Normal dudes here - what do you do when you see a cute chick with a dude much less attractive than you who is visibly lacking in game/confidence?

BlueberrySharp3 · 2023-09-12T22:39:41+00:00

why not go for a single woman? It’s a bit shitty trying to chat up another man’s girlfriend isn’t it?

blebbyroo · 2023-09-12T22:37:27+00:00

Why are you always so offended by women and their partner choice?

lighthub · 2023-09-13T01:38:16+00:00

This is what happens when you become too extremist in a pill ideology, black pillers have been getting like this lately.

You make assumption about two people’s relationship, of people you know nothing about. You know nothing about the context of their relationship, how they met, what they benefit each other. You assume the black pill beliefs explain and applies to every relationship and everyone, and that’s faulty thinking.

TryLambda · 2023-09-12T23:25:34+00:00

Dude were you not trained on the bro code, leave the ones attached alone, go hit on some single ladies… don’t be a PUA schmuck

FairyMachine · 2023-09-12T23:27:11+00:00

I'm glad you specified "normal dudes", lol. Normal dudes wouldn't do anything at all in this scenario. An asshole however, would hit on a taken person.

MyLastBestChance · 2023-09-12T23:04:05+00:00

Stay tuned for OP to make a post about how fickle women are because they “eye fuck” him (they don’t) and then lose interest (they were never interested) despite being very attracted to him (they weren’t) over something stupid (shutting down unwanted attention from creepy angry men isn’t stupid, it necessary)…

Crafty-Interest1336 · 2023-09-12T23:05:19+00:00

If you're here trying to get pick up advice just know you have a lower smv than the guy she's with

Lunar-Serpent · 2023-09-12T22:49:15+00:00

Jesus it’s so over

Zadacat · 2023-09-13T04:50:00+00:00

Nothing?

caption291 · 2023-09-13T07:37:50+00:00

Doing anything but moving on would make you not a normal dude...so what normal dudes would do is nothing.

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2023-09-13T10:04:54+00:00

What does it matter?

Nihi1986 · 2023-09-13T12:41:01+00:00

Is this serious...?

I used to blame my luck, then as I grew older I realized those men often had a good job and were willing to totally adapt to the girl (travels, luxuries, doing most of the chores...) also, he probably met the girl at the right time so there's definitely some 'luck' involved.

Regarding your last question I don't go for women who already have a partner, that's shitty, though so many people do it lately I think it's stupid and naive from me but I'm not going to change my values now... that's also why so many people avoid calling what they have a relationship, to keep their options open.

Safinated · 2023-09-13T15:45:14+00:00

Well, how’d it go? I’m sure it was successful since you’re so attractive, right?

Fabulous-Assistant16 · 2023-09-12T22:46:44+00:00

Dude, you're probably going to receive the biggest bitch slap in your life from the woman and walk out absolutely embarrassed or the guy will lefty righty you into a local ambulance. I dont think its worth it. i wouldn't do anything

modidlee · 2023-09-13T01:02:32+00:00

They come here and bitch and complain. This is similar to tall dudes that are flabbergasted when a woman rejects them but they see her with a shorter guy. The irony is that his response to not being the guy she chose is exactly why he gets rejected lmao

LeastAverageMonke · 2023-09-13T02:18:31+00:00

Relationships aren't about looks only

bruhminer · 2023-09-12T23:07:12+00:00

I don't think anything, I do not know enough to draw any conclusion. I have seen unattractive dudes with good looking women but it's so rare I don't really have any thoughts about it. Believe it or not there are women who do not care how good looking you are I guess, they're rare but I guess they do exist.

I'd also not do anything, because it would be cringe.

El-Carretero · 2023-09-13T07:47:48+00:00

Just remember that you don't know how things are behind closed doors. Many single moms have to get with much less attractive dudes because they need a man desperate enough to support her and Chad's kids. Many women cannot support themselves so they have to get some suckered that will work for them.

For all you know she doesn't want to give him any pussy and treats him like shit.

Men, how do you proceed when she is visibly interested and eye fucking you? Wait til he goes to the bathroom?

As for your question, I would stay away. 9.5/10 times she isn't worth the trouble.

browsing8 · 2023-09-12T22:43:42+00:00

She could be with him for commitment after she had fun with better looking men for casual sex, maybe he provides financial utility. Could be a number of things and u don’t see how the relationship dynamic works behind closed doors

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-12T22:47:49+00:00

wait, so you're tryna steal his girl? That's fucked up...

Anyway, if she looks single and you have rizz, you can just chat her up in front of him. He won't do shit about it, which will diminish his value to her.

uselessloner123 · 2023-09-12T22:39:49+00:00

I usually think they were high school sweethearts or have some really niche hobby and alt lifestyle that brought them together.

So basically these are caused by rare events that are mostly anomalies in the dating market.

The general trend of the dating market follows the blackpill.

leadfarmer154 · 2023-09-12T23:09:02+00:00

He has money, a massive dong, she doesn't yet understand her value or he is just a place holder till long term guy comes along.

RopeorDope1 · 2023-09-13T01:19:29+00:00

As the president of normal dudes, I would tell you to take your meds and go to bed.

hydro9889 · 2023-09-13T02:01:49+00:00

based go get her, if she cheats its entirely her fault because she can always so no.

Global-Nerve-381 · 2023-09-12T22:45:19+00:00

I don't fuck with her because I don't want to fuck with women who disrespect their dude like that regardless of what a putz he may or may not be.

She's for the streets either way.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-12T22:35:10+00:00

Does he have a straight hairline with a full head of hair? How tall is he?

DurtyDanky · 2023-09-13T02:47:46+00:00

This is made up

SilentFroggy · 2023-09-12T23:19:42+00:00

Never seen

philseven12 · 2023-09-13T01:17:54+00:00

there are different rules for different men. various factors including race, age, financial status, and location. i live in japan, so women are more strict about judging my appearance but other foreigners will get more slack

for this situation, id be careful because dudes will crash out over a chick and u could get your life took. what for another opportunity to open up

Odd-Pay-9906 · 2023-09-13T08:58:44+00:00

Usually money, dick size, height, or she’s weird as hell as well

Edit: I skimmed through this and thought you were asking why she was with him. Fuck you OP

Rozmpounia · 2023-09-13T09:23:40+00:00

There are outliars,the outliars are the bane of our existence and inkwells.Maybe she's young too but in the future I'm sure asf she will suck chadstick in the future,sure asf

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-09-13T11:29:16+00:00

I just assume he either has a huge dong or is rich

anon12101 · 2023-09-13T20:08:51+00:00

Bro code

Never fw another man’s girl

Especially if he’s quiet, shy, etc. don’t just see that as a right to be a dickhead because you think you’ll get no backlash

Title	Normal dudes here - what do you do when you see a cute chick with a dude much less attractive than you who is visibly lacking in game/confidence?
Author	Igloo-Pincher
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Date	September 12, 2023 10:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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