I’m sure we’re all familiar with the age old TRP trope about women no longer being able to “pair bond” after having sex with multiple men. The TRP reasoning is that it’s because she’s released the same feel good hormones for so many men during multiple sexual encounters and afterwards, that it slowly loses its effects and makes a woman less likely to really bond with her long term partner. TRP often likes to paint this as a bad thing, and as a reason why men shouldn’t commit to women that have high body counts. But if you really think about it, this diminished ability to unequivocally attach yourself to a man just because he gives you sexual pleasure is actually for your own good.

The men of RP enjoy that a woman has little or no other sexual encounters apart from him, because it gives him an advantage over you. You become more attached to him than he is to you. It also allows him freedom from his insecurities as he begins to compare himself and his sexual prowess to other men’s. It allows him to put in low effort in pleasing you sexually because you don’t know and have not experienced any better for you to compare. On top of that, the pair bonding isn’t just limited to sexual attachment, but emotional as well. To the point that you start rationalizing nonsense, accepting toxicity and abuse, and it makes it that much harder for you to leave a clearly unhealthy relationship/marriage. This is precisely why that pair bonding is ultimately harmful to you. And they know this, because it’s also why they encourage men to try to sleep with more women, discourage male loyalty/getting stuck up on one woman. This is because, a man without much sexual experience is a man that can potentially be more easily manipulated and taken advantage of. They certainly don’t want that, instead they want YOU to be the one that’s primed and ready to take whatever low effort bs they feel like offering you, plus work harder to win their favor, loyalty and commitment.

Thankfully, gone are the days when a woman would obsessively attach herself to a man just because he’s the only man that has ever given her great sex. More women engaging in sexual activity with multiple men that she prefers to have sex with, not only opens her eyes to what bad sex and low quality dick is, but also allows her to reject that low effort swiftly. She has that “been there, done that” attitude and is well equipped to not allow herself be played.

Of course this does not mean that you should be having sex willy nilly with LVM that you haven’t properly vetted and haven’t fully earned that right via their time, effort, commitment, money and dedication to you. Vet them, put them to work and enjoy sex with them after they’ve proven themselves. The number itself does not matter, the quality does. And whether that number ends up being higher or lower, you being able to rack up that experience, will completely eviscerate dangerous “pair bonds” that ultimately do absolutely nothing to serve you.