Finding potential evidence that..

Low_Distribution5188 · 2024-10-20T22:19:47+00:00

38 months in a sexless marriage was she cheating I don't know..my wife filed for divorce last month September 2024..gotta sort things out gonna take a year or more to finalize the divorce..I wish her the best..

suspicious_bag_1000 · 2024-10-20T22:08:05+00:00

With all respect. You’re worried about your ex flirting with someone? Dude- i say this in a supportive way, but who cares? She’s not gonna stay celibate the rest of her life and neither should you. Get out there and flirt with some women yourself. Don’t concern yourself with things that don’t matter anymore.

Sea_Emu_4259 · 2024-10-20T17:52:33+00:00

TODO list in case u suspect cheating

STD check
DNA parental test
Check if Eligible to Homewrecker Law to get lot $$$

MousseKnuckle00 · 2024-10-20T17:28:20+00:00

My wife left me and within 2 weeks heard she was with someone 14 years younger. It’s a painful thing to deal with, but it’s all about moving forward and getting yourself where you need.

capnjackstation · 2024-10-20T17:05:03+00:00

I’d say > 80% of the time if there’s not a history of abuse there is a monkey branch going on.

Movieman_Steve · 2024-10-20T16:41:31+00:00

My stbx was the other woman in a relationship before I met her, she told me this one night before we were engaged but I let it slide cause I was in love. Now I know that she's had another person in the wings the last year we've been married cause of her "late night meetings" and that she's "not hungry due to her not feeling well". I found a receipt for 2 people to have dinner the next day when she gave the "not feeling well" excuse the night before. It hurt at first but there's a reason why the windshield in a car is bigger in the front than in the back. It's to look at the bigger things in front of you instead of looking at the things getting smaller as you go thru life. And you can't look back if she left and served you the divorce papers.

Beauty2218 · 2024-10-20T16:41:07+00:00

It’s a distraction. She’s doing the exact opposite of what any therapist/counsellor would advise. People need to properly grieve in order to move past the pain of divorce, there’s an actual process. She’s idiotic if she thinks these actions will move her forward with another man. My 2 cents: it’s truly not that simple to find “the one” or someone your truly compatible With in every regard.

Gillilnomics · 2024-10-20T14:47:11+00:00

My ex did the same. She was talking to someone before we ever split, and I found her love notes to him as I was moving out. She still won’t admit that he was real though.

Recently I was talking with her cousin, who she kicked out of her life over some petty female nonsense, and she let me know that her family sees right through her. She has a history I wasn’t aware of, and I’m not the first, or the last to be cheated on.

Women that cheat are simply showing their inner turmoil, but in todays world it’s celebrated as “independence” and “power”.

Let her go, try not to let it bother you. That’s advice that I struggle with daily, but it’s true and it helps.

captainchippsixx · 2024-10-20T13:44:04+00:00

Absolutely. Skip separation if you can and go right to divorce.

Long-Review-1861 · 2024-10-20T10:24:18+00:00

If it's out of nowhere, there's another cock on the prowel.

Every guy thinks his woman is different and would never do something like this. You think you're the exception, until you aren't

Several-Eagle4141 · 2024-10-20T10:12:10+00:00

My separated wife was happy to tell me she’s dating. I think it would crush her more knowing what I’ve done.

The Jeff Foxworthy joke was that a woman doesn’t get off her horse unless she has another picked from the stable.

LoveCrispApples · 2024-10-20T09:55:13+00:00

It's sad, but usually the case more often than not. Vows don't mean much to a lot of people anymore.

Title	Finding potential evidence that..
Author	Tonberry38
Upvotes	21
Comments	22
Date	October 20, 2024 9:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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