So I caught my wife cheating and I want to get a divorce. She broke my passenger mirror and also smashed my windshield when I came to get my clothes. The next day she came to work and slashed all 4 of my tires. When I texted her about transferring the cellphone line to her name and removing her from my car insurance she said she got a court order that once I’m served I won’t be able to communicate with her and come near her and that I won’t be able to cancel the lines and insurance. She also said that I have to returned the mortgage money that I transferred to our joint account to fix my car and get a new apartment and claim she will call the cops to get me arrested because it’s fraud. And last she said I will still have to pay her because we are still married. Right now she’s not working because of government shut down but when she works she makes 3 times more money than I do. How much of what she says is true and how can I deal with this. I definitely want to contest the temporary restraining order because she’s the one who attack my car and it will make it harder and more expensive to communicate with her through the divorce. I’m not a threat to her.