Man's girlfriend discovers that he was a super romantic guy in the past now expects the same behavior

sniperhiding · 2014-01-06T19:33:46+00:00

Typical blue pill beta reddit.

Man was romantic with ex but not with new gf. Gf upset he won't do it for her. Reddit tells man to be an adult.

Woman gives head and other crazy stuff with ex boyfriends, old fuck buddies and ONS. Beta boyfriend upset she won't do it for him. Reddit tells boyfriend to grow up.

Both Hilarious and sad.

HarleyWalker · 2014-01-06T18:51:35+00:00

I think this thread has been made in contrast to that thread about women not doing with their husbands what they did with previous partners. As you can see it proves a point about the double standard.

To them women who don't want to have kinky sex any more are entitled to not do it but a man who doesn't want to be romantic any more is just an asshole.

AbsoluteAltitude · 2014-01-06T18:17:19+00:00

A year ago, I'd have been saying that stupid bullshit about romancing her...it's fucking crazy being on this side of the table.

Human_v2 · 2014-01-06T17:58:36+00:00

Exact analogy to all those guys who find out their wife was sexually adventurous before him then pretended she was a prude with him.

redpillaviator · 2014-01-06T20:00:58+00:00

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SmilesLookGreatOnYou · 2014-01-06T18:56:26+00:00

This is very similar to me. For m first girlfriend, i was an absolute romantic. And well, she deserved it at the time. Life ended up happening and she's married to the boyfriend she had before me. I would be surprised if she has kissed 3 guys in her life.

My recent girlfriend would hook up with other dudes while she and i were still dating. And talk to her friends about how sexy he was, and even about another guy not me. Placing me in the 3rd place position. She would get mad that i didn't want to take her out on dates.

Bitch. You made me feel like shit. I don't feel like showing you off.

Cypher211 · 2014-01-06T18:16:38+00:00

And as usual people replying to the OP make him out to be the villain. I can only hope he doesn't get influenced by them or take any of their advice

BJRone · 2014-01-06T18:27:43+00:00

Regardless of what the post is about it always comes down to this. The man is always wrong. If its about sex and the man feels he is not getting what her Ex's got, he needs to respect her decision and realize she made "mistakes" or that she learned since that experience and you should accept that because she is with you now and that's all that matters. As soon as you flip the roles and the woman feels she is not getting the same treatment as an Ex, everyone is up-in-arms defending her and saying that he needs to make her feel special, like its his fucking problem she is getting her panties twisted over a burrito, especially when it sounds like he does alright by her already. The hypocrisy is astounding.

Cyralea · 2014-01-06T18:38:49+00:00

Does TRP think that there is a certain kind of girl-- like the guy's original girlfriend-- that is worth the extra effort in "courtship"?

MockingDead · 2014-01-06T20:46:26+00:00

Lol. The great thing is, if she had been a raging dicksucker, Askhamster would say this:

"People change, you can't demand or change the special something you two have."

binrobinro · 2014-01-06T21:59:32+00:00

She was perfectly happy, until she found out that someone else got "more".

Now she wants "more", too.

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textualintercourse · 2014-01-06T19:56:25+00:00

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tr8 · 2014-01-06T19:16:11+00:00

Haha, it was removed from r/relationships.

LasherDeviance · 2014-01-07T01:10:05+00:00

The comments that make me laugh... "Birthdays and Christmas don't count, that's expected."

Why should that be expected? I haven't given or received a present for either since I was like 13, except for shit like bottles of liquor from friends. If the man is buying her Kindles and shit, how all of a sudden is that gratis? Because she gave him some pussy?

Bitch...Please.

fuk_offe · 2014-01-06T22:01:20+00:00

Oh my god, the double standards are amazing in that thread. Comic GOLD!

trudatness · 2014-01-06T19:56:12+00:00

Genius troll post

Teutonicfox · 2014-01-06T18:52:04+00:00

Just because she wants something, doesnt mean it has to be given to her. but recognize that she does want it, and use that to motivate her.

talk about doing things for her, or planning things etc. dont have to do them all the time. and min/max the outcome too. say you're doing something for her when really... you'd be doing it anyways.

keep the carrot in front of her, let her have a taste of it, but dont actually let her eat it. if she gets satisfied with you, she will use you as long as she fancies and then leave you for a man with a spine.

i dont think its stupid that women want overly romantic things done for them... whether or not they get it is another matter.

humans are obviously more complex... but think of it like dog training. positive behavior = reward. once the behavior pattern is set, occasional rewards with promises of rewards maintains the desired behaviors.

if that sounds bad, consider how women give awesome sex after a romantic evening. she's already trying to train you.

hashtagpound2point2 · 2014-01-07T09:18:48+00:00

I'm glad this guy seems to be sticking to the equality idea that when she isn't doing anything for him, he's not going to do anything for her.

They're acknowledging that her entitlement is bad.

I get where you're coming from, no-one likes to pay for someone else who thinks they're entitled to a paid for meal and should be treated like that

Your girlfriend may be acting entitled if she's pitching a fit that you didn't buy her burrito

They're acknowledging that his equality point of view is valid.

This is a good point, it goes both ways. You need to be treated special too.

But for some reason, all the pressure is on OP.

While they've been telling him that he's been missing the point that she needs to feel special, they forget that she needs to make herself special for him to treat her as such. They're just been hard-wired to believe that every girl deserves romantic outings for little to no reason.

IllimitableMan · 2014-01-07T00:30:25+00:00

Lmao if hes capable of it she must be entitled to it regardless of her own abilities or integrity I mean respect isn't earnt is it? She's got a pussy so shes automatically entitled to the princess treatment. Silly bitch.

afcpoop · 2014-01-07T01:11:57+00:00

My exgirlfriend too was very traditional, she was an amazing cook. She learned from my mom how to make me my favorite food, and would make it for me on occasion.

This sounds fucking amazing, I yearn for a wench like this.

EDIT: "on occasion." DOH!

6TLaRm4g · 2014-01-07T12:18:00+00:00

Another thing to take from post is that women actually like romantic behavior. Maybe it could be used as a tactic if combined with scarcity. It means give her a little romance, but just as much to make her want more.

thechimpinallofus · 2014-01-07T00:50:40+00:00

If I were to guess how to think about women, humanity's other half for millions of years down an evolutionary chain, I certainly wouldn't try to create rules for its "designed" natures or inclinations.

Truth isn't as absolute as this site implies. The Matrix does not exit. Life is what you make of it, within scientific, physicality bound rules. It's called physics in scientific circles.

But are human relationship scientifically bound?

Thanks to recent changes in our evolution, we can now think with great imagination abstractedly. This means that our relationship are not only physically bound, but also abstractedly, thanks to language and other medias that transfer information.

Don't eat the pills children. You don't know what else goes in there. In 1000 years, if this group still exists, it will be a religion, mark these words, INTERNET!!!

Title	Man's girlfriend discovers that he was a super romantic guy in the past now expects the same behavior
Author	mistonag
Upvotes	180
Comments	152
Date	January 6, 2014 5:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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