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The Danny DeVito rule.

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September 2, 2022

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Title	The Danny DeVito rule.
Author	smallstarseeker
Upvotes	47
Comments	73
Date	September 2, 2022 4:54 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/x46iot/the_danny_devito_rule/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/the-danny-devito-rule.1139623 https://theredarchive.com/post/1139623

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[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago* (18 children) | Copy Link

unfortunately that porn is mostly consumed by women. what really shocks most men when they first find out about this or 365 days is just how ABSOLUTELY SHATTERED their preconceptions of women's sexuality are when they find out that women enjoy this sort of content and even produce it. FSOG and 365D were both books produced by women adapted into films, and FSOG was translated into more languages than the koran.

it is insane how deeply the denial runs and i'm glad i had someone to show me this shit, because every last one of my relatives, close and distant, would've denied it if i asked till they were blue in the face. your average male grows up being told by mom, aunty and the telly that women love "good" men who do as they are told and don't expect anything in return and only if they consistently prove that they're good people. (i'm sure you've heard all about that from people in this side of reddit.)

if women voted the way they fucked, i don't doubt that something like the NSDAP would win every election. and i don't believe that male sexuality is nobler, men are obviously not morally better. but seems to me there's less of a disconnect between what they say they want and what they go for.

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You really have no idea about what I am trying to get across here.

Women have an enormous power over men. If women would consistently reward certain behaviour sexually and romantically then all men would do this behaviour.

At the same time women constantly lie about their own preferences and especially men are lied to about what women are looking for.

Men grow up with certain ideas what they have to do to appeal to women e.g. Treat her nice, buy her flowers etc... But most of that is total lies. Men who fully adhere to these traditional rules usually end up lonely and frustrated and resent women because he sees that you sleep with men who are not following the standards he is trying to adhere to.

I am not saying in any way that women should be less sexual. I actually see it as a problem that you are only sexually attracted to a small minority of men. I want women to be more open about their sexuality and tell us what you actually want.

But it does not matter how bad the men you are attracted to treat you. Sometimes you are even specifically turned on by toxic narcicistic and egoistic behaviour. Many women want to be dominated by a dangerous man.

The "nice guys" see that you vote for that and the nice guys start giving up their nice behaviour because they see that it does not help them get laid.

Women could collectively make men behave much better, but you consistently reward toxic behaviour with your pussies.

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I think that's cause it's not socially acceptable for women to speak about their sexual preferences, and even less so non vanilla sexual preferences. I also think a lot of women want to retain their reputation of innocence, and women aren't interested in being slut-shamed or looked down on for enjoying these things, myself included.

Personally I do enjoy a lot of BDSM with violent aspects to them because the power dynamic turns me on and pain translates to a lot of pleasure. Way more pleasure than I get from vanilla sex.

Just some of my own thoughts; the movies 365D and FSOG aren't good representations of healthy consensual BDSM Dynamics or relationships, but do they necessarily need to be? While it be nice to watch a movie with healthy BDSM relationship dynamics, part of what makes the plot of these movies somewhat interesting (not saying they're that interesting... they're rather dull softcore porn movies with a lot of music video montages and eye candy) is the conflicts.. and also they're fantasy movies, they're not supposed to reflect real relationships (though there certainly are people in BDSM Dynamics that are mistreated or abused) but I digress.

In the BDSM world, there's something called CNC or consensual non consent. Sex fantasies of rape play is a kink I think is way more common than most people think but it's also very taboo. Like if I went into a PC sub and stated that I enjoy rape play or CNC a lot of angry feminists would tell me I have internalized misogyny or that I have unresolved trauma or some other bull, and victims of actual rape may take offense that there's people who actually enjoy these kinda fantasies.

Though I was not a participant of FDS, I got banned from their sub for commenting in the BDSM sub because according to them BDSM is abuse, which is a fairly common misunderstanding but belief amongst a lot of feminists, and in particular radfems.

men are obviously not morally better.

And this is part of the issue. As long as people view CNC or rape kinks as immoral, obviously women aren't going to state this is something they enjoy to the public to protect their image and reputation. Men on this sub has frequently commented on how important the purity and innocence (n count etc) of their partner is and how important it is to a great deal of of men. Why would women go out and share their kinks if that would make men view them as "sluttier" and more "promiscuous"?

but seems to me there's less of a disconnect between what they say they want and what they go for.

Perhaps because the stigma vs men and women isn't the same?

Just some thoughts.

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