How do you deal with this kind of benevolent sexism? Women and mothers shouldn't be put on some pedestal for their 'innate ability to nurture'. My girlfriend killed a cactus that she bought, so she's literally less nurturing than a desert.
Fair points. What are your sources that it's the mother that is often the abusers? Not disagreeing (I have no idea on that) just would be interested to read evidence on that.
I hate the double standard that courts have when they make excuses for women to have sex with minors and but never for men. Women tend to be favored by courts in regards to custody which is one of the reasons many women get let off the hook when having sexual relations with a minor as compared to men. They are the only parents because a court took the kids away from the father. And not they are giving this ex-dinner lady another pussy pass.
However, it actually is in the best interest of her children to remain in the home. Foster care is almost always a worst situation for children.
Foster kids are 7-8 times more likely to be abused than normal children, nearly half will end up homeless, they are 3 times more likely to be put on psychotropic drugs, seven times more likely to develop an eating disorder, more likely to have PTSD than veterans of war and less likely to recover from that PTSD, more likely to become pregnant as a teenager, 20% more likely to be arrested, and are 6 times more likely to die than if they stayed in an abusive household.
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How do you deal with this kind of benevolent sexism? Women and mothers shouldn't be put on some pedestal for their 'innate ability to nurture'. My girlfriend killed a cactus that she bought, so she's literally less nurturing than a desert.
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Doesn't make sense
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Fair points. What are your sources that it's the mother that is often the abusers? Not disagreeing (I have no idea on that) just would be interested to read evidence on that.
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I hate the double standard that courts have when they make excuses for women to have sex with minors and but never for men. Women tend to be favored by courts in regards to custody which is one of the reasons many women get let off the hook when having sexual relations with a minor as compared to men. They are the only parents because a court took the kids away from the father. And not they are giving this ex-dinner lady another pussy pass.
However, it actually is in the best interest of her children to remain in the home. Foster care is almost always a worst situation for children.
Children are 7-8 times more likely to be abused when placed in foster care than a child in the general population. According to Carlos Morales, a former Child Protective Services investigator, author of Legally Kidnapped: The Case Against Child Protective Services Nearly one third of children in foster care reported being abused by a foster parent or another adult in a foster home. (Same source)
Foster kids are 7-8 times more likely to be abused than normal children, nearly half will end up homeless, they are 3 times more likely to be put on psychotropic drugs, seven times more likely to develop an eating disorder, more likely to have PTSD than veterans of war and less likely to recover from that PTSD, more likely to become pregnant as a teenager, 20% more likely to be arrested, and are 6 times more likely to die than if they stayed in an abusive household.
More information can be found if you read in the book: Legally Kidnapped: The Case Against Child Protective Services
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