Women are still seen as sex-objects by some men even after helping them.

DuchessDurag · 2021-08-15T23:48:28+00:00

On Facebook I messaged a high-school friend to inform him our classmate had died in a car accident.

He thought it was perfectly fine , to invite me to his house while his fiancé was out of town 🤯 You know to “get to know me better”.

He was never invited to the funeral.

fab_pofu · 2021-08-16T05:06:17+00:00

Men never ask for help from a woman unless they have ulterior motives.

Apparently a lot of predators will ask women for help or for directions and capitalize on women trying to be nice, but if you think about it critically, most men are sexist and don’t respect women, so why would they seek out help from them when they could ask a capable male instead?

CanadianRadFeminist · 2021-08-15T22:56:56+00:00

Old men are some of the most disgusting scrotes out there.

They often have even worse misogynistic beliefs than young men, and are more blatant about them. They use the fact that women are told to be polite to older folks to their advantage. The most degrading and sexist comments I have ever received when I worked in customer service where always from elderly men.

Sexual assault and harrassment from them is usually handwaved away with "he's old and lonely, he's harmless, just ignore him" but they know exactly what they are doing. They know that these excuses allow them to behave however they wish towards women.

Unless the old man is your beloved grandfather or other family member, treat him with caution the same way you would a younger male. Their body is weaker but they are still capable of abusing your kindness and violating you. Save that beautiful care and compassion for sweet old ladies!

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-08-15T22:15:50+00:00

Don’t ever help men who aren’t your close friends or trusted relatives. At most, you can call local services to do a wellness check, but don’t help them yourself. Why? Because predatory men pretend to be disabled or hurt in order to lure women to them, and then suddenly that disability goes away once the door is shut.

This is exactly what Ted Bundy did to lure his victims. The media always says it’s because he was attractive, but that’s bullshit (have you seen his pictures? Ew). He manipulated women’s social conditioning to be helpful and self-sacrificing by pretending to be hurt, and like he needed help.

So if a man’s tryna off himself in front of you, just keep walking and don’t make eye contact.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-08-16T00:34:18+00:00

Never help them, they never learn. Whatever tricks they got from you will quickly be forgotten. When push comes to shove, google can’t even help them. 😜😜 edit, it’s always one word or two. A real life example: food (What is it? Where do I get it?) and basic independent living all around (Not missing a day of brushing their teeth and consistently using an 80 in 1 body wash.) huh

insurrectionaryINTJ · 2021-08-15T21:58:20+00:00

Scrotes, even old ones, are still scrotes at the end of the day. Normalize being mean to them.

BxGyrl416 · 2021-08-16T01:36:10+00:00

There’s never any moment too awkward to try to get in somebody’s pants. /s

purasangria · 2021-08-15T23:10:08+00:00

Scrotes gonna scrote. 🤷

detikripur · 2021-08-16T08:43:09+00:00

I helped colleagues for YEARS. Basically doing all their paperwork because they couldn’t/wouldn’t/were “stupid”. I covered for them and on top of being overlooked for compensation and not a peep from them in my defense ALL of them sexually harassed me. One of them turned into a stalker for a while because he convinced himself that all those years being in the same office meant I owed him something because he let me help him and if I wasn’t into him I would have asked to be moved. I mean the mental acrobatic leaps would have been enough to break something lol.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-16T08:03:03+00:00

give a dirty scrote some attention - they'll want to f you.

mashibeans · 2021-08-16T17:53:10+00:00

Yeah... the more I find out, and the more I live, the less sympathy I have for men. I think at this point only pre-teen boys have a chance of having any of my energy.

Women are not bottomless fountains of sympathy, consideration and love. We all have a limit, and at this point I rather save all of that for little girls and HV women (some pickmeishas are dangerous and have little to no hope of turning better, as we all know)

Ironsculpture · 2021-08-17T09:55:26+00:00

Let that be a teaching moment for her. Women too often project their humanity and the way they view the world on a very different kind of creature. Just because you would be grateful for help doesn't mean a man would spare a thought other than how much he'd like to fuck you.

Title	Women are still seen as sex-objects by some men even after helping them.
Author	HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick
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Date	August 15, 2021 9:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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