, taking him to the movies, and getting thoroughly waxed this weekend...

Greentsmoothies · 2017-02-20T20:49:50+00:00

My bf doesn't like to celebrate any holidays whatsoever. We're in a semi-LDR and he's always working so of course, he cannot celebrate Vday again this yr.

I'm not sure what RPW would advise someone like me in this situation but what I did was I asked him if I could spend Vday this yr with another guy. After all, if he doesn't think Vday is a special holiday and is just a normal day, then hanging out with an opposite gender friend shouldn't be a big deal. I didn't beg, didn't complain, didn't even get upset. I told him with my actions that if he doesn't like what I'm doing, then he can either change to make me happy or I will be happy with someone else. I told him next yr there will be no courtesy warning.

[deleted] · 2017-02-16T01:47:31+00:00

He's out of town right now so I sent him a honey baked ham to munch on for the week. He is in Heaven.

Title	RPW! What did you GIVE for Valentine's Day?
Author	Fatpandasneezes
Upvotes	24
Comments	56
Date	February 15, 2017 11:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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